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LEGACY, PLANNING & MORE
You Can’t Take It with You. But You Can Leave Instructions.

When we think about estate planning, we tend to focus on the big things: the house, retirement accounts, investments, and life insurance. We make plans for our financial assets, update our beneficiaries, and decide who will handle the important details when we're gone. 

But what about everything else? 

The jewelry tucked away in a drawer. The artwork hanging on the walls. The family china, the vintage record collection, the tools in the garage, and the box of photographs in the attic. What about the things that might not be worth much financially but mean the world to us—or to someone we love? 

With Boomers set to pass down more than $3 trillion in tangible goods, aka “stuff,” to Gen X over the next decade, the question isn't whether our belongings will need attention. It's whether we're going to make that process easier for the people we leave behind. 

Because here's the thing: your family shouldn't have to guess what you wanted to happen to the things you leave behind. 

...Your family shouldn't have to guess what you wanted to happen to the things you leave behind.

At Artifcts, we believe estate planning should go beyond financial assets. It should include the objects that tell our stories, the memories attached to them, and the wishes we have for their future. And with National Estate Planning Awareness Week as our reminder to get organized (it's this week!), there's no better time to start. 

Give Your Family a Roadmap with “In the Future” 

Imagine your family sorting through your home after you're gone. They find a beautiful necklace, but no one knows whether it was promised to a daughter, granddaughter, or a niece. They discover a collection you spent decades building, but have no idea whether you wanted it sold, donated, or kept together. They come across a box of treasured keepsakes and wonder which ones mattered most to you. 

These aren't just logistical questions. They're emotional ones, too. 

Without guidance, even well-intentioned families can find themselves navigating difficult decisions during an already painful time. They may disagree about what to keep, worry about making the wrong choice, or unknowingly part with something another family member would have treasured. Our co-founder Heather experienced all three scenarios when going through her mother's estate. Spoiler alert, it was not fun. 

That's why we created Artifcts' “In the Future” feature. When you create an Artifct you can also document what you'd like to happen to that item down the road. 

Want your granddaughter to inherit your favorite necklace? Record it. Hope your beloved book collection stays together? Say so. Prefer that a piece of furniture be donated to someone who needs it? Make that clear. Already parted with an item? Update its record so no one goes on a scavenger hunt looking for something you no longer own. 

The choice is yours. The important part is making your wishes known. And because your wishes deserve a place in your broader estate plan, your Artifcts can be easily exported and shared with your estate planning attorney or advisor, or incorporated into the documentation that supports your will. No more scattered notes, mysterious lists, or guesswork about who gets what. 

Instead, you can provide a practical roadmap for your family, with the added benefit of capturing the why behind each decision. 

After all, knowing that a watch belonged to your grandfather is one thing. Knowing he wore it every day of his life, that it traveled with him across the ocean, and that he hoped it would one day belong to you? That's something else entirely. 

Your Artifcts Deserve to Live On: Meet Legacy Contacts 

There's another important piece of estate planning that can easily be overlooked: your digital legacy. 

Think about the time you've invested in creating your Artifcts. You've photographed meaningful objects, recorded family stories, uploaded documents, and preserved memories that might otherwise have been lost. You've created something valuable—not just for yourself, but for the people who come after you. 

What happens to all that work when you're no longer here? 

At Artifcts, we believe your Artifcts are no different from the tangible assets you'll leave behind. You've put time, thought, and care into documenting your life's stories. Your heirs should have the opportunity to receive and enjoy that legacy, too. That's where our Legacy Contacts feature comes in. 

Unlike platforms that may offer only one designated legacy contact, Artifcts encourages you to name both a primary and a secondary Legacy Contact. Why? Because life is unpredictable. The person you initially choose may move, become unavailable, or pass away before you do. Having a backup helps ensure that the stories and memories you've worked so hard to preserve have a better chance of reaching the people you love. 

Your primary and secondary Legacy Contacts are the trusted people you designate to help carry your Artifcts forward. They might be family members, close friends, or another trusted individual who understands the importance of preserving your stories. 

By setting up your Legacy Contacts, you're taking a simple but meaningful step toward ensuring your Artifcts don't disappear when you do. 

And there's a distinction we think matters: your Artifcts remain your stories, told in your voice. Your Legacy Contacts help preserve and pass them along, so the memories you've chosen to document can continue to inform, connect, and inspire future generations. 

Setting Up Your Legacy Contacts Is Easy 

Ready to put your plan in place? 

Sign in to your Artifcts account. Navigate to Account Settings → Security & Longevity → Preserve My Artifcts. Add the email addresses for your primary and secondary Legacy Contacts. Review the available account longevity options and confirm your preferences. 

You can update your contacts as life changes. It's a small task that can make a big difference in the future. 

Estate Planning Is About More Than What You Own. It's About What You Leave Behind. 

We know that thinking about our own mortality isn't exactly how most of us want to spend an afternoon, but estate planning doesn't have to be an exercise in worrying about what might happen. It can be an act of care for the people who matter most. 

It's an opportunity to spare your family unnecessary stress. To help prevent misunderstandings. To make sure treasured possessions find the right homes. And to preserve the stories, traditions, and memories that might otherwise disappear along with the objects themselves. 

You don't have to document everything in one sitting, either. Start with three things that matter to you. Take a photo. Tell the story. Add the important details. Then use “In the Future” to record your wishes for each item. Once you've started building your collection, make sure you've designated your primary and secondary Legacy Contacts. 

As you go, consider sharing your Artifcts with your estate planning attorney or advisor so your wishes for tangible belongings can be reflected in the appropriate estate planning documents. And remember, the most meaningful things you leave behind aren't always the most expensive. Sometimes they're the handwritten recipe card, the well-worn baseball glove, the necklace passed between generations, or the ordinary-looking object that carries an extraordinary story. 

This National Estate Planning Week, Give Your Family the Gift of Clarity 

The great stuff transfer is already on the horizon. The question is whether we'll leave our families with a lifetime of possessions to sort through—or a thoughtful roadmap that helps them understand what matters, what comes next, and why. 

At Artifcts, we're here to help you do just that. Document the things you love. Preserve the stories behind them. Record your wishes for their future. And designate the people who can help carry your digital legacy forward. 

Your stuff has a story. Your stories deserve to live on. And your family deserves to know what you wanted them to do next. This National Estate Planning Week, don't leave your family guessing. Leave them a plan, a story, and a legacy worth sharing. 

Ready to get started? Visit Artifcts.com to begin documenting your keepsakes, exploring the “In the Future” feature, and designating your Legacy Contacts. 

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Looking for additional resources to help you jump start the conversation? We highly recommend AfterLight Founder, and co-founder of PALS Rachel Donnelly's book, Late to Your Own Funeral: How to Leave A Legacy And Not A Logjam. 

We also sat down with Rachel last year for an in-depth conversation about preparing with the end in mind. You can read more about our conersation here.

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Family History Month ... Your Way!

October is Family History Month—a perfect opportunity to pause and think beyond names, dates, and genealogy charts and consider the stories that make your family history uniquely yours.

At Artifcts, we see family history everywhere: in the china passed down from a grandmother, the recipe card covered in her handwriting, an old photograph tucked into an album, a piece of jewelry worn for decades, or an everyday object that carries a story only one person in the family still remembers.

These keepsakes and heirlooms are more than “stuff.” They are tangible connections to the people, places, traditions, experiences, and values that came before us. But without the stories behind them, those connections can easily become lost over time.

 

That’s why we take Family History Month as an opportunity to document and preserve the stories, memories, and value behind the things that matter to us. Whether you’re a dedicated genealogist or someone who simply has a few treasured family objects, October is a great excuse to capture what you know—and share it with the people who will want to know it someday.

So this Family History Month, do it your way. Start with an heirloom. Tell the story behind a photograph. Capture a favorite family recipe. Record what you remember about the person who gave you something special. Preserving family history isn't only about remembering who came before us; it’s also about making sure future generations understand why the things we leave behind mattered.

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Hello Family Genealogists, Historians, And Those In the Making

You don't have to be a professional genealogist—or even particularly interested in genealogy—to be a keeper of your family's history.

Maybe you've spent years researching your family tree and have boxes of documents, photographs, and notes to prove it. Or maybe your family history lives in a much less organized collection: a few old photographs, Grandma's carnival glass collection, an old journal, your father's favorite chair, or stories you've heard so many times you assume you'll always remember them.

But here's the thing: family history isn't just about names, dates, and where your ancestors came from. It's about the stories and meaning behind the things that connect us to the people who came before us. And those stories are surprisingly easy to lose.

The person who knows why that painting hung in the family room. The person who remembers where a particular piece of jewelry came from. The person who can explain why everyone makes the holiday stuffing that way. When that person is gone, the object may remain—but the story can disappear with them. That's where Artifcts can help.

Rather than trying to document your entire family history at once, start with one thing that matters. Take a photo. Add what you know. Tell the story behind it. Capture a memory, a voice recording, a video, or any other detail that helps explain what it is, why it matters, and what you hope happens to it next. That's the heart of Artifcting.

And don't worry if you don't know everything. Start with what you do know. Share your Artifcts with family members and invite them to fill in the blanks. Your memories can spark someone else's, and together you can create a richer picture of your family's story.

Think of it as passing down more than an object. You're passing down the context, the connection, and the “why” that makes it meaningful.

You're passing down the context, the connection, and the “why” that makes it meaningful.

A Few Easy Ways to Start

  • Choose a family heirloom. What is it? Who did it belong to? How did it come into your family? Most importantly, why does it matter?

  • Capture a family recipe. Don't just save the ingredients. Record who made it, when your family enjoyed it, and those little tricks that never made it onto the recipe card.

  • Add the story to an old photograph. Identify the people, place, and occasion—but also capture whatever you remember about that moment.

  • Ask someone to tell you their story. Sit with a parent, grandparent, aunt, uncle, or longtime family friend and ask about the things they've kept. You may be surprised by what you learn.

  • Share what you've captured. Family history becomes more valuable when it's accessible to the people who will carry it forward.

 
 
 
 
 

You don't need to preserve everything, and you don't need to know everything. Just start with something that matters—and make sure its story doesn't get lost.

Share the History

The reality is not all families have a family keeper, that person who by choice or default holds onto the heirlooms, photos, recipes, and slew of documents that represent generations of a family’s history. Or maybe you are a solo ager, the last keeper, or recent inheritor of all this family history and are thinking, “Now what? I really don’t want this stuff.” 

There’s a second reality that is important to recognize: family history is not only family history. Sometimes family history is part of local, national, or even global history. It offers clues to key figures, ways of living, and the social, political, and religious practices of a place in time. So, consider sharing pieces of your family history with the world through donations. 

  • Philanthropic donations. Consider galleries, libraries, research centers, foundations, and museums with specialties that may overlap with your items. Donations are not necessarily only in the realm of inherently valuable objects. Often, you guessed it, the story behind the object is the key. Don’t know the story either? That’s okay. Reach out to an institution, share your items, and give them the opportunity to tell you!  
  • Archival donations. Transform your personal family history into elements of a shared community history by offering your items to professional archives. What types of items might fit this category? As a starter: scrapbooks, journals, letters, and diaries; original business materials (certificates, advertising, shares, board documents, voting records); media (photographs, slides, film, even websites too). You can learn more at the Society of American Archivists. 

Using Artifcts? Before you donate, Artifct the items to retain the family lore and history that’s relevant to you, and then share with family. Make sure no one else is interested in the item before you donate it, and attach any documentation related to your donation to the Aritfct. You can then rest easy knowing your family’s history will be in the capable professional hands of institutions that will preserve and protect them for generations to come. 

Let's Talk Wills and Legacy

We admit, not your typical topic for Family History Month, but hear us out. Wills are not simply about death, they also ease the burden on those we leave behind. We all too frequently ignore the items we've collected over time. And, no, they will not sort themselves into piles to sell, donate, or bequeath. At the end of the day, someone will have to make 1000s of decisions about what becomes of every single item. Do you really want to leave a burden as your legacy? 

Wouldn’t you rather everyone be better prepared and informed? Not only will making a plan and creating documents make it easier for your family to pick up the pieces, but they can also help loved ones understand why you valued the items you are leaving behind. We've got some tips to help:

  • Don’t have a Will? There are many wonderful estate planning attorneys in each community who can help you with this process. But this is an industry transformed by the digital revolution, and then some. If you are looking for a digital, self-guided approach, check out our fellow AARP AgeTech Collaborative partners at Trust & Will.   
  • Haven’t really seen your Will in a while? Give it a checkup. There's no time like the present. Add it to your to-do list this month! 
  • Confirm: Are the major themes covered?  Consider your physical estate, digital assets, retirement accounts, powers of attorney, medical directives, living wills, minor children, and even relatives with disabilities.  
  • Is there a list of tangible assets referenced in your Will? Your Will may provide for a separate “Memorandum” that can be updated and changed at any time without making any changes to your Will.  
        • No list? Start. Just take a first cut by looking around the house (or your Artifcts collection!). 
        • Already have a list? Double check that it covers at least those items of greatest financial or heart (sentimental) value. 

Using Artifcts? Pick three or four of your most treasured items to Artifct and let your loved ones know why each item matters to you. Use the "In the Future" field to think through and record what you would like to happen to this item one day. Will it be passed down? Rehomed? Sold? Consider sharing the Artifct with your estate planner or attorney to list with other tangible assets referenced in your Will.   

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Artifcting Starter Resources 

We have all sorts of resources that can help you make the most of Family History Month this October:

Inspiration Checklists

Videos on YouTube

Artifcting Quick Tips

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The Gift of Being Prepared

August is National Make a Will Month—a timely reminder to pause and make sure the people and things we care about will be taken care of when we can no longer do it ourselves. 

Here at Artifcts, we’re all about preparing for life’s what-ifs. Some are joyful: What if we move into our dream home? What if the kids grow up and start families of their own? What if we downsize and discover a simpler way of living? Others are harder to contemplate: What if something happens to me? 

Planning for that possibility isn’t morbid. It’s an act of love.  

The ultimate gift you can give your family isn’t necessarily something they can unwrap. It’s the gift of being prepared so that when they are grieving, they aren’t also left to navigate a lifetime of paperwork, possessions, keepsakes, questions, and decisions without knowing what you would have wanted. 

A Will Is a Beginning, Not the Full Story 

When we think about estate planning, we tend to think about the big things: the house, investments, retirement accounts, life insurance, and other financial assets. 

And yes, those things matter. A will or broader estate plan provides an essential framework for what happens to your assets and who is responsible for carrying out your wishes. 

But what about everything else? 

The jewelry in the dresser, the artwork on the walls, the tools in the garage, and the family photographs. Or maybe it’s the collection you spent decades building, your wedding china, or your handwritten recipe cards. What about the odd little object sitting on your mantle that looks completely ordinary to everyone else but holds a story only you know? 

Traditional estate planning can be very good at answering what goes where. It doesn't always capture why something matters. As former Artifcts Advisory Board Member and CFP Dutch Miller has written, estate planning has historically focused on assets that have monetary value while overlooking the family history, legacy, and values attached to the things that may have little or no financial value

That’s where the real work of being prepared begins. 

Don't Leave Your Family Guessing 

Imagine your family opening the door to your home after you're gone. They are already grieving. Now they have to figure out what to do with everything you left behind. 

Which pieces of furniture mattered to you? Who should get the jewelry? Is that painting valuable—or simply sentimental? Why did you keep those letters? Who in the family would appreciate the old camera? Should they sell, donate, keep, or give away the things filling the house? 

And perhaps most importantly: What would you have wanted? Without some guidance, your family has to guess. 

We’ve seen firsthand how overwhelming that can be. The transfer of a lifetime of “stuff” can become an emotional and logistical burden for the people left behind. Not everything will have monetary value. Not everything will be wanted. And not every object needs to make its way into the next generation. But the things that do matter deserve to be identified, understood, and intentionally passed along.  

That’s why being prepared is about more than having a will. It’s about giving your loved ones a roadmap. 

Be Prepared with Artifcts 

At Artifcts, we’ve long talked about the importance of gifting your loved ones a why. 

Knowing that Grandma left you a particular piece of jewelry is one thing. Knowing that she wore it on her wedding day, that her mother gave it to her, and that she hoped you would wear it someday is something entirely different. 

The story changes the object. It creates connections, preserves memories, and can even reduce conflict. And it helps your loved ones understand why a seemingly ordinary thing was important to you.  

You don't have to leave your family a perfectly curated museum of your life. You simply need to make some choices while you can. 

You don't have to leave your family a perfectly curated museum of your life. You simply need to make some choices while you can...

This August, as you review your will or estate plan, take a second look around your home. 

What do you want to: 

  • Bequeath to a specific person?
  • Keep in the family for future generations?
  • Donate to a person or organization?
  • Sell because it has financial value?
  • Pass along to someone who will truly appreciate it?
  • Let go of because it no longer serves a purpose? 

The choice is yours, but please, we beg you, make the choice. 

And for the things you choose to pass along, consider documenting the story behind them on our Artifcts App. A photograph, a few sentences, a video, an audio recording, a certificate of authenticity, an appraisal, or simply your own voice explaining why something matters can make an enormous difference later. 

With Artifcts, you can create a digital record of the things that matter to you, capture their stories and supporting documentation, and use the “In the Future” field to provide guidance about what should happen to an item when the time comes—keep, donate, sell, bequeath, or “as you wish.”  Think of it as creating a roadmap for the tangible pieces of your life. 

The Ultimate Gift Isn't More Stuff 

We often think of an inheritance as a gift. But what happens when an inheritance becomes a house full of decisions? 

As families navigate the Great Stuff Transfer, more and more people are discovering that inheriting a lifetime of possessions can be stressful, expensive, and emotionally complicated. The most meaningful inheritance isn't necessarily the largest one. It's the one that comes with context, intention, and understanding. 

Your children may not want everything you own. That's okay. Your grandchildren may not know the monetary value of an object. That's okay, too. 

What they may want—and what they may desperately need when you're gone—is to know what mattered to you, what you hoped would happen to the things you loved, and the stories that made your life yours. 

So, this month, give your family a gift they won't have to open for years. Give them the gift of being prepared. Take time to review your will or estate plan. Make sure it reflects your life and wishes today—not five, ten, or twenty years ago. 

Don't have a will or estate plan? Contact a local attorney or estate planner to help you get started. You can also explore our partner, and fellow AARP AgeTech Collaborative company Trust & Will, which offers online estate planning solutions.  

And don't forget your tangible assets. Walk through your home. Open the drawers. Look in the attic, basement, garage, and storage unit. Think about the objects that tell your story. Then start documenting them in Artifcts. 

Bequeath. Donate. Sell. Keep it in the family. Let it go. The choice is yours. Just don't leave your family guessing, because the greatest gift you can give the people you love isn't a house full of things to sort through or a binder full of paperwork to decipher. It's clarity. It's intention. It's the comfort of knowing what you wanted—and why. 

That's the gift of being prepared. 

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The Stories We Didn't Capture | Why Preserving Family Memories Matters

When people ask me why I believe so deeply in what we're building at Artifcts, I could talk about technology. I could talk about digital preservation, AI, or the challenge of organizing a lifetime of memories. But the real answer is much simpler. 

It's my mom. 

Like so many families, as she got older, my brothers and I wanted to preserve her stories. We wanted our kids and grandkids to know not just who she was, but how she lived, what she loved, and why certain objects mattered. 

Through Artifcts, my mom documented more than 200 items, photos, and memories. She photographed treasured keepsakes, family heirlooms, travel souvenirs, and pieces of history that had found their way into our family over the decades. She told stories that otherwise would have disappeared. When she passed away, those Artifcts became one of the greatest gifts she left behind. 

 

As my brothers and I worked through her belongings, we didn't have to wonder what mattered most to her. We knew. We knew which objects carried special meaning, which family stories deserved to be passed along, and why she had a rather well-preserved eight-foot snakeskin on her bookcase.  

Without Artifcts, so much of that would have been guesswork. And yet...even with more than 200 Artifcts, we discovered something that surprised us. There were still chapters of her life we knew very little about. 

The Stories We Never Thought to Ask About 

Looking back through everything she created, patterns emerged. She documented many wonderful historic family items. She preserved memories from decades of travel and living overseas in such far-flung places as Kathmandu, Rio de Janeiro, and Liberia. She captured objects connected to raising a family overseas and building a life with our dad. 

However, there was remarkably little from her teenage years. Who was she before she became our mother? What were her dreams? What music did she love? What friendships shaped her? What challenges did she overcome before she ever met our father? 

Then we noticed another gap. The last twenty years of her life were barely represented. 

Without a doubt, those years mattered too. They included new friendships, changing priorities, becoming a grandmother to an ever-growing brood of grandchildren, adapting to life's inevitable changes, and countless everyday moments (hello Rummikub champion!) that become precious only after someone is gone.  

Those stories are largely lost to us now. Not because she didn't live them, but because none of us realized they still needed to be captured. We had patted ourselves on the back saying “yep, Gradnmom’s got 200 Artifcts, we’re good,” and, “we’ve heard that story a thousand times, there’s no way we’ll forget it.” Except, somehow, we have. We’ve forgotten the little details and I’m sure mixed-up others. 

Even Hundreds of Stories Leave Room for More 

One of the biggest misconceptions about preserving family history is that it's about finishing an enormous project. It's not. No one ever reaches the point where they've told every meaningful story. 

Life keeps happening. Your story changes every year. The person you are today is different from the person you were ten years ago. The memories that feel ordinary now may become the stories your grandchildren treasure most someday. 

I see this differently now than I did before losing my mom. When someone is still with us, it's easy to assume there will always be another holiday, another phone call, another chance to ask, "Tell me about when..." 

Sometimes there isn't. 

The Objects Matter—Because the Stories Matter 

People often ask whether Artifcts is really about the objects. The objects are important; they're the prompts. A cookbook becomes the story of Sunday dinners. A passport becomes decades of adventure. A baseball glove becomes a childhood friendship. A wedding ring becomes sixty years of marriage. 

 
 
 
 

Although the objects may anchor our memories, the real treasure isn't always the object itself. It's knowing why it mattered. If I could go back, I'd ask more questions. 

  • I'd ask about the years before I existed. 
  • I'd ask about the years I thought I already understood. 
  • I'd ask about the ordinary days that didn't seem remarkable at the time. 

I can't do that now, but I can encourage others to start today. Take time to document your own story. Take time to capture the stories of the people you love. 

Photograph the objects that matter. Record why they matter. Ask the questions you've been meaning to ask. Preserve the memories that seem obvious today, because one day they won't be. My one closing thought? Leave your loved ones a legacy, not a mystery.  

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Looking for more inspiration to help you capture your stories? Check out our newest partner, MemoirGhostwriting.com, who has generously discounted their most popular memoir packages for our Artifcts members. 

You may also enjoy reading these additional ARTIcles from our Artifcts vault:

From 'Just Stuff' to Family Gold: The Power of Story

Storytelling Guide for Your Family Heirlooms

The Magic of a Guided Memoir

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The Great ‘Stuff’ Transfer: Avoid the Clutter and Preserve Your Legacy

The wealth being passed down from Baby Boomers isn’t just dollars — it’s decades’ worth of ‘stuff.’ As we enter what many call the Great Wealth Transfer, the children of Boomers are discovering that a big chunk of what they inherit comes in the form of physical objects: collections, vintage items, and sometimes things nobody quite knows what to do with. 

Our Co-Founder, Heather, discovered this firsthand after losing her mother and having to sort through SO. MUCH. STUFF. 

What’s Actually Being Inherited 

According to a recent Bloomberg article by Chris Rovzar, as much as $90 trillion in assets will change hands over the next few decades. But alongside financial assets lie a mounting inheritance of physical belongings. We're talking about antique furniture, sterling silver flatware, model trains, Hummel figurines, cut-crystal glassware — even miniature pianos. 

Some of these items carry deep sentimental value. For others, not so much. The result? Many heirs feel buried under a mountain of ‘stuff’ they didn’t necessarily ask for. 

Why There's So Much ‘Stuff’ 

Collectors never stopped collecting. Boomers who built their collections over their lifetimes didn’t always see them as clutter. Their passions were real — and they hoped their kids would appreciate them too. 

As we age, many of us may want to downsize. But instead of letting go, we hold on to beloved items or leave the bulk to the next generation. Matt Paxton, star of both Hoarders and Filthy Fortunes, and Advisor to Artifcts sees this daily as he and his team help families downsize and somehow deal with all the ‘stuff.’ 

We are also great at avoiding tough conversations. Not all families talk about what to keep and what to let go of. Without clear plans, decisions fall to the children — who are often under emotional stress. 

The Impact on the Next Generation 

For many Millennials and Gen Xers, dealing with their parents’ estates isn’t just a financial task — it’s deeply emotional work. Rovzar describes cleaning out a parent’s house as “upsetting, stressful and deeply sad,” but also cathartic when you find unexpected treasures like a long-lost recipe or beloved childhood memento. 

On the practical side: 

  • Storage is becoming a challenge. Some families use storage units to hold inherited objects, which can be costly. Self-storage is a $59 BILLION dollar industry in the US alone.  
  • Selling isn’t always easy. Vintage doesn’t always mean valuable. Many items have limited resale markets.
  • Keeping the legacy feels heavy. Not every object has a clear inheritor, and not all heirs want what their parents collected. 

What Can Be Done — Thoughtfully 

Do you find yourself or your loved ones staring at the oncoming ‘stuff’ tsunami and not sure what to do? We asked experts across the organizing, downsizing, and photo management industries on how to navigate this transfer of stuff. They offered up the following advice: 

Have conversations early. Parents and children should talk about what matters, what doesn’t, and what to do with sentimental vs. practical belongings. 

Prioritize what to keep. Not everything needs to survive for another generation. Choosing key heirlooms can help reduce clutter while preserving meaning. Check out our guide to Swedish Death Cleaning to help you purposefully choose which possessions to hold onto and which possessions to rehome or let go of altogether. 

 

Hot cocoa mugs Our Co-Founder Heather kept these vintage hot cocoa mugs after her mother passed--not for the financial value but because of the memories. 

Be realistic about disposal. Items that don’t hold value may be donated, recycled, or sold. A professional estate sale service can help. Learn more about estate sales and other online options for selling items in our Everything You Need to Know Before Heading to Your First Estate Sale ARTIcles story. 

Document provenance. If a piece has real historical or monetary value, keeping a record helps with future decisions and may make it more meaningful. It can also help your heirs not be “the ones” who accidentally donate a Picasso to Goodwill.  

Why This Matters 

This isn’t just a story about stuff — it’s about generational legacy, memory, and how we value our lives through objects. As wealth moves from one generation to the next, what we inherit isn't just bank accounts; it’s a tangible piece of who our parents and grandparents were. 

For many heirs, sorting through these items is more than a transaction. It’s a way to understand their loved ones, decide what to carry forward, and gently close chapters in a responsible and emotionally respectful way. Matt Paxton shares, "I always tell clients it's not just a chair. It's the person that sat in the chair, and the stories that they told. That's why THAT chair matters."

As you look around your home — or your parents’ if you happen to be heading home for the holidays— notice the items that hold meaning: 

  • The broach worn on a wedding day
  • The tool passed down from a grandfather
  • The ticket stub from a once-in-a-lifetime concert
  • The odd little figurine that always sat on the mantel 

Those keepsakes aren’t just things, they’re experiences, memories, and connections waiting to be captured. Take a moment to Artifct those items, capture the story, the history, and all the little details that make you smile, laugh, or remind you of your loved one(s). Give future generations the context they need — not just the clutter, because the real inheritance isn’t the ‘stuff.’ It’s the life stories and memories behind it. 

Still with us? Extra credit if you use our “In the Future” field to tell your heirs what to do with the item when the time comes — keep, donate, sell, bequeath, or “as you wish.” Lift the weight of uncertainty before it ever lands on their shoulders. 

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Before you decide what to do with a meaningful item, preserve the story behind it. One photo, a few memories, and the details only you know can help ensure that future generations inherit more than an object, they inherit the context, history, and meaning that made it matter.

Start with one item that tells part of your family's story.

Ready to preserve your own stories? Create a free Artifcts account and begin documenting what matters most.

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A Platinum Band, 21 Diamonds, and a Story Worth Saving

Two weeks before her wedding, our Co-Founder, Heather, found herself unexpectedly in a bind. 

She and her fiancé had carefully designed their wedding bands together. She wanted something simple, a plain platinum band with no embellishments. The design reflected her style perfectly, and she appreciated keeping costs modest. The ring was exactly what she wanted. 

Or so she thought. 

When she returned to pick up the finished rings, she slipped hers onto her finger and immediately felt something wasn't quite right. Sitting beside her engagement ring, the wedding band suddenly seemed too simple. 

The problem wasn't the ring itself. The problem was that she couldn't imagine replacing it. She and her fiancé had designed it together. The ring already carried meaning. 

Fortunately, the jeweler had an idea. What if they added 21 micro diamonds along two-thirds of the band? It would preserve the original design while adding just enough sparkle. The solution felt perfect, especially since her wedding date was on the 21st. 

Today, when she looks at her ring, she doesn't just see platinum and diamonds. She remembers the collaborative design process with her husband, the last-minute panic, and the jeweler's creative solution, and truly can’t imagine a more perfect wedding band. 

That's the thing about wedding rings: the object matters, but the story matters too. 

Wedding and engagement rings are among the most cherished possessions we own. They are symbols of love, commitment, family, and shared history. Yet while we often admire the setting, the craftsmanship, or the precious stones, the most valuable part of a ring may be something you cannot see at all, its story. 

How did the ring come into your life? Who chose it? What sacrifices were made to buy it? Was it passed down through generations? Did it survive a move across continents, a military deployment, or decades of family milestones? 

Years from now, the ring itself may still be sparkling. But unless someone preserves the story behind it, much of what gives it meaning can disappear.  

Every Ring Has a Story Worth Saving 

When people inherit jewelry, they often receive the object but not the context. A granddaughter may know that a ring belonged to her grandmother but never know how it was selected, what it cost relative to the family's circumstances, or why it became such a treasured symbol. 

The story might be: 

These stories transform a piece of jewelry into a family artifact. They connect generations through shared memories and experiences. At Artifcts, we believe preserving those stories is one of the greatest gifts you can leave for future generations. 

The Ring Is Beautiful. The Story Is Priceless. 

Every ring tells a different story. We asked several members of our team about their rings and their stories, and guess what? We learned something new about each of them! It goes to show that even here at Artifcts, a simple question (“What’s the story behind your wedding ring?”) can unlock a new connection, perspective, or even a good laugh.  

Here are a few examples from members of the Artifcts team. 

Heather Nickerson, Co-Founder & CEO 

The story continues! I will fully admit that when I returned to the jeweler to pick up my ring I had another scare. I pulled out my credit card to pay for the ring and paused for a minute (or two), not because of the price, but because that is what I had done in my first marriage which didn’t go so well. I was afraid it would bring bad luck to do the same thing the second time around.  
 
I’m very happy to share that those fears were completely unfounded. Our wedding day was perfect beyond words, and we are still very happily married. And to date, the only time I take my wedding ring off is when I am making meatloaf (his favorite!) or meatballs (my favorite!).  

 

Heather's wedding ring story. Sorry, this Artifcts is private!

Matt Ramsey, CTO 

Life can change quickly when you meet the right person, especially when you’re not planning on it and the relationship develops in a way you just know your life needs to head down this path. I realized this under a starry night sky while camping and that if we could put up a tent without arguing, we’d be good for any situation. So, I started searching for the right engagement ring that represented how our relationship was developing and how our lives were to be intertwined. While hiking and resting on a large boulder which I felt represented the solid foundation we’d built our relationship on, I asked and she accepted (maybe out of shock, but the “yes” was set in stone). 

When it came to a wedding band for me, I wanted something with a story, something representative of us. We found a jeweler that did custom rings, and we described who we were (outdoorsy, hikers, etc.) and the proposal story. We started looking at examples of rings with river wash designs that almost looked like water flowing around the ring. The ones he had already designed weren’t perfect for me. So, we took ideas from a couple of designs and he said he would fashion a new one incorporating all the elements of who we were and what grounded us in our relationship. It turned out perfectly and it is simple, unique, and symbolic to who we are as a couple and lifelong partners. 

Now, as I sit on an airplane or have a free moment where I’m fidgeting, I twist the ring around my finger and think of a running stream, mountains, and the fact I found my soulmate. 

 

Matt's wedding ring and story. Sorry, this Artifct is private! 

Mary Christian, Director of Marketing & Strategic Partnerships 

At 19, getting married wasn't something I had seriously imagined for myself. But after flying from my hometown of Atlanta to visit my longtime boyfriend in Minot, North Dakota, where he had recently been stationed, I realized my future might be closer than I thought. What began as a visit quickly became a turning point. Standing in a place so different from everything I had known, I could suddenly picture a life that extended beyond the plans I had made for myself and included him in ways I hadn't fully considered before. 

It was December 2007, and Corey (my now husband) proposed to me in Roosevelt Park in front of the statue of Roosevelt himself in the snow. I didn't choose the ring, but when I saw it, I immediately fell in love with it. I think it was more special in my eyes because he picked it himself with the little money he had. I was never afraid to go for what I wanted, and I knew being with Corey was something that I wanted to do, so I said "Yes."  

Showing the ring to my college roommates and friends at Georgia College and State was...to say the least, quite the show! They all couldn't believe that I was choosing marriage at a time most people were choosing parties and beer. I loved my ring and still do. I've never had it updated after almost 18 years of marriage, except it's been through its fair share of sizing changes through pregnancy, weight loss, and hormones. Today, it's still beautiful, and still something that I love and probably won't ever change. It does need another update in size sometime soon. As the last time I travelled, I almost lost it on the plane home! I hope my kids more than anything know that my ring to me represents my freedom to choose what I wanted in life no matter what anyone told me was expected or "right" and that they always have the right to choose their path in life no matter what society says. 

 

How to Artifct Your Wedding or Engagement Ring 

The beauty of Artifcting a ring is that you are preserving far more than a photograph. You are capturing the memories, context, significance, and value that future generations might never otherwise know. And, if you want to, you can also give your family instructions for what happens next to the ring using our "In the Future" field.  

As you create an Artifct for your ring, consider including photos through the years from your engagement, your wedding day, milestone anniversaries, and even everyday moments where the ring appears naturally. 

These images help tell a richer story and show how the ring (and maybe even the wearer!) has changed over time. Our co-founder Heather knows that her ring has developed a lot of “character” over the years, as have her hands. The perfectly manicured hands from her wedding day are not the caked in flour, I-just-made-pizza-dough-hands of today.  

As you Artifct your ring, consider recording details such as: 

  • When and where the ring was purchased
  • Who selected it
  • Why this particular design was chosen
  • The proposal story
  • The wedding date and location 

Often the most meaningful details are the most personal: 

  • What did the ring symbolize at that moment in your lives?
  • What challenges or milestones has it witnessed?
  • What do you hope future generations understand about your relationship? 

Consider attaching attached documents and supporting materials such as: 

  • Jewelry appraisals and receipts (great for insurance purposes!)
  • Design sketches
  • Notes, letters, or cards exchanged during the engagement 

These pieces help create a fuller historical record, while also clearly documenting the ring for insurance or estate planning purposes. 

You may also want to consider recording your voice and attaching it to the Artifct as an audio file. One of the most powerful ways to preserve a story is to tell it yourself. Add an audio recording to allow future family members to hear the story in your own words. 

The Ring Is Only Part of the Legacy 

A wedding ring may last for generations. But the stories attached to it are often far more fragile. Without intentional preservation, details fade. Memories become fuzzy. Family members pass away. Eventually, descendants may know they inherited "Grandma's ring" without understanding why it mattered so much. 

When you preserve the story, you preserve the meaning. You ensure that future generations understand not only what the ring is, but what it represented: love, commitment, resilience, family, and the life built around it. 

Artifct Your Ring Today 

If you have a wedding ring, engagement ring, anniversary band, or inherited family ring, don't wait for the story to fade. Take a few minutes to Artifct it today. 

Capture the photographs. Record the memories. Add the documents. Tell the story in your own words. Because one day, someone you love may inherit the ring. And the story you save today could become one of their most treasured family heirlooms. 

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Need inspiration for documenting family treasures? Explore our guide on how to Artifct an heirloom and discover simple ways to preserve both the object and the memories that make it meaningful. 

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