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Three Things I Discovered by Curating My Photos

April 23, 2025

We’re at a point in history and culture when normal social discourse means conversations may include topics like minimalism, decluttering, and made-up concepts like ‘stuffocation’ and ‘stuffidemics.’ And while we might think about going room by room through the bulkier tangible things we keep to declutter our lives, you know what else threatens to bury us? Photographs.

Historically, photographs were the domain of professionals who we posed for and who captured beautiful artistic photographs. We didn’t have a lot of them. It was a lot more expensive, so each one tended to mean more to us.

Now we’ve gone from photos being treasured moments and memories to a proliferation that started back in the 50s and 60s and vastly accelerated with 35mm film—remember all those double and triple prints you’d get so you could distribute them to all your friends and create albums that are now decaying? Maybe you don’t remember who is even in them and half are blurry or badly composed anyway.

And now DIGITAL photos! We take an estimated 5.3 billion photos daily worldwide. Think about that! This is where we’ve done ourselves a disservice because we’ve lost the story thread – why any one of those photos matter. Regular folks like us don’t want to sift through “metadata” on a photo to understand why it matters to us, when we took it, where we were. This is not a pleasant experience.

Digital photo statistics

And the ease of digital also undermines us as we declutter and organize our homes, where if you follow the advice of old, “Take a photo, and let the stuff go,” now that means that photo is very quickly 20 back, 140 back, 1,000 back on your phone. You’ve totally forgotten you took the photo and never shared the story or done anything to remember why it mattered to you.

You may also be interested in A Virtual Impossibility: Keeping Up with All My Digital Photos.

Artifcts and Curating Your Photo Collection

Today when we tell people to clean up and curate their photo collections to something meaningful, we have a truly daunting and growing task in front of us. Even for those photos from the 60s and 70s this is a problem.

While many people won’t have a lot of photos from that time, the photos they do have are very likely housed in shoe boxes, photo albums, or scrapbooks. One day, when our co-founder Ellen Goodwin was working through one of her parents’ scrapbooks, “Because it’s falling apart and needed to be digitized,” she paused to take a picture of a black and white photo of her mother playing tennis. “I took the photo because my immediate thought was, ‘My mother does NOT play tennis.’ It might as well be a Halloween costume.” Ellen’s daughter caught her taking the picture and was confused, “Why are you taking a picture of that? Who is it?”

Woman in white tennis outfit, swinging a racket

So here we go – one generation removed, and the story is gone; a second generation removed, and it’s become someone’s genealogy project or fodder for an AI-powered facial recognition tool. Who is that in the photo?

One generation removed, and the story behind the photo is gone; a second generation removed, and it’s become someone’s genealogy project. Who is that in the photo?

Your Three-Step Photo Curation-to-Story Formula

We know we can do better than to store our photos and cross our fingers that they stay safe and stay relevant. We can curate our photos, the best of, seminal moments, works of art. We can marry those photos with their stories through Artifcts, because a picture is NOT always worth 1,000 words. 

Ellen often shares an example of this based on a subset of photos of her daughter. “I literally have more than 1,000 photos of my kid swimming. She’s been at it for more than half of her lifetime, on three different club teams and now a high school swim team, too. But there’s that ONE picture where she’s flexing her arms and smiling up at me in the stands because she just got her first USA Swimming BB time.”

First USA Swimming BB Time, Artifcts

It’s one of the favorite photos she’s Artifcted. It includes a video of the swim from that day and the story. Ellen acknowledges, “My daughter being 14 years old may not appreciate it now, or even in another 14 years, but she will someday, and it will be here in Artifcts, easy to share, and in a bite sized story format that is within our ever-shrinking attention spans.”

Use this formula to simplify your photo-to-story process so you, too, can make progress on capturing what matters most – the stories behind those photos.

1 - CURATION. You guessed it, start with curation. We live in a bite-sized world with bite-sized attention spans. This is reinforced by research, too. Miller’s Law says that that short-term memory is limited to seven items, plus or minus two. Hedge your bets and go with five items, like the five photos and/or videos you can include in a single Artifct to tell a story.

Besides, achievable goals support habit formation. If you want to make progress in culling through those digital photos, do not try to boil the ocean. Pick a few, Artifct them with a story, and call it a day. Don’t take on an entire memoir at once!

2 - CONTEXT. To avoid getting twisted in knots over what to say about a photo, simply start with something true, e.g. who took the picture?

If you move on through the five Ws like they taught you in grade school, one W, one memory, will unlock others. For example, true story of asking a mom about a wooden cat that’s a piece of decoration:

Mom: “Oh, well, that’s a cat.”  

Daughter: “Thanks, Mom, I can see that. Where did it come from?”  

Mom: “I carved it. I was 16, and it was part of a wood shop class I took.”  

Daughter: “Wood shop in the 60s? For GIRLS?!”  

Mom: “Yes. And actually it was the first year the boys’ and girls’ schools were combined. There was a boy who was jealous of my cat and stole it. It took a while to get it back.” 

And on and on it goes! 

3 - SHARING. Myths, legends, fireside tales, they live on in the sharing. And sharing a story is not the same as telling a story. Telling is unidirectional. Were they really listening, were they ready to hear it, and will they then take on its meaning and value?

Artifcts definition of story sharing

You may also be interested in Storytellers, Beware!

Curating Your Photos Often Delivers Unexpected Insights

Now, don’t get us wrong, just because we do not want to look at metadata on a photo to try and remember why it matters or to share the story behind it, does not mean that we think metadata is useless. Quite the opposite. Your own phone can instantly sort and search your collection.

And through sorting your photos quickly, you can then more easily move on to curation. And that’s where the insights begin to flow. We asked Ellen for three things she learned about herself when she paused to sort and curate her digital photos. Here’s what she said:

Swimming is life. Well, this one was not a surprise exactly, I knew I had a lot of swimming photos. But I was surprised I didn’t have more. I discovered an extreme dropoff in volume once Artifcts existed because my habits changed. While sitting and waiting at swim meets, I almost always (a) cull swim photos I don’t want and (b) create relevant Artifcts.

My feet have been places. I had to laugh at myself when I realized just how many photos I have taken of my own feet, wearing shoes, standing in some place I thought was interesting. Thankfully, with metadata, I know where some of those places were when I cannot otherwise remember or figure it out from the picture. And it makes for a great series to share with friends for a laugh.

Collection of photos of shoes, Artifcts

Inspiration is everywhere; I want to be inspired. More than any other theme I can discern from the pictures I take is the magic of finding inspiration in just about anything. Do you pause to take pics of interesting patterns and shapes in nature? What about beautiful color combinations in a random mural on the street? Lines in a book, art on a cover of a magazine, a setting in a TV show?

Inspiration can come from anywhere, and it’s amazing that digital photography makes it possible to keep it all close at hand.

For an extra boost in your photo-to-story efforts, download our free checklist for photos here.

Happy Artifcting!

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How to Artifct with Grandma and Grandpa

For many of us, summertime means time with extended family, maybe even “sleepaways” with Grandma and Grandpa. We should all be so lucky!

In the spirit of quality time together at any time of the year, we sat down this summer to interview a granddaughter-grandmother duo who have spent occasional Saturdays throughout the past couple of years Artifcting together. We wanted to learn why they took up Artifcting and any tips they have for other intergenerational pairs who plan to connect with each other through Artifcts.

In case you’re short on time, here was what they each wanted to be sure you knew: 

Granddaughter: I never spent time one on one with my grandma. We see each other a lot, she only lives 45 minutes away, but all of our gatherings involve my siblings and/or at least one of my parents, too. Plus, I was going away to college soon and knew I wouldn’t see her much for a while. 

Artifcts is easy to use, easy to share, which was critical. I knew my dad would love the Artifcts, too. He’s a big storyteller. The biggest surprise about Artifcting was that it totally changed how I think of my grandma, and I feel closer to her than ever.  

It was never a chore. I wanted to be with her. 

Grandma: No one can sit still these days, never mind exist without their cell phone.  

My granddaughter is funny and an artist, too. I’m always interested in what she’s doing. I didn’t think she was interested in my stories from the old days. But once I told her a story or two from living abroad in my 20s, she kept coming back to ask for more stories.  

It wasn’t my plan, but I started to give away items I had collected, too. Not just to her. I had her bring items to others because once I told the story, I knew who would enjoy it and would give it a good home. And you know what? Not once did they say to her that they didn’t want it. They loved the stories! 

You may also be interested in our ARTIcles by Artifcts about Swedish death cleaning

 
 
 
We're honored to participate once again in Grandparents Week - the largest online celebration and educational event for grandparents of its kind. Hosted by our partner, GrandparentsAcademy.com, this event showcases leading experts and resources for grandparents. Artifcts will be spotlighted in the GrandTech Showcase and delivering a walkthrough on how grandparents can use our solution to capture and share meaningful stories from their stuff.'

Tips for Artifcting with Your Grandparents

Above all else, don’t let the age difference get in the way. Fun fact: A 2006 study by researchers from Duke University and the University of Aarhus found that older respondents feel 20% younger than their actual age. So your grandparents may very well respond to you as though they are much younger than they are! 

But as far as true age goes, be mindful of how your respective ages might require a breath or two to (a) break down any awkwardness, (b) explain the purpose and process of Artifcts, and (c) find the right pace for your Artifcting together. Here are tips other grandchildren offered from their Artifcting experiences: 

1. Be ready. Create a few Artifcts for yourself before arriving.  

Use whatever device you plan to use when Artifcting with your grandma/grandpa to avoid any stress or delays in the process. (Artifcts note: We have a series of tips videos, too, if needed.) And if they want to Artifct on their own, share one of your unlimited Artifcts accounts with them and help them set it up.

Bring an Artifct That! Kit with you so you are not asking them for these supplies to support your Artifcting, and review our tips for taking photos of objects.

Also, if you know they plan to move or downsize, help them out by adding dimensions to their Artifcts, using helpful tags (e.g., #attic, #livingroom, #hallcloset), and filling in that ‘In the Future’ field too – does Grandpa want to sell this item, donate it, bequeath it?

2. Explain yourself! Share what Artifcts is, why you want to Artifct together, and how it will help them to share the memories and value behind all these objects with other family, friends, and potentially advisors (estate attorneys, insurance agents, wealth managers). 

3. Again, they may be older, but they were young once, too. One granddaughter said she felt like her grandma was a 20-year-old person in an 81-year-old body. Once they started to talk, the decades between them melted away. Talk with respect, listen with still greater respect, and remember they were your age once, too! 

4. Breaks are good for everyone. If you are creating Artifct after Artifct for grandma/grandpa, you’ll want a break. Eventually they will, too. It's hard to be “on” for so long and you’ll need to stretch your legs. Go for a walk, grab a coffee, or call it a day and come back again sometime soon. 

5. Hold those assumptions. Just because that portrait or vase has always been featured in a seemingly special location in their home doesn’t mean it’s what they value most. Start by asking about an object you are interested in. Then ask them to pick an item and see where it leads you both. 

6. Make sure they know you truly do want their stories. This is not homework. No one sent you. You are curious. Now, in reality, there may be details they aren’t comfortable sharing with you, and that’s okay. Avoid rushing them, embrace pauses, and let them take the lead. 

7. Ask first. Before you grab an object or take a picture, especially if they are in the picture, ask their permission so it’s clear this collaboration is on their own terms. Maybe they are more comfortable recording using their voice only instead of on video. Or maybe Grandma got all dolled up and is ready for her spotlight. Be respectful of their space and their person and ask first.  

8. Don’t argue. You may have heard the story told another way by your parents or another family member. Think of it as a difference of perspective. Record it faithfully. This may make for some fun conversation the next time the whole family is around the table as you parse through tall tales and family lore.

This is especially important if you are Artifcting with someone with any stage of cognitive decline. Let the conversation flow. Be an active, supportive listener, not a domineering guide. 

You may also be interested in these ARTIcles by Artifcts about dementia.

Tips for Artifcting with Your Grandkids

You didn’t think this was a one-way street, did you? Your grandkids may in fact have short attention spans and very narrow or different interests than your own. But this is your home, your life, so enjoy the element of surprise as you share never-before-heard stories that will capture their attention and imagination.

1. Gather a few objects in advance. If you have picked a few items you want to share, it will remove any hesitation to dive in once they arrive.  

2. Find a comfortable place. If you prefer to be in the living room, then guide them there from the get-go. Ideally your location has nice natural lighting so they can snap some nice pictures of the items and maybe even record you on video, too, if you’re game. 

3. Is anything off limits? Let them know if there are people or times of life you do not want to talk about. Conversely, if you want to talk about your parents, your career, your passion for {hobby}, let them know, and have photos, objects and other things on hand to guide the Artifcts conversation in that direction. 

4. Do you need any help with these objects? Perhaps you’ve decided to sell a collection, donate certain items, or pass keepsakes along to family members and friends. Make sure you note your intentions in each Artifcts’ ‘In the Future’ field. If your grandchild is of the appropriate age, maybe they can help get the ‘stuff’ where you want it to go next. If not, download your collection and choose the ‘Up Next Report’ to download and share with loved ones who can help you begin to downsize and/or declutter. 

5. Enjoy. Let them do the Artifcting, like your own very own biographer. That said, if you’d like to surprise loved ones with Artifcts after your grandchild has left, make sure they show you in the ins and outs of Artifcts so you feel comfortable Artifcting and sharing Artifcts from your own account and your own device.

Happy Artifcting!

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Meet Mercedes the Alpaca – She’ll Make You Smile

Hello Arti Community! 

It's Ellen here, co-founder of Artifcts. We emailed you all a few weeks ago when Heather and I first discovered Fracture and promised to reveal the rest of the story of our first experience printing photos to glass. More specifically, I shared that I had chosen a hilarious print for my first photo to glass purchase, and I hope this one does not disappoint.

I’ve never been a massive collector. Too much stuff stresses me out. (And it means more to dust!) 

But I’ve always been someone who likes to weave friends and family into my family’s home via artwork they’ve created, heirlooms I’ve inherited, or mementos from travels together. If those things include pops of color, even better. 

Well, about a month ago, a friend of mine who is on an epic 3-month RV road trip with her two dogs shared with me a story about Mercedes the alpaca. I was having a rough morning, so opening up her note to see Mercedes staring at me left me with no choice but to laugh. How could I not?

Photo: B Hardie.

Fast forward to wanting to choose that first photo on glass with Fracture and having a blank space on the wall in my master bathroom, I knew JUST the photo to choose. For anyone thinking it’s crazy to decorate a bathroom, I ask “Why?” How many times do you see in tv shows and movies characters standing in front of a bathroom mirror psyching themselves up for a big game or meeting? Any room in your house can be inspiring, even the bathroom.

And, really, look at Mercedes. She’s hilarious. And my friend’s story comparing herself to Mercedes makes this pic still funnier. I’ll see the pic, laugh, think of my friend, and prepare for my day. A triple win.

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If you’ll indulge me just one more moment of your time, I want to share with you all that I’ll departing Artifcts at the end of this month. I’ll remain co-founder always and ardent Artifcter, too. But, as this is my final ARTIcles story for you all, I want to say thank you. Thank you for reading our blog, sharing your stories, and celebrating the growth of Artifcts with us. It’s been a joy to write for you, inspire you and be inspired by you, and swap Artifcts with you, too. (Never shared an Artifct with me? Please do! I’m @Egoody.)

I hope you find bursts of Mercedes-esque joy in your own lives every day. Let the ‘stuff’ you surround yourself with bring you happiness and connect you with all whom you love.

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Preparing With the End in Mind: A Conversation with Rachel Donnelly, Author & After Loss Professional

August is Make a Will month and although it is probably not a holiday (or month!) that we tend to celebrate, it's a topic that we should all address at some point or another. If you happen to be one of the nearly 12 percent of Americans on holiday this August and you're reading today's ARTIcles story, nothing says I love you like sinking your toes into the sand next to your partner and striking up a conversation about end of life planning. 

We invited Rachel Donnelly, founder of AfterLight, co-founder of Professionals of After Loss Services, and author of Late to Your Own Funeral: How To Leave A Legacy And Not A Logjam, to join us for a conversation about one of the few things that is gauranteed in life (in addition to taxes and aging). Read on for Rachel's practical advice, tips, and conversation starters. There truly is no time like the present to have the conversation we may all be putting off (and off). 

Heather Nickerson, Co-Founder of Artifcts: Rachel, you are an after loss consultant. I think "after loss" is clear for all, but can you illuminate what services you provide in this role?

Rachel Donnelly: Sure! As an after loss consultant, I help people navigate the logistical and administrative tasks that are unavoidable after the death of a loved one. This role encompasses a wide range of responsibilities, including organizing and closing accounts, coordinating and completing forms, locating and securing necessary documents, and managing estate clean-outs or disposing of tangible personal property, as well as working with attorneys, financial advisors, and other professionals. I’m essentially the project manager you didn’t know you’d need when someone dies, helping clients navigate challenges like being overwhelmed, missteps, and missed deadlines.

Nickerson: So not all your services are necessarily offered literally after someone dies, sometimes it's about preparedness for that eventual reality we'll all face?

Donnelly: Yes, and after working with hundreds of clients, I know the common blind spots that people overlook as part of their estate planning and organization. I can serve as their “personal trainer” for estate organization, acting as an accountability partner and coach before something happens. That might mean organizing estate documents and digital assets, inventorying their belongings, or making sure their executor isn’t left guessing. Think of it as doing your loved ones a huge favor in advance. It’s the “leave a legacy and not a logjam” approach.

Think of it as doing your loved ones a huge favor in advance. It’s the “leave a legacy and not a logjam” approach.

Nickerson: Who typically calls you in an after loss scenario? Is it the estate executor, aka next of kin, who really isn't sure what on earth to do now?

Donnelly: Yes. My client is usually the named executor, a surviving spouse, or an adult child who has just lost a parent. They're grieving and overwhelmed, confused about what to do first, and feel like they’re drowning in paperwork and tasks. That’s when I step in to bring order to the chaos.

Nickerson: What led you to take the leap from being the founder of your own after loss business at AfterLight to co-founding an organization to train others—Professionals of After Loss Services (PALS)?

Donnelly: What began as an informal networking group of women with businesses similar to mine has grown into the first and only dedicated community for after loss professionals. There is a significant need for professionals who are both trained and experienced in handling loss situations. While the field is growing quickly, there is still a gap in connection, consistency, and shared knowledge.

We created PALS to close that gap by building a network of trained, vetted professionals who understand the unique needs of clients after a loss. Our mission is to raise the standard of care while fostering a supportive community of pros who truly “get it.” We bring together people who are passionate about helping families navigate the administrative and logistical challenges of settling an estate while grieving. Whether you already serve families after a loss or are exploring how to begin, PALS is the place to learn, connect, and grow. As we like to say at PALS, a rising tide lifts all boats.

Nickerson: Among PALS-trained professionals, are there subspecialties? For example, do some professionals work more with widows or with families who have lost a child?

Donnelly: Yes, absolutely. While all PALS-trained professionals have a strong foundation in after loss logistics, many bring their own unique backgrounds to the table. Some focus more on grief support, others on estate organizing or clean-outs. We also have professionals who specialize in working with widows, the sandwich generation, or solo agers. It’s not one-size-fits-all, and that is what makes the network so valuable.

Nickerson: You also have “The checklist of death," not something most people probably hear on a daily basis. Where do you see the most mistakes made? What is most commonly overlooked? What are the first three steps someone should take in nearly any after loss scenario?

Donnelly: I love that phrase because it’s real. The biggest mistake I see is people jumping straight into tasks like cleaning out the house or closing accounts without understanding that there is often a specific order these steps should be followed according to the estate plan. Skipping that order or protocol can create significant problems later.

The biggest mistake I see is people jumping straight into tasks like cleaning out the house or closing accounts without understanding that there is often a specific order these steps should be followed according to the estate plan. 

Most commonly overlooked? Digital assets. People often forget about email, cloud accounts, subscriptions, and social media, which can hold financial, exchange, or sentimental value.

As for first steps, aside from the funeral or memorial:

      1. Secure the home and cars, and forward the mail.
      2. Locate the will, trust, and other important documents.
      3. Make a detailed list of what they owe and what they own, which will be crucial during the estate settlement process.

Nickerson: And last but not least, you are a published author. What’s the feedback been like on your new book? Are you hearing from readers about "ah ha" moments?

Donnelly: It’s been humbling and amazing. People tell me Late To Your Own Funeral: How To Leave A Legacy And Not A Logjam is the first book they’ve read on this topic that doesn’t make them feel like they’re reading a legal manual—or a eulogy. I’ve had so many people tell me they’ve given this to their aging parents, who would never even broach the subject with them, and now they’re meeting with attorneys and formalizing their estate planning documents. One woman said, “This made me laugh, cry, and then finally get my affairs in order.” That’s exactly what I was going for: clarity, empathy, and a little irreverence to make it all feel more doable.

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Interested in learning more about becoming a Professional of After Loss Services? Join Rachel and our co-founder Heather at the Professionals of After Loss Services Conference this October in Atlanta, GA. Click here for more details

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