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Letting Go of Sentimental Items

March 13, 2024

Reading time: 8 minutes 

Last fall Chris Stapleton appeared in a Sunday morning interview on NBC with Willie Geist. In a moment reflecting on the “how” of his music making, Chris pointed to a chair he’s used as he’s recorded all of his albums and said, “It’s home.”

two men standing in a music recording studio

We get sentimental about objects for that “home” feeling among other reasons, making it difficult to let go sometimes. These are the artifacts of our lives! Today, we’re sharing our green-yellow-red light approach to reevaluating your sentimental collections. 

But, Reader, beware! If you are waiting for us to say, “Just take a picture, and let it go,” this is not the article for you. In this digital age, we accumulate photos as fast as dishes in the kitchen waiting to be washed. Each photo you take and let slip 100s and 1000s back in your camera roll, even if filed into a folder, is a missed opportunity. You could have captured what’s so meaningful about it while the details were fresh. You could have shared it with someone to connect over a shared memory. So, please, take the photo, we agree, but in the next moment or same day, Artifct that.

Okay, now on with today’s article! 

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Letting Go Can Be Really Hard. Full stop. 

When it comes to letting go of objects of sentimental value, some of us manage better than others. Some of us do not even consider ourselves sentimental and regularly “trim the fat.” The rest of us need all the help we can get, especially those of us who stubbornly maintain all that 'stuff' is not our problem, adopting a "Someone else can get rid of it once I'm gone," mentality.

Our reasons and motivations for deciding to let go of items vary: 

      • You’re downsizing and truly can’t keep it all.
      • You’re mindful that you have a lot of stuff and do not want to burden your family someday with figuring out what to do with it all.
      • You’re going through a decluttering process, because it’s beginning to feel like your walls are closing in on you. Psst ... A real or pretend household move can be a very effective motivator to declutter – less to pack and less to pay to move, too! 

As we set out to learn existing strategies for letting go of sentimental items, we canvassed the literature, decluttering blogs and videos, and more than a dozen books on the subjects. While the examples and stories differed, along with the viewpoints (scientific, minimalist, Christian, you name it!), it felt like there wasn’t much separating one approach from another. We distilled our learnings into a green-yellow-red light process for you to consider, “What do I want to do with this ‘thing?’” 

First, Why DO People Keep Sentimental Items? 

The answer to this question is especially important for all of us with someone in our life who we think is particularly sentimental, and we just can’t relate. Some of the most common reasons we found for people keeping items of emotional value that you should keep in mind include: 

      • The item was important to someone else who you loved or respected.
      • It makes you happy to have it, usually because of a memory it evokes.
      • You’ve had it a long time and it would feel strange to get rid of it. This is related to a concept called the “endowment effect.” If we own it, it has more value.
      • It’s the “last” of something or otherwise rare, or at least you think it is. This could also lead to a slippery slope of expectation that it has monetary value, too, today or “someday.” 
      • Emotional security – knowing it’s there makes you feel better.
      • Just because. Yes, that’s it. Let’s call this, “It’s in the eye of the beholder.” 

Letting Go of Sentimental Items: Green-Yellow-Red Light 

If you have spent time with an elementary school aged child during the last decade, you may have heard of this green-yellow-red approach to teaching kids about the spectrum of foods and their value to our bodies. Green foods are “go foods,” and you should enjoy them every day as you wish because they are so good for you. Yellow foods are “whoa foods,” and should be enjoyed in moderation. Red foods are those for which you should stop before putting in your mouth and consider a better option. They are not good for your body.  

The beauty of this framework is its dual simplicity and flexibility. Today we’re applying a green-yellow-red light framework to help you to parse through your belongings and just maybe let go of a few.  

It’s important to emphasize that systems like these must be adapted to personal starting points and circumstances. Hoarding disorder, grief, and other situations may require different approaches, ranging from professional support to grace and space. 

Green items: Keep, enjoy, display. Clearly this stuff matters to you! This might be the stuff you re-clutter with after you clear out the rest. 

Yellow items: Reconsider. Maybe there’s a better home or opportunity to repurpose some of these items. 

Red items: Halt: declutter! Red light items often have an overwhelming number of items in the same category or have had no use or value to you for years, making them ripe for thinning out over time. Remember, it does not have to be all at once! 

Here are illustrative examples from each category to help you prioritize as you let go of sentimental items. 

GREEN LIGHT – Give yourself a pass.

      • It absolutely adds value to your life, brings you joy or peace, or some other benefit. You don’t have to justify this feeling. (Remember our recent ARTIcles story, “We all deserve a Purple Bin!”) You’ll know it reflexively when you look at the item. This is a category of items that may have already been pared back, for example, if you kept only a few items that belonged to your spouse who passed. 
      • You use or display & enjoy it and have no need to replace or change. 
      • It is financially valuable, too. Do not pinch pennies here. It’s valuable and you are going to keep it because it’s doing no harm, and you would only get rid of it if you sold it. (Check out our ARTIcles story, From Rare Art to Family Heirlooms: Tips From a Master as You Consider Selling Your 'Stuff.') When you Artifct it, be sure to attach the receipt, appraisal, and or certificate of authenticity in the ‘Documentation’ section and as many details as possible, potentially including how and where you got it (provenance), dimensions, weight, and any signatures or maker’s mark(s). Bonus: Use Artifcts’ “What’s it worth?” button if you are curious about the item’s current market valuation.  
      • If a family vote were taken, the majority would say, "Keep!” We have this broken pair of Rudolph glasses. I wanted to buy a new pair and was strongly vetoed. These glasses have been with us a long time, and my family found a new way to use them in their broken state. 

YELLOW LIGHT – It might be time to go. 

      • Books. You might be surprised to reread “favorites” of yours only to discover they are favorites no longer. Your tastes shift. Books are a good category of objects to pause on and really consider whether you need each one. I’ll never get rid of my copy of Rooftops of Tehran. Even if I don’t love it one day, I remember the impact it had on me when I first read it. It stays. But recently I did reread some “critically acclaimed” books I remember enjoying and have moved with me several times, but they didn’t make the cut this time. I donated them. 
      • Battletested and/or antique kitchenware. How much of Grandma’s old cookware do you need to keep to remember what an amazing cook she was or how much you loved to cook with her or the smell of her bread in the oven? And if you are actually using it, consider if it is still safe to use. Can you reduce what you’ve kept to a few representative pieces? Maybe even retire some to become fun décor. 
      • Special textiles. Table linens, children's clothing and costumes, loved blankets, this is another area that’s easy to accumulate and squish just a bit more into that shelf or bin. And being practical, too, it’s easier to quickly try and give it a pass. If it’s all getting used, well, then that makes sense, unless of course you’re running out of space. Plus, linens tend to age without you truly SEEING the signs of age (stains, yellowing, fraying edges …). Use season changes to reconsider and maybe even “treat” yourself to something new to replace some you are letting go of. 

RED LIGHT – Some of these items need to go.  

      • Boxes and boxes of items from a loved one who has passed. It’s taking up space somewhere, and to what end? If you're ready, pick out only those items that truly resonate with you. Consider who else could want it and benefit from the rest or open it up, video it, and send to family to give them a chance to make a claim.  
      • Relics of a former career, student or professional. Do you have college notebooks and textbooks from decades ago. Why? What about awards and mementos? Others are very unlikely to really understand what if any of this matters either if you haven’t told them the stories (or better yet, Artifcted them.) I was really proud of an econometric study I did in graduate school in large part because of the note the professor wrote on the final copy. I don’t know compelled me to keep the physical copy for decades, but I can tell you now that it’s Artifcted, I finally recycled it. 
      • Kid clutter. This is the artwork, awards, presents and so much more that multiplies like bunny rabbits inside closets, under beds, and in what was once a previously (momentarily?) organized and functional system of bins. It is absolutely fair game to put this category into a regular decluttering rotation with your child(ren). Why? It is especially vulnerable to you forgetting what it was and why you and your kids kept it anyway because of the sheer volume. Be careful in this category not to go overboard. Consider our learnings shared in, “Before You Thin Out That Stuffed Animal Collection, Consider What Scientists Have to Say.”  

A Parting Story and Message to Consider 

When our co-founder Ellen Goodwin (@egoody) traveled to Arizona to Artifct with her 97-year-old great aunt, what stood out were the things her aunt had chosen to keep as she came to the end of her lifetime and the stories they told. Having downsized to so very little, chief among the items her great aunt wanted Ellen to see were a pair of goggles, a brochure, and a testing piece she used to become certified to weld airplanes during WWII. Check out #MurielsStories 

What matters to us all, what TRULY matters, shifts over time. Do not feel pressured to move too fast to declutter and/or downsize unless life circumstances give you no real choice in the matter. Even then, please remember to take a moment to smell the roses and remember the value of what you have and, sometimes, the emotional and practical (less to dust!) value of letting go. 

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In her recent New York Magazine article titled "What Are We Doing About Our Family Archives?" Kathryn Jezer-Morton raises a question many of us quietly avoid: what are we doing with our family stories, memories, keepsakes, and more?  

It’s the kind of question that quietly follows you into the attic, into the basement, into the moments when you open an old box and find yourself holding something that once meant everything to someone you love. A photograph with no names on the back. A recipe written in a familiar hand. A watch, a letter, a ticket stub—objects that feel heavy not because of what they are, but because of what they carry. 

Most of us don’t think of ourselves as archivists. And yet, in some ways, we all are. 

A body of research shows that family archives—photos, letters, heirlooms, even everyday objects—play a powerful role in how families understand themselves and pass meaning across generations. 

But here’s the challenge: most family archives are fragmented, overwhelming, and at risk of being lost. That’s where Artifcts offers a refreshingly modern approach. 

Your Family Archive, Reimagined 

Family archives are rarely neat or complete. They’re scattered across shelves and drawers, split between relatives, tucked into albums or forgotten in envelopes. And even when we hold onto the objects, the stories behind them begin to soften, blur, and eventually disappear. 

You might know what something is—but not why it mattered. That’s the quiet loss that happens over time. 

Artifcts offers a different way forward. Not by asking you to hold onto more things, but by helping you hold onto what matters most: the stories, the context, the meaning. 

Turning Moments Into Memories That Last 

Using Artifcts feels less like archiving and more like remembering—intentionally. 

When you create an Artifct, you’re not just cataloging an item. You’re pausing long enough to ask: Why is this part of my story? And then you answer it, in your own words, in your own voice. 

It might be an old photograph—one you’ve seen a hundred times but never really documented. You upload it, and suddenly you’re recalling the beach, the summer heat, the way your brother always stood just out of frame until someone insisted he joined. Maybe you don’t know everyone in the picture, but you know enough. And that’s enough to begin. 

Or maybe it’s a recipe. Not just ingredients and steps, but a ritual. The way the kitchen smelled. The way no one was allowed to sit down until everything was “just right.” You write it down, and then you add something more—a short video, perhaps, of someone in your family making it. Or an audio recording of you explaining why it matters. And don’t forget those “unwritten rules,” Grandma never did. Extra cinnamon, yes please! 

 

And just like that, something ordinary becomes something lasting. 

Hearing the Past, Seeing the People 

There is something powerful about hearing a voice again; seeing someone’s gestures, their expressions, the way they tell a story only they could tell. Artifcts allows you to add audio and video to your memories, and this changes everything. 

A written story is meaningful—but a spoken one feels alive. 

A written story is meaningful—but a spoken one feels alive. 

Imagine a future grandchild not only reading about a family tradition, but hearing it described in your voice. Seeing the way you smiled when you talked about it. That’s not just preservation. That’s a connection across time. 

Watching Your Story Unfold 

As you begin to add Artifcts, something unexpected happens. The moments start to connect. 

With our Artifcts Timeline feature, your memories are automatically arranged across years, decades, even generations. What once felt like isolated pieces becomes something more like a story unfolding. 

You begin to see patterns. Traditions that repeat. Moves, milestones, turning points. You see how one moment led to another, how a family becomes over time. Your kids and grandkids can see what made you “you.” And the entire family can better understand what matters most to you by the very fact of what you chose to Artifct.  

With Artifcts Timelines, your family archive is no longer just a collection. It’s a narrative pieced together by you over time. 

Letting Go Without Losing Anything 

If you’ve read this far and you’re dreading ending up with a basement full of everyone else’s stuff, fear not. One of the hardest parts of being the keeper of family history is the weight of it all—the responsibility, the volume, the feeling that letting go of something might mean losing it forever.  

Artifcts makes it possible to preserve the meaning of an item even if you decide not to keep the item itself. You can document it fully—its story, its significance, its place in your family—and then choose to pass it on, donate it, or simply let it go. 

What remains is what mattered all along. Not the object, but the memory it carried. 

A Living Archive, Not A Finished One 

Your family archive isn’t something you complete. It’s something you will continue. It grows as you remember more, as you ask questions, as you take the time to capture what might otherwise slip away. It becomes a shared space where stories live—not just for you, but for everyone who comes after you. 

And maybe that’s the real answer to the question Kathryn Jezer-Morton asked. 

We don’t need perfect archives. We don’t need everything organized and complete. We just need to begin. One photo. One recipe. One piece of jewelry. One story. 

Because in the end, it’s not the things we pass down that define us. It’s the meaning we choose to remember—and the care we take to make sure it isn’t forgotten. 

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Eco-Decluttering Made Easy: How to Clear Your Space Without Creating Waste

Today is Earth Day—a perfect moment to take a fresh look at the way we live with our stuff. In honor of Earth Day, we’re tackling eco-decluttering, a thoughtful approach to clearing your space that’s as kind to the planet as it is to your peace of mind. Because decluttering shouldn’t just make your home feel lighter—it should reduce waste, extend the life of everyday items, and help build a more sustainable future.

Decluttering used to come with a nagging question: Where does all this stuff actually go? If your answer has ever been “uh… the trash,” you’re not alone. A 2024 Talker Research report found that although 77% of respondants claim to make efforts to be as sustainable as possible, respondants average throwing away 12 items a day! That's a LOT of stuff. 

Welcome to eco-decluttering, where clearing your space and caring for the planet go hand in hand. At Artifcts, we like to think of it as a three-step process: remember, release, and rehome. Because the goal isn’t just less stuff—it’s less waste, more meaning, and a lighter environmental footprint.


🌱 Step 1: Declutter with intention (not impulse)

Before you start tossing things into bags, pause. Not forever, just long enough to decide what truly matters.

Artifcts reminds us that many of the hardest items to part with aren’t junk at all—they’re memory-filled objects: travel mementos, old books, heirlooms, or even that outfit from a milestone moment.

Instead of letting guilt or nostalgia stall your progress, try this:

  • Capture the story first (photos, audio, or a quick written memory)
  • Keep a few meaningful items
  • Let the rest move on

This approach helps you avoid the all-or-nothing trap and makes decluttering feel less like loss and more like curation.


♻️ Step 2: Sort smarter—think beyond the trash bag

A classic decluttering tip still holds up: sort items into clear categories like donate, recycle, repair, or sell. Even professional organizers recommend prepping these pathways before you begin so nothing lingers in limbo.

But eco-decluttering adds an extra layer: default to reuse whenever possible.

Ask yourself:

  • Could someone else use this as-is?
  • Can it be repurposed creatively?
  • Is there a responsible recycling option?

If the answer to all three is no, then it’s time to let it go.


🌍 Step 3: Give your items a second life (the Artifcts way)

Here’s where our Artifcts Going Green Guides really shine. Once you’ve decided to part with something, you have more options than you might think:

1. Donate with purpose
Many everyday items are in high demand:

Even hospitals, universities, and disaster relief groups often accept specific items like blankets, gowns, or toys.

2. Share locally
Your “declutter” pile might be someone else’s jackpot:

  • Offer items to neighbors or community groups
  • Use local “buy nothing” networks
  • Pass things directly to friends or family

3. Repurpose and upcycle
Before you donate, consider whether an item could live a new life:

  • Turn old china into wall art
  • Reuse glassware creatively
  • Transform sentimental fabrics into keepsakes, such as quilts or pillow coverings

Sometimes, breaking up a set or reimagining a use makes all the difference. Sarah Reeder, founder of Artifactual History, offers some creative tips for repurposing old silver sets on one of our previous Evenings with Artifcts episodes. 

4. Recycle responsibly
For items like electronics or worn-out goods, skip the trash:

  • Check municipal recycling programs
  • Use retailer take-back programs
  • Look for specialty recyclers

The key here being that your local landfill is the last resort, not the default.


💡 Bonus: The “Artifct Before You Let Go” Rule

On the fence about whether to rehome, recycle, or otherwise part with an item? Maybe it's got a great story, or evokes fond memories. One of the most powerful ideas from Artifcts’ Going Green philosophy is simple: Capture the story before the item leaves.

When you do this, you can preserve the meaning without keeping the clutter, feel more confident letting go, and create a digital legacy that’s easier to share with loved ones and friends. 

Suddenly, decluttering isn’t about getting rid of things—it’s about keeping what matters in a better way.


🌿 The Bigger Picture

The average home holds far more than it needs, and much of it eventually ends up in landfills. Eco-decluttering flips that script. It’s not just about organizing your space—it’s about participating in a more thoughtful cycle of ownership.

So the next time you pick up an object and wonder, “Should I keep this?” try a better question:

“What’s the best next life for this?”

Because when your clutter becomes someone else’s treasure—or gets a second life entirely—you’re not just tidying up. You’re doing a little good for the world, one drawer at a time.

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Spring Cleaning: The Clothing Edition

Spring has sprung and our closets are ready to spring forth as well. Clothing has a sneaky way of taking up space in our hearts AND in our closets, which is why this year we’re offering up some tips and tricks for spring cleaning dedicated to clothing and accessories.

Our expert tip on all things clothing? Artifct it, of course, and include a photo of you wearing it back in the day, if possible, to help you keep the memories, while you let go of the items you haven’t worn in years, if not decades.

But Artifcting is not the be all, end all. Are you ready to free up closet space? Let’s get started!

Seasonal Items

As you get ready to put your winter clothing into storage and take out your spring essentials consider what you actually wore this past winter and what you kept, thinking you WOULD wear.

In our household we make two piles—the “yes, I wore it” pile, and the “nope, never touched it pile.” We then take a hard look at that second pile to determine the reason WHY we never wore it. Was it not cold enough this winter? Does the item no longer fit? If the answer is yes to the latter, we consider who else might need or want it (nieces, nephews, etc.) or we pick our favorite charity to donate the item.

We also take a hard look at winter gear that has stood the test of time for years but may be on its way out. I broke down in tears this year over my husband’s beloved Patagonia down jacket. The memories, the adventures! However, it was hard to ignore the feathers seeping out of every seam. I found myself having to vacuum after every wear. We took it back to Patagonia hoping they’d be able to repair it as part of their Worn Wear Program, but alas, it was beyond repair. We agreed to let Patagonia recycle the jacket although not before Artifcting it!

 

Professional Clothing (aka Life Before COVID)

Remember when we used to get dressed up EVERY day and go into the office? The actual office. Not just our home office. Although memories fade, the clothing lingering in our closet(s) serves as a constant reminder of, “Oh yeah, I used to actually wear that stuff.”

This year I took a hard look at our professional clothes to determine what has a realistic chance of being worn again, and what can be relegated to the “life before COVID” bin (aka donation bin). We donate most professional clothing items to Dress for Success and sell a handful of items with TheRealReal. It’s amazing the closet space and hangers we regained this year when we were realistic about what we would wear post-COVID.

I admit there were some items I was reluctant to let go of because of the memories. My first pair of heels and my favorite ballet flats fell into this category. Both had been worn past any useful lifespan and yet, I didn’t want to let go. So, what’s a girl to do? You guessed it, I Artifcted them. And then I felt a little less guilty getting rid of them. Artifcts enabled me to keep the memories and let go of the actual ‘stuff.’

 

Kid Clothing

They grow so fast! My daughter’s closet is a ready target when it comes to spring cleaning. She’s now old enough to help with the process, and she knows once the items are donated she gets to pick out replacement items that fit. Extra motivation! And even together time since she’s now at the age when she loves to shop.

We usually donate the clothing she has outgrown to our local Goodwill store, although there are some items she’ll ask to keep and repurpose. She stunned us one year when she repurposed her old ballet tutu into a modern work of art!

T-Shirts

Yes, they deserve their own category. My dear husband has a way of coming home from every trip, conference, and work event with another t-shirt. We’ve relegated his t-shirt collection to one drawer and one under-the-bed bin. And yet. There are so many!

Although this go-around with spring cleaning most of his t-shirts were spared. Why? Because he wears them, all of them.

I, however, discovered that I had been holding on to a t-shirt in MY t-shirt bin that I hadn’t even worn. Not once. I was getting ready to Artifct it (and include photos and video of the event) when our youngest swooped in to claim it for herself. Being two sizes too big, it was declared “tres, tres chic.” Success! T-shirt re-homed. We often joke here at Artifcts that the best vintage shop in the world is probably Grandma’s closet! (Or in this case, my closet!)

 

Accessories

Since when did we own two dozen hats?

Like t-shirts, accessories tend to multiply like bunnies at least in our household. Hats, socks, and re-usable bags tend to be the worst offenders. Companies love to gift accessories as promotional materials, and most members of my household LOVE to accept those gifts. You see where this is going.

We have a bin dedicated solely to reusable bags, and another to hats. I took a hard look at both this past month and lovingly put out for free a dozen reusable bags and a half dozen hats. Much to my delight they were picked up within minutes of setting them out.

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On a roll? If you need some donation ideas outside the usual, check out the clothing section of Going Green. With Artifcts.

If instead you're ready for tips on decluttering and organizing beyond clothing, you may love our 15 Decluttering Targets for Artifcters or one of our Evenings with Artifcts episodes with Matt Paxton!

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