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DECLUTTERING & ORGANIZING, HEALTH & AGING

"My Parent is a Hoarder"

contributors Melissa Autry and Matt Paxton

March 26, 2025

Audrey and her mother have always had a tricky relationship. While some people talk about the teenage years being strained, their relationship was strained from the very first sleepless nights when Audrey was a baby. Beyond the love lived a mix of frustration, embarrassment, and distrust that only worsened as Audrey grew older.

At the heart of it all, in Audrey’s view, is a legacy of too much stuff. She never invited friends to her home because she was embarrassed by the chaos of her mother’s clutter throughout their home. She didn’t even enjoy spending time there unless she stayed in her room, behind a locked door, where her mother’s stuff could not invade.

Now as an adult, she and her children visit her mom several times a year, and in each visit her mom attempts to gift her boxes of things she’s been saving for her. But in Audrey’s words, “I am going through boxes of nightmare. Nightmare! She’s blocking me with a bunch of s***.”

I am going through boxes of nightmare. Nightmare! She's blocking me with a bunch of s***. - Adult child, boxes of childhood memorabilia, at mother's home

And there you have it – for Audrey the stuff creates a barrier between her and her mother, depriving her of the relationship she wants for herself and her children.

And who can blame her? Don’t we all want more than a cardboard box of memories?

So many boxes. What is it all? When did anyone last open them? What will become of them next? Photo credit: Janet Wilson.

As adult children begin looking at their parents’ homes with fresh eyes, they wonder: Is it safe? Is it healthy? And, someday, will it fall to them to clean it all out and decide what goes, what stays, and who gets it next? What was once their parents’ problem may soon become their own.

And guess what? The adult kids are not having it. We hear from them every week at Artifcts, when they express with a dose of disbelief the fact their parents are in no rush to downsize all that ‘stuff.'

Of course, the sense that a parent is a hoarder, “But not really, or maybe just a light hoarder,” is just a broad brushed way of saying it’s too much to deal with and they need help. And not all stories are as negative as Audrey’s story.

Patrick wrote to us to share that he was raised by two parents who loved him unconditionally and taught him to appreciate what it meant to be a collector. This passion sparked an interest in the arts that has carried through to his career as a museum curator.

But as his parents aged and declining health became a more pressing issue, Patrick told us, “What once appeared to be connoisseurship soon looked more like hoarding as I started sifting through their pieces.” He went on, “It was TRAUMATIZING, having to figure this all out for them, let alone do so at the age when most of my peers weren’t even remotely close to being confronted with these types of issues.”

Join us in today’s ARTIcles story as we peel back the worry and fear of adult children who have parents who have enjoyed collecting and accumulating ‘stuff.’ We’ll explore hoarding disorder in more detail and share strategies to help adult children navigate their parents and themselves to safer ground.

What is Hoarding? (And What is It Not?)

Much as nostalgia historically was misunderstood, so too has hoarding gone through an evolution in science and the mainstream.

Hoarding has been clinically studied for decades, but public awareness only surged after the TV show Hoarders premiered in 2009. Until then, most people had never witnessed the severity and dangers of hoarded living spaces. Academic research—particularly work by Dr. Mary E. Dozier and Dr. Catherine R. Ayers—underscores how object attachment intensifies as we grow older, further emphasizing the profound emotional and psychological factors that drive hoarding behaviors.

DSM-5 CRITERIA FOR HOARDING DISORDER

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), the reference guide mental health professionals use to support diagnoses of psychiatric conditions, classifies hoarding disorder (HD) under obsessive-compulsive and related disorders. The DSM describes a person who has “persistent difficulty discarding or parting with possessions, regardless of their actual value. This difficulty is due to a perceived need to save the items and to the distress associated with discarding them.”

Importantly, the DSM-5 states that hoarding impairs a person’s ability to use their spaces and the items within as they intended. As Audrey’s earlier story illustrates, it can also cause “clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupation, or other important areas of functioning (including maintaining a safe environment safe for oneself or others.)” What does this look like in real life? It ranges from health hazards like vermin infestations or blocked exists, to emotional stress and family conflict.

Studies show that hoarding behaviors worsen over time, particularly as older adults develop stronger attachments to personal belongings (Dozier & Ayers, 2020). By the time a family member recognizes the problem—by the telltale overwhelming accumulation of stuff—the condition has deepened and evolved and may be linked to other conditions, such as depression, anxiety, and ADHD.

If you suspect hoarding disorder, experts recommend seeking a mental health evaluation. Professional help can involve therapies like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), sometimes combined with medications to address any co-occurring conditions, such as depression or anxiety. Resources for help are provided at the end of this article.

NO, THAT’S NOT "HOARDING"

You might be wondering then, where is that line between disorder and, well, not!

It’s important to recognize that hoarding is not the same as collecting, even if that means multiple and/or large, usually well-organized, collections throughout a home.

Notice the word “organized” inserted there? That’s because collections are further distinguishable from clutter. According to the DSM, clutter is “a large group of usually unrelated or marginally related objects piled together in a disorganized fashion in spaces design for other purposes (e.g. tabletop, floor, hallway).”

Collectors often systematically organize and proudly display their collections (e.g., stamps, vinyl records, or figurines). These items may have monetary or sentimental value, but they typically do not obstruct the normal use of living spaces.

In contrast, hoarded items are often:

- - Randomly piled or disorganized
  - Kept “just in case” but rarely accessed/used
  - Spreading into spaces needed for daily living (e.g., kitchens, bathrooms, bedrooms).

In addition to collections being organized, the International OCD Foundation (IOCDF) highlights the importance of the location of the collections as opposed to clutter, too. Clutter accumulated in your basement and attic is commonplace, as both locations are the typical catchalls and storage solutions in homes.

The key questions are:

- - Does the stuff interfere with daily life and cause distress, for the individual and their family?
  - Are they able and willing to part with items, whether through giving them to a loved one, selling, donating, or disposing of them?

Hoarding Disorder and Insights for “Non-Hoarders”

"Well, my parents aren't hoarders but nearly!" Generally adult children who describe their parents offhand as “hoarders” do not mean it. Rarely do their parents actually have hoarding disorder, and they know it. But the fear of all that ‘stuff’ is real.

Finding a foothold in the chaos is important as is a path forward. We spoke with experts in hoarding disorder to elicit strategies and lessons for those adult kids ready to take steps toward a better future for their parents, however defined, and feel less like Don Quixote in the process. While we are talking about adult children, these strategies are adaptable to all with a little imagination.

Insights from 25 Years in the Field, with Melissa Autry

Melissa Autry, CSA, CPO, CPO-CD, is a Hoarding Remediation Expert and industry advocate who has been working with people who have HD for more than 35 years. It makes one wonder, who was her mentor back then, when awareness of never mind specialization in this disorder was surely lacking! And sure enough, she told us she had to invent her own job title.

Melissa specializes in safety and habitability, often working in extreme environments. She reminds families:

"Every case is different because every person's relationship with their stuff is different."

“It’s not only about the amount of stuff or the loss of use of the home. It’s about a person’s emotional equity with their possessions. Nine times out of ten, they’re not working with a mental health professional. Sometimes, the safety issues outweigh the mental health need—ask any firefighter! According to the Massachusetts Department of Fire Services, hoarding was a factor in 24% of fatal residential fires between 1999 and 2009. While both matter, a compromised structure takes priority when there is an immediate risk of loss of life.”

Hoarding remediation is hazardous work, often requiring hazmat suits to handle biohazards, mold, pests, and toxic materials. But Melissa believes that every case is an opportunity to improve someone’s quality of life—and sometimes, even save a life (people and pets).

She also emphasizes that while health and safety come first, personal contents matter, too—especially irreplaceable items like photos, letters, and memorabilia:

“There may be some really happy, healthy stories out there—and I love those. But our phone rings when nothing else has worked, when families are overwhelmed, and when they don’t even know how to start the conversation.”

“We tell stories through our stuff and experiences. I look at personal belongings like the gift shop at the adventure park—Our Life!"

Here is Melissa’s top advice for all of you adult children and families, distilled into 8 key points:

1. Every adult child is like an only child.
No two siblings experience a parent the same way. Each child has a unique relationship with their parent based on individual experiences, personalities, and past interactions. What works for one won’t necessarily work for another.

2. The parent-child dynamic evolves—sometimes painfully.
To a parent, you are always 12 years old—frozen in time. To an adult child, your own life experiences have shaped who you are, making it difficult to fit back into old roles. As your parent ages and needs help, the roles can slowly reverse—where you find yourself parenting your parent. This shift can be emotionally complex, especially if the original relationship was strained.

3. Delayed trauma responses and emotional triggers are real.
If your relationship with your parent was unhealthy or complicated, stepping into a caregiving role can be extremely triggering. It may stir up old wounds, unresolved conflicts, or memories of neglect and emotional distress. Yet now your parent needs help, and navigating these emotions can be really rough.

4. Understand the emotional attachment to items.
Ask about meaningful objects before pushing for decluttering. Building trust is the goal—not forcing change.

A personal den, curated with furnishings and memorabilia

A curated collection, a curated life, some items valuable, some items sentimental, all items honoring a life lived. Parting with them can be complex and emotional. Photo credit: Janet Wilson.

5. Appraisals can shift the conversation.
Assigning a monetary value can help separate financial worth from emotional worth (emotional equity) and clarify whether an item should be kept, sold, donated, or discarded.

6. Avoid “overhelping.”
Pushing too hard can backfire, making your loved one more resistant instead of more willing. Overhelping is a lose/lose scenario—both parties end up frustrated.

7. Recognize shifting roles.
The evolving dynamic between parent and adult child can feel unfamiliar and unsettling. You may no longer have anything in common other than the fact that you were both present during your childhood. Understanding this shift helps manage expectations and reduces emotional strain.

8. Practice self-care.
Decluttering a loved one’s home can be emotionally exhausting. While the phrase “no good deed goes unpunished” may ring true, caregiver fatigue is real. Everyone involved—parents, adult children, and professionals—benefits when a structured plan is in place with both a Plan A and Plan B.

Mental Health Support for Adult Children

Melissa also encourages adult children to consider their own mental health as they support parents who are downsizing their lifetime of belongings. “It’s a stressful and emotionally taxing experience. Adult children often benefit from speaking with mental health professionals, not just for the parent’s well-being, but also for their own emotional resilience.”

Melissa recommends online platforms like BetterHelp or in-person therapists who can provide coping strategies, stress management, and guidance for navigating complex family dynamics. You can find these and other resources at the end of this article.

Lessons Beyond the TV Show Hoarders, with Matt Paxton

We also sat down with someone who came into the HD specialty with a more public flare, so to speak. Matt Paxton, best known for his 15 seasons on Hoarders, has spent nearly 25 years helping families declutter. His philosophy?

“Keep the memories, lose the stuff," which happens to also be the title of his book.

In Paxton’s newest venture, Clutter Cleaner, he trains professionals in practical strategies drawn from his extensive field experience, including his work individuals with hoarding disorder and their families. He emphasizes the following lessons:

Start Small.
Overwhelming someone with big demands will likely cause them to shut down. Smaller, more manageable steps are far more effective in building trust and momentum. It's not about what you get done, it's about getting started and keeping going.

Prioritize Safety.
Clear pathways, remove fire hazards, and focus on habitability first. A safe environment is the foundation for any further progress.

Use Humor.
Hoarding can be emotionally heavy. Lightening the mood at appropriate moments keeps everyone engaged and reduces tension.

Focus on Progress, Not Perfection.
Any step forward—no matter how small—is a significant victory. Perfection is neither realistic nor necessary for positive change. “Focus on what you have achieved, not on what is yet to be completed. Mindset is everything,” says Matt.

Encourage Mental Health Support.
Professional help, such as therapy or support groups, is key to lasting success. Forced cleanouts without psychological support fail to address the root causes of hoarding disorder and are never successful. “In my 20+ years of cleaning out hoarded homes,” said Matt, “if the client doesn't receive some sort of therapy, the clean-out fails 100% of the time.”

Remember, you need not be alone in this work, parsing through the belongings of a loved one. Resources abound to help you from these tips to the linked resources below.

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HOARDING DISORDER AND OTHER MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT RESOURCES

Ultimately, knowledge, compassion, and structured professional intervention remain the most powerful tools to transform a household overrun by possessions into a home that fosters well-being for everyone involved. By recognizing the clinical realities of hoarding disorder, seeking professional guidance, and approaching loved ones with empathy, adult children can create a pathway toward safer homes and healthier relationships.

- - International OCD Foundation (IOCDF) - Hoarding
  - Institute for Challenging Disorganization (ICD)
  - National Association of Productivity and Organizing Professionals (NAPO)
  - BetterHelp – Online mental health platform connecting individuals with licensed professionals

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What's Your Garage's Personality Type?

We added the garage to our “Around the House, with Artifcts” series for 2025 based on the simple realization that maybe more than any other space in the home, the garage is a true multitasker.

- - Garages protect your vehicles. Not only from hailstorms and theft, but from the toll that extreme temperatures take on the materials, too.
  - Garages store tools of life. This might be lawnmowers and snowblowers. It might also be every hammer, nail, screw, cleaning chemical and paint, and garden tool you can imagine.
  - Garages offer habit space. For some this is a petite to full-blown home gym, for others a woodworking area, welding corner, or at-home bike shop.
  - Garages, oh so often, provide spillover storage. Just as new lanes on a highway nearly guarantee more cars will flow through than ever before, the more space you have, the more you fill it. Sometimes this even puts at risk family treasures and heirlooms for lack of anywhere 'else' to store them.

We’ve also enjoyed exploring how this multitasker of a space takes on the personality of its owners and requires creative and safety-minded solutions to keep them functioning in a way that supports us, not frustrates us. Read on -->

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Four Garage Personalities

On full display in any garage is an owner’s priorities, habits, and hobbies, giving the space a personality of its own. We’ve discovered four garage personalities:

1. 1. The Immaculate. It’s a well-designed, spotless dream. Painted drywall, epoxy or stained concrete floors. Pricey custom shelving. High-def televisions and supporting sound systems. Maybe even artwork and lighted signs.
  2. The Classic. A garage that houses vehicles and has space for all the essential tools that make a home run. It’s not essential that it even have drywall. It certainly does not rely on custom cabinets when a few shelves or some freestanding cabinets will do the trick.
  3. The Whozits and Whatzits. Often poorly organized and contained, storing everything from the tools you commonly associate with a garage to all the spillover content of a home. Examples we’ve seen include cooking gear and glassware that fail to fit inside kitchen cabinets, bins of seasonal clothing, and spare luggage. You just might still fit your car in here, but more likely not.
  4. Converted. Literally or figuratively, you’ve sacrificed the garage for storage, a spare lounge space, or another function. Either way, no car takes refuge there at any time.

We interviewed Scarlett who lives commuting-distance outside New York City, in a quiet, tree-filled neighborhood. Surely in this neck of the woods, there would be an abundance of home maintenance tools and equipment, such as snowblowers and lawn mowers, as well as toys, like sleds, required for this family of five. We wanted to know, “How do you make it all work in a single-car garage?”

“Easy! Convert! Our garage is a tiny one car thing at the end of a 90 ft driveway. When we moved in, we quickly figured it would never make sense to park there, so we decommissioned it (shortened the driveway, made a cut out for our cars and extended the lawn), and the garage became storage from the get-go. The garage stored a hodgepodge of camping equipment, bikes, snowblower, sleds etc. Unfortunately, because of the state of the garage, you would not want to store anything you cared about in there.

The garage was such a decrepit after thought in our lives, purely functional, that the town even planted trees in the park abutting our home to block it from view! Truly an embarrassment.”

Perhaps you can relate. Or perhaps you relate better to one of the other three garage personalities. In either case, read on for coverage of both garage dangers and pro tips for wrangling it into control to meet your needs.

Common Garage Dangers

Before we go on with tips to help you declutter your garage if it’s not serving your needs, we want to highlight a few of the inherent risks that come with how we tend to use our garage spaces.

Garages are highly problematic from both safety and preservation lenses. And if you are new to a geographic area and moving from one climate zone to another in particular, you may get caught off guard.

Batteries. We beg you: only charge batteries when you are there to monitor for potential fires. Keep an extinguisher in the garage. Unplug the charger and disengage any battery from its device—e.g. leaf blower, lawn mower, power drill, etc.—when not in use. And be sure to test the fire alarm in the garage every season.

Papers, plastics, and fabrics. Non-climate-controlled garages will take a heavy toll on fabrics, papers, and plastics. Such as? Such as the very carboard boxes you’re storing stuff in (bugs love cardboard, too), the plastics in your bike helmets, the glues in your wreaths and holiday ornaments, and delicate family heirlooms and documents.

Chemicals. How temperature stable are those paints, solvents, insect sprays and more? How long can you store them in your garage and still safely use them? Keeping safety and effectiveness in mind, it may be time to dispose of some, just to be safe. A simple online search will yield recycling guidelines for everything you can imagine and locations or pick up options for disposal. (Psst… this applies to batteries and lightbulbs too!)

Top Tips to Help You Declutter Your Garage

That big garage door and attached driveway offer you a huge advantage in decluttering and organizing this particular space, and leads us to tip #1:

Empty it. Moving everything out of the garage lets you start with a clean slate. It very likely also puts you on the clock since you won’t want to leave your things out overnight. Obviously, know the weather outlook first.

Check expiration dates. Like spices in your kitchen, check the expiration dates on all chemicals, batteries, and even sports gear—like sports pads, helmets, and spare car seats—and set them aside to recycle, making a list of items you also need to replace. Use painters' tape to attach that list to a wall for all helpers to contribute to.

Consider your lifestyle and stage. And be honest with yourself, not aspirational. If you have kids, and they have literally outgrown equipment or toys out there, great, set those aside. If you moved on from a hobby or sport or have single-use tools for that one time you dug a fence post, set all of that aside, too.

Feeling a bit overwhelmed or sad to see some things go? Artifcts is here to help. This is the perfect time to snap pics and record the memories of items that help tell your life’s stories. That's what tv host and decluttering expert Matt Paxton did with his son to make room for a home gym in the garage. Read the full story.

Focus first on frequently used items. Grab a pen and paper. You’re going to make a list that everyone in your home (and professionals, if you have hired them) can reference. Visually scan all the ‘stuff’ you store in your garage. What do you use on a daily and/or weekly basis? Keep the timeframe that narrow to now prioritize how those items are displayed, stored, and accessed.

Great examples of likely high-use items include packing tape, scissors, and utility knife (all commonly used for opening the abundance of packages we receive these days) as well as reusable shopping bags that we hang when emptied and grab as we walk out the door.

Another great example: bikes. It’s absolutely terrible advice to recommend installing overhead storage racks to hang bikes if you use them frequently, especially if the people using them won’t be able to easily or safely get them down. Instead, use bike hooks that let you fold the bikes flat against the wall for accessibility and a minimal footprint.

Hanging bikes, flat against the garage wall

Bikes that hinge "closed" as they hang on the wall, like a book, are accessible and take up less space. Two cars can still fit inside this garage! Shown is the Velo Hinge Wall Mount by Feedback Sports.

Equally terrible advice: installing peg boards for every tool under the sun when you use four of them on a regular basis. That makes for not only a poor use of space for your regular needs but intense visual clutter, too, which may be hard on some members of your household depending on their organizing styles. If you're familiar with the four organizing styles created by Clutterbug, these peg boards are great for "bees" but painful for "crickets."

Consider “over and under” storage options. Maybe you’ll hang your ladder just feet off the ground, because that then opens up the ground space for storing a high use or maybe very heavy item you want within reach.

Perhaps you need certain other items within reach, but they take up a lot of space. Go vertical with the storage rather than consuming shelves and floor space. Stretch your imagination on how you store what you choose to keep.

folded ladder hanging on a garage wall

Hanging this ladder with a simple hook means more storage space below it.

Clear is king. Remember our story about the deinfluencing trend from earlier this year and the man who went on a clear bin buying spree for his garage? He was able to smartly sort, contain, and keep accessible all the components and equipment he needed for his hobby and home life using clear bins and a few wire baskets. You may also want to add labels but be sure to choose labels that you can easily remove if you want to change out what you’re storing.

Feeling inspired yet? Good luck, and happy Artifcting!

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July 02, 2025

DECLUTTERING & ORGANIZING

Every Room Has a Story: Kitchen Edition

Reading time: 5 minutes

Welcome to the fourth in our series of the stories of your living spaces: Your kitchen. Often the workhorse of our homes, the kitchen is also ground zero for family gatherings, traditions and oh-so-many memories and stories to go along with it all. Not to mention ALL that cabinet space, which too often ends up becoming the final resting place for long forgotten and seldom used gadgets, mugs, cookbooks, and more!

What surprises are hidden behind your cabinet doors? What memories and stories are sitting untold? What ‘stuff’ is getting in your way of the job to be done: cooking! Let’s go!

Catch up on past editions in the series: Living Room | Kids’ Rooms | Bathroom

Cookbooks, Recipes & More

Show me a kitchen without a cookbook and I’ll show you... a [insert company name] catalog. Yes, those designer kitchens in our favorite furniture store catalogs always LOOK nice, but our co-founder Heather is always left wondering, where are the cookbooks?

Growing up, Heather’s mom was a fabulous cook. Heather still remembers sitting on the butcher block counters and doodling in the cookbooks as her mother baked. And we’re certain she’s not alone in her memories in the kitchen and those omnipresent cookbooks.

Whether your cookbook collection is more accidental than intentional, one thing is for certain, kitchen cabinets and shelves are great for holding, hiding, and yes, collecting cookbooks! Your shelves are so accommodating that they do nothing to help you parse out the useful, the emotionally valuable, or the “it was a nice thought, but not happening” cookbooks.

And let’s not forget about the recipes. Sometimes it’s not so much the cookbook as it is one of the recipes inside that triggers the memory.

Heather found a handwritten recipe from her father in one of her mother’s cookbooks. Heather framed the recipe, and three moves later, it still sits prominently on her kitchen counter. CLICK THE IMAGE to view the Artifct.

Feeling inspired? Ready to thin that collection? As you do, Artifct favorites on the spot! Really want to wow your family? Include a short audio story of WHY you love that particular cookbook or recipe. Better yet, include a short video of you making the recipe or providing instruction on how-to make the recipe.

One of our most-loved Artifcts involves a grandmother instructing her granddaughter on how to make the family’s secret biscuits. CLICK THE IMAGE to view the Artifct.

Gadgets Galore

Ah yes, kitchen gadgets. As lovers of all things kitchen related, our co-founders Heather and Ellen get it. Who doesn’t want the latest and greatest sure-to-revolutionize-your-dinner-routine gadget? Thankfully for them, space is at a premium in both households, which means that function usually always wins out and helps to keep extra gadgets at bay.

That said, we know this is not the norm. Our members have shared with us stories of all those gadgets sometimes inherited, sometimes accumulated. We’ve heard firsthand how New Year’s resolutions to eat healthier end up with juice machines, bread machines, blenders, and the like tucked away in the back of our cabinets, taunting us and our half-hearted attempts.

When @Sue Artifcted her antique cheese grater, she even showed her daughter how to use it!

But then there are the #battletested kitchen gadgets that have stood the test of time and are woven into the fabric of your family stories around the recipes and holidays they served.

A rolling pin that's been passed down for generations! @Grandmom Artifcted it. CLICK THE IMAGE to view the Artifct.

For all those kitchen gadgets, whether old or new, loved or maybe forgotten, it’s time we take a hard look at them, too. Do they still work? Will you still use them? Perfect! Keep! If the answer is ‘no’ to either of those questions, consider donating or recycling but not before you Artifct them. A few of these gadgets are even featured in our 108 Things to Declutter list, downloadable here.

Junk Drawers, Fridge Doors, and All Other Surfaces

Hello elephant(s) in the room! We’re looking at you junk drawer, fridge door, and all other available surfaces where clutter in our kitchens tends to accumulate.

Barbara Hemphill, of the Productive Environment Institute coined the phrase, “clutter is postponed decisions.” So true! And somehow our kitchens enable us to postpone those decisions even further.

Not today! Pick an area—your junk drawer, your fridge door, or flat surface—and take a hard look at what is there by spreading it out onto an open surface and then thoughtfully reviewing what belongs:

- - Seasonal items can easily be rotated out if you pause to take notice that they are still there, months later. We’re looking at you, hand towels!
  - Sentimental but unnecessary? Great, Artifct it and then recycle, rehome, or otherwise put it in its appropriate space.
  - Any lurking financial or business-related stuff, such as old receipts, invoices, and the like, could potentially be scanned and then shredded.
  - Got mementos overflowing, e.g., old matchbooks, magnets, ticket stubs, and other souvenirs? We bet there are some good stories behind those items to Artifct and share with family and friends. Maybe consider rehoming the actual item if it is no longer needed or used.

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June 25, 2025

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Oldies-But-Goodies: Summer Reading List from the Artifcts Archives

If you're anything like us, you probably have your favorite newsletters piling up in your inboxes all week, all month, all quarter long. We know how great they are, loaded with useful information, new research, fun tips and more, but the days can be so full. And we want to devote our attention to them, so we save them and wait until we have more time. Is summer that time for you?

If ARTIcles by Artifcts is new to you or piling up from your busy days and months, we’ve compiled a few of our favorites from over the years into your next summer reading list, perfect for your next roadtrip, airplane ride, or other adventure over your summer holidays.

While creating this list made us a bit nostalgic, it also reminded us why we’re here – helping us all to transform our relationships to our ‘stuff’ and to each other, one memory, one story, one Artifct at a time. Enjoy!

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SOUNDS OF SUMMER – VINYL EDITION

Music is magical. We use it to teach. We use it to celebrate and recover. We even use it to reconnect with loved ones who have been robbed of so much by dementia, but the powerful memories of music bring them joy. What music would make your ‘best of’ cut? Read now -->

FROM RARE ART TO FAMILY HEIRLOOMS: TIPS FROM A MASTER AS YOU CONSIDER SELLING YOUR ‘STUFF’

Too often we are our own worst enemies, procrastinating, inflating expectations, and worse when it comes to downsizing and decluttering objects we own. We've taken to heart the perspective and truths that Antiques Roadshow host Lark Mason shared with us from his decades of experience working with families as they auctioned away pieces of their family history. Read now -->

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PINT-SIZED PERSPECTIVE ON DECLUTTERING & MOVING

It can be hard to be 5, 6, or 7, or any age under 18 really. So little control over nearly everything! This article is about bringing kids into the decluttering and downsizing game to give them back some control as you prepare to move. Don’t miss a more recent article on this theme from our friend Matt Paxton, too. Read now -->

HOW TO TAKE PICTURES OF OBJECTS AT HOME

The team at Artifcts wants to support you as much as possible, every step of the way. So when our members ask us for tips—like how to take nice pictures of ‘stuff’—we do everything we can to respond and help. Aesthetics matter! Details matter! If you want to level up from our at-home advice, we collected photo tips from a pro, too. Read now -->

We wish you all the best over these summer months. Happy reading, happy Artifcting!

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June 18, 2025

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