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An Easier and More Personal Approach to Family History

October 09, 2024

October is Family History Month. And that got us talking about the meaning and value of family history. Have you ever thought much about it? What is “family history” to you?  

If you Google “define family history,” virtual AI machines spin out a definition that is seconded, thirded (Is that a word? No, surely not.) and otherwise backed up by a plethora of sites all talking about family health and medical history. Nope, not what we’re talking about. 

Scroll a bit further and the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, more commonly known as the Mormon church, defines family history as, “Identifying and learning about your ancestors.” What a convenient definition: narrow and deeply supported by the astounding archival records of the church and its home-grown Family Search software. 

Definition of Family History

As much as we appreciate our Mormon friends, there's more to family history than our ancestors, which on its own is already overwhelming. Just thinking of all those ancestors and what to track down about each one, from where, and what to do with what we learn makes us sweat.  

But here’s what we so easily miss in that process – our families today, aka ancestors to future generations. And that is much simpler and an easier place to start for most of us.

Family History & You

We want to help you focus on your family history in a much more personal sense.  

Pause and think about your family. Who comes to mind? A spouse and children, furry or human? A larger blended family? Or perhaps you immediately wrap in your parents, siblings, nieces and nephews, too? No matter who you have in mind, now think about the history of that family unit.  

In practicing this approach, our co-founder Ellen came up with these pieces of history for her family: 

Traditional “Family History” Elements 

      • Lived in WI, NC, DC/VA/MD, and TX, with one daughter who is now more Texan than anything else. 
      • Lots of family travel, mostly road trips, with some far-flung adventures thrown in. 
      • Grounded daily life to work/school, sports, and neighbors. 
      • She and her spouse both worked for the US Federal government and spent the second half of their early careers working from home. 

A lot of what Ellen came up with is covered by public records—birth, death, and marriage certificates, along with newspapers and census and property records. Those are the very same records that genealogists would gather to learn about ancestors from 10s to 100s of years ago.  

Less Traditional, Maybe More Valuable Family History 

      • Own family language, including regular words that have strange meanings as well as words that are entirely made up. 
      • Message boards, whiteboards and letterboards alike that exhibit the personalities of her family as they fill them in. 
      • The recipes for shrimp de jonghe and coffee cake that were stars of every Christmas at home. 
      • The homemade cards Ellen makes for her husband for every Valentines Day, Birthday, and anniversary. 

A black letter board with white plastic letters

Blue colored word cloud with "Family Talk" label 

Sorry, most of these colorful family history Artifcts are private, but here are some pics to give you the ideas.

While traditional elements can tell you a lot and lead to a lot more questions, such as why all the moves, the less traditional family history gives you a feel for what the family dynamics and day-to-day life was really like. What makes the family tick, if you will. When it comes to family history, we care about both types of information and stories.

Family History: 4 Ways to Fill In and Protect Yours 

We challenge you this October to focus on your own family, however defined, and within a narrower scope of time – try just the last few years since COVID, for example. Less stress on the finding. More emphasis on the memories and the sharing. Pick even just one of the following to get yourself started.

Seminal moments.

CELEBRATE them, document them. How you do this is up to you. Conventional options are photo albums and scrapbooks. Grander options are a family reunion tied to an anniversary of some sort. For us, we’re of course more inclined to Artifct that, perhaps starting with Artifcting our Life Firsts checklist (download free here) and “best of” photos for favorites moments and memories, the details of which always fade too soon. 

Critical details.

We’re talking life, death and everything in between. To protect you and your family and all you have built together, take your first steps toward recording life data in a digital vault of your choice, like that offered by Trustworthy. Enter basics first: drivers licenses, passports, and car titles and/or loans. You’ll FEEL the progress. Let it motivate you to keep going: insurance policies, mortgages, 401ks, and more. 

Your photos.

No, photos are not all worth 1,000 words, but you’ll be devastated if they all disappear. We love the advice we’ve heard often from Cathi Nelson, CEO of The Photo Managers, to back them up to three separate locations, e.g., phone, flash drive, the cloud. You should do this often, and software like Mylio can help, but at the VERY least, back up all those pics this month.

Man running in urban setting while holding a leather weekender bag

 
 
CLICK THE IMAGE to read our story: “Emergency Go Bag: Don’t Forget the Memories” for more tips. 

Give a Story, Get a story. 

GIVE A STORY: YOURS! Skip the memoir for now. You’re getting overwhelmed even thinking about it. Write down one story of your own that you love to tell. Now share it with someone, in person and out loud, if possible. Storysharing is more powerful than storytelling because you engage the person in a way that is so much more memorable. Be sure to Artifct yourself telling it too. No one can do it justice the way you do, your voice, your words.

Definition of story sharing

GET A STORY: A FAMILY MEMBER'S. Maybe you remember hearing it once, and you have forgotten the details. Maybe you’ve never heard how grandma came to be a physicist and the projects she worked on. Ask. Record it. Artifct it. Share it. And get more tips from, “Storytellers: Beware!

Let This Be the Beginning! 

Whether you’re just getting started and want to go deeper or are already in the thick of family history and are looking for more ideas, even new fodder for family reunions and holidays, enjoy this shortlist of Arti Community favorites from ARTIcles by Artifcts: 

Happy Artifcting!

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What Will Your Family Remember? A Modern Family Archive for the Modern Family

In her recent New York Magazine article titled "What Are We Doing About Our Family Archives?" Kathryn Jezer-Morton raises a question many of us quietly avoid: what are we doing with our family stories, memories, keepsakes, and more?  

It’s the kind of question that quietly follows you into the attic, into the basement, into the moments when you open an old box and find yourself holding something that once meant everything to someone you love. A photograph with no names on the back. A recipe written in a familiar hand. A watch, a letter, a ticket stub—objects that feel heavy not because of what they are, but because of what they carry. 

Most of us don’t think of ourselves as archivists. And yet, in some ways, we all are. 

A body of research shows that family archives—photos, letters, heirlooms, even everyday objects—play a powerful role in how families understand themselves and pass meaning across generations. 

But here’s the challenge: most family archives are fragmented, overwhelming, and at risk of being lost. That’s where Artifcts offers a refreshingly modern approach. 

Your Family Archive, Reimagined 

Family archives are rarely neat or complete. They’re scattered across shelves and drawers, split between relatives, tucked into albums or forgotten in envelopes. And even when we hold onto the objects, the stories behind them begin to soften, blur, and eventually disappear. 

You might know what something is—but not why it mattered. That’s the quiet loss that happens over time. 

Artifcts offers a different way forward. Not by asking you to hold onto more things, but by helping you hold onto what matters most: the stories, the context, the meaning. 

Turning Moments Into Memories That Last 

Using Artifcts feels less like archiving and more like remembering—intentionally. 

When you create an Artifct, you’re not just cataloging an item. You’re pausing long enough to ask: Why is this part of my story? And then you answer it, in your own words, in your own voice. 

It might be an old photograph—one you’ve seen a hundred times but never really documented. You upload it, and suddenly you’re recalling the beach, the summer heat, the way your brother always stood just out of frame until someone insisted he joined. Maybe you don’t know everyone in the picture, but you know enough. And that’s enough to begin. 

Or maybe it’s a recipe. Not just ingredients and steps, but a ritual. The way the kitchen smelled. The way no one was allowed to sit down until everything was “just right.” You write it down, and then you add something more—a short video, perhaps, of someone in your family making it. Or an audio recording of you explaining why it matters. And don’t forget those “unwritten rules,” Grandma never did. Extra cinnamon, yes please! 

 

And just like that, something ordinary becomes something lasting. 

Hearing the Past, Seeing the People 

There is something powerful about hearing a voice again; seeing someone’s gestures, their expressions, the way they tell a story only they could tell. Artifcts allows you to add audio and video to your memories, and this changes everything. 

A written story is meaningful—but a spoken one feels alive. 

A written story is meaningful—but a spoken one feels alive. 

Imagine a future grandchild not only reading about a family tradition, but hearing it described in your voice. Seeing the way you smiled when you talked about it. That’s not just preservation. That’s a connection across time. 

Watching Your Story Unfold 

As you begin to add Artifcts, something unexpected happens. The moments start to connect. 

With our Artifcts Timeline feature, your memories are automatically arranged across years, decades, even generations. What once felt like isolated pieces becomes something more like a story unfolding. 

You begin to see patterns. Traditions that repeat. Moves, milestones, turning points. You see how one moment led to another, how a family becomes over time. Your kids and grandkids can see what made you “you.” And the entire family can better understand what matters most to you by the very fact of what you chose to Artifct.  

With Artifcts Timelines, your family archive is no longer just a collection. It’s a narrative pieced together by you over time. 

Letting Go Without Losing Anything 

If you’ve read this far and you’re dreading ending up with a basement full of everyone else’s stuff, fear not. One of the hardest parts of being the keeper of family history is the weight of it all—the responsibility, the volume, the feeling that letting go of something might mean losing it forever.  

Artifcts makes it possible to preserve the meaning of an item even if you decide not to keep the item itself. You can document it fully—its story, its significance, its place in your family—and then choose to pass it on, donate it, or simply let it go. 

What remains is what mattered all along. Not the object, but the memory it carried. 

A Living Archive, Not A Finished One 

Your family archive isn’t something you complete. It’s something you will continue. It grows as you remember more, as you ask questions, as you take the time to capture what might otherwise slip away. It becomes a shared space where stories live—not just for you, but for everyone who comes after you. 

And maybe that’s the real answer to the question Kathryn Jezer-Morton asked. 

We don’t need perfect archives. We don’t need everything organized and complete. We just need to begin. One photo. One recipe. One piece of jewelry. One story. 

Because in the end, it’s not the things we pass down that define us. It’s the meaning we choose to remember—and the care we take to make sure it isn’t forgotten. 

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Eco-Decluttering Made Easy: How to Clear Your Space Without Creating Waste

Today is Earth Day—a perfect moment to take a fresh look at the way we live with our stuff. In honor of Earth Day, we’re tackling eco-decluttering, a thoughtful approach to clearing your space that’s as kind to the planet as it is to your peace of mind. Because decluttering shouldn’t just make your home feel lighter—it should reduce waste, extend the life of everyday items, and help build a more sustainable future.

Decluttering used to come with a nagging question: Where does all this stuff actually go? If your answer has ever been “uh… the trash,” you’re not alone. A 2024 Talker Research report found that although 77% of respondants claim to make efforts to be as sustainable as possible, respondants average throwing away 12 items a day! That's a LOT of stuff. 

Welcome to eco-decluttering, where clearing your space and caring for the planet go hand in hand. At Artifcts, we like to think of it as a three-step process: remember, release, and rehome. Because the goal isn’t just less stuff—it’s less waste, more meaning, and a lighter environmental footprint.


🌱 Step 1: Declutter with intention (not impulse)

Before you start tossing things into bags, pause. Not forever, just long enough to decide what truly matters.

Artifcts reminds us that many of the hardest items to part with aren’t junk at all—they’re memory-filled objects: travel mementos, old books, heirlooms, or even that outfit from a milestone moment.

Instead of letting guilt or nostalgia stall your progress, try this:

  • Capture the story first (photos, audio, or a quick written memory)
  • Keep a few meaningful items
  • Let the rest move on

This approach helps you avoid the all-or-nothing trap and makes decluttering feel less like loss and more like curation.


♻️ Step 2: Sort smarter—think beyond the trash bag

A classic decluttering tip still holds up: sort items into clear categories like donate, recycle, repair, or sell. Even professional organizers recommend prepping these pathways before you begin so nothing lingers in limbo.

But eco-decluttering adds an extra layer: default to reuse whenever possible.

Ask yourself:

  • Could someone else use this as-is?
  • Can it be repurposed creatively?
  • Is there a responsible recycling option?

If the answer to all three is no, then it’s time to let it go.


🌍 Step 3: Give your items a second life (the Artifcts way)

Here’s where our Artifcts Going Green Guides really shine. Once you’ve decided to part with something, you have more options than you might think:

1. Donate with purpose
Many everyday items are in high demand:

Even hospitals, universities, and disaster relief groups often accept specific items like blankets, gowns, or toys.

2. Share locally
Your “declutter” pile might be someone else’s jackpot:

  • Offer items to neighbors or community groups
  • Use local “buy nothing” networks
  • Pass things directly to friends or family

3. Repurpose and upcycle
Before you donate, consider whether an item could live a new life:

  • Turn old china into wall art
  • Reuse glassware creatively
  • Transform sentimental fabrics into keepsakes, such as quilts or pillow coverings

Sometimes, breaking up a set or reimagining a use makes all the difference. Sarah Reeder, founder of Artifactual History, offers some creative tips for repurposing old silver sets on one of our previous Evenings with Artifcts episodes. 

4. Recycle responsibly
For items like electronics or worn-out goods, skip the trash:

  • Check municipal recycling programs
  • Use retailer take-back programs
  • Look for specialty recyclers

The key here being that your local landfill is the last resort, not the default.


💡 Bonus: The “Artifct Before You Let Go” Rule

On the fence about whether to rehome, recycle, or otherwise part with an item? Maybe it's got a great story, or evokes fond memories. One of the most powerful ideas from Artifcts’ Going Green philosophy is simple: Capture the story before the item leaves.

When you do this, you can preserve the meaning without keeping the clutter, feel more confident letting go, and create a digital legacy that’s easier to share with loved ones and friends. 

Suddenly, decluttering isn’t about getting rid of things—it’s about keeping what matters in a better way.


🌿 The Bigger Picture

The average home holds far more than it needs, and much of it eventually ends up in landfills. Eco-decluttering flips that script. It’s not just about organizing your space—it’s about participating in a more thoughtful cycle of ownership.

So the next time you pick up an object and wonder, “Should I keep this?” try a better question:

“What’s the best next life for this?”

Because when your clutter becomes someone else’s treasure—or gets a second life entirely—you’re not just tidying up. You’re doing a little good for the world, one drawer at a time.

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Spring Cleaning: The Clothing Edition

Spring has sprung and our closets are ready to spring forth as well. Clothing has a sneaky way of taking up space in our hearts AND in our closets, which is why this year we’re offering up some tips and tricks for spring cleaning dedicated to clothing and accessories.

Our expert tip on all things clothing? Artifct it, of course, and include a photo of you wearing it back in the day, if possible, to help you keep the memories, while you let go of the items you haven’t worn in years, if not decades.

But Artifcting is not the be all, end all. Are you ready to free up closet space? Let’s get started!

Seasonal Items

As you get ready to put your winter clothing into storage and take out your spring essentials consider what you actually wore this past winter and what you kept, thinking you WOULD wear.

In our household we make two piles—the “yes, I wore it” pile, and the “nope, never touched it pile.” We then take a hard look at that second pile to determine the reason WHY we never wore it. Was it not cold enough this winter? Does the item no longer fit? If the answer is yes to the latter, we consider who else might need or want it (nieces, nephews, etc.) or we pick our favorite charity to donate the item.

We also take a hard look at winter gear that has stood the test of time for years but may be on its way out. I broke down in tears this year over my husband’s beloved Patagonia down jacket. The memories, the adventures! However, it was hard to ignore the feathers seeping out of every seam. I found myself having to vacuum after every wear. We took it back to Patagonia hoping they’d be able to repair it as part of their Worn Wear Program, but alas, it was beyond repair. We agreed to let Patagonia recycle the jacket although not before Artifcting it!

 

Professional Clothing (aka Life Before COVID)

Remember when we used to get dressed up EVERY day and go into the office? The actual office. Not just our home office. Although memories fade, the clothing lingering in our closet(s) serves as a constant reminder of, “Oh yeah, I used to actually wear that stuff.”

This year I took a hard look at our professional clothes to determine what has a realistic chance of being worn again, and what can be relegated to the “life before COVID” bin (aka donation bin). We donate most professional clothing items to Dress for Success and sell a handful of items with TheRealReal. It’s amazing the closet space and hangers we regained this year when we were realistic about what we would wear post-COVID.

I admit there were some items I was reluctant to let go of because of the memories. My first pair of heels and my favorite ballet flats fell into this category. Both had been worn past any useful lifespan and yet, I didn’t want to let go. So, what’s a girl to do? You guessed it, I Artifcted them. And then I felt a little less guilty getting rid of them. Artifcts enabled me to keep the memories and let go of the actual ‘stuff.’

 

Kid Clothing

They grow so fast! My daughter’s closet is a ready target when it comes to spring cleaning. She’s now old enough to help with the process, and she knows once the items are donated she gets to pick out replacement items that fit. Extra motivation! And even together time since she’s now at the age when she loves to shop.

We usually donate the clothing she has outgrown to our local Goodwill store, although there are some items she’ll ask to keep and repurpose. She stunned us one year when she repurposed her old ballet tutu into a modern work of art!

T-Shirts

Yes, they deserve their own category. My dear husband has a way of coming home from every trip, conference, and work event with another t-shirt. We’ve relegated his t-shirt collection to one drawer and one under-the-bed bin. And yet. There are so many!

Although this go-around with spring cleaning most of his t-shirts were spared. Why? Because he wears them, all of them.

I, however, discovered that I had been holding on to a t-shirt in MY t-shirt bin that I hadn’t even worn. Not once. I was getting ready to Artifct it (and include photos and video of the event) when our youngest swooped in to claim it for herself. Being two sizes too big, it was declared “tres, tres chic.” Success! T-shirt re-homed. We often joke here at Artifcts that the best vintage shop in the world is probably Grandma’s closet! (Or in this case, my closet!)

 

Accessories

Since when did we own two dozen hats?

Like t-shirts, accessories tend to multiply like bunnies at least in our household. Hats, socks, and re-usable bags tend to be the worst offenders. Companies love to gift accessories as promotional materials, and most members of my household LOVE to accept those gifts. You see where this is going.

We have a bin dedicated solely to reusable bags, and another to hats. I took a hard look at both this past month and lovingly put out for free a dozen reusable bags and a half dozen hats. Much to my delight they were picked up within minutes of setting them out.

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On a roll? If you need some donation ideas outside the usual, check out the clothing section of Going Green. With Artifcts.

If instead you're ready for tips on decluttering and organizing beyond clothing, you may love our 15 Decluttering Targets for Artifcters or one of our Evenings with Artifcts episodes with Matt Paxton!

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