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An Easier and More Personal Approach to Family History

October 09, 2024

October is Family History Month. And that got us talking about the meaning and value of family history. Have you ever thought much about it? What is “family history” to you?  

If you Google “define family history,” virtual AI machines spin out a definition that is seconded, thirded (Is that a word? No, surely not.) and otherwise backed up by a plethora of sites all talking about family health and medical history. Nope, not what we’re talking about. 

Scroll a bit further and the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, more commonly known as the Mormon church, defines family history as, “Identifying and learning about your ancestors.” What a convenient definition: narrow and deeply supported by the astounding archival records of the church and its home-grown Family Search software. 

Definition of Family History

As much as we appreciate our Mormon friends, there's more to family history than our ancestors, which on its own is already overwhelming. Just thinking of all those ancestors and what to track down about each one, from where, and what to do with what we learn makes us sweat.  

But here’s what we so easily miss in that process – our families today, aka ancestors to future generations. And that is much simpler and an easier place to start for most of us.

Family History & You

We want to help you focus on your family history in a much more personal sense.  

Pause and think about your family. Who comes to mind? A spouse and children, furry or human? A larger blended family? Or perhaps you immediately wrap in your parents, siblings, nieces and nephews, too? No matter who you have in mind, now think about the history of that family unit.  

In practicing this approach, our co-founder Ellen came up with these pieces of history for her family: 

Traditional “Family History” Elements 

      • Lived in WI, NC, DC/VA/MD, and TX, with one daughter who is now more Texan than anything else. 
      • Lots of family travel, mostly road trips, with some far-flung adventures thrown in. 
      • Grounded daily life to work/school, sports, and neighbors. 
      • She and her spouse both worked for the US Federal government and spent the second half of their early careers working from home. 

A lot of what Ellen came up with is covered by public records—birth, death, and marriage certificates, along with newspapers and census and property records. Those are the very same records that genealogists would gather to learn about ancestors from 10s to 100s of years ago.  

Less Traditional, Maybe More Valuable Family History 

      • Own family language, including regular words that have strange meanings as well as words that are entirely made up. 
      • Message boards, whiteboards and letterboards alike that exhibit the personalities of her family as they fill them in. 
      • The recipes for shrimp de jonghe and coffee cake that were stars of every Christmas at home. 
      • The homemade cards Ellen makes for her husband for every Valentines Day, Birthday, and anniversary. 

A black letter board with white plastic letters

Blue colored word cloud with "Family Talk" label 

Sorry, most of these colorful family history Artifcts are private, but here are some pics to give you the ideas.

While traditional elements can tell you a lot and lead to a lot more questions, such as why all the moves, the less traditional family history gives you a feel for what the family dynamics and day-to-day life was really like. What makes the family tick, if you will. When it comes to family history, we care about both types of information and stories.

Family History: 4 Ways to Fill In and Protect Yours 

We challenge you this October to focus on your own family, however defined, and within a narrower scope of time – try just the last few years since COVID, for example. Less stress on the finding. More emphasis on the memories and the sharing. Pick even just one of the following to get yourself started.

Seminal moments.

CELEBRATE them, document them. How you do this is up to you. Conventional options are photo albums and scrapbooks. Grander options are a family reunion tied to an anniversary of some sort. For us, we’re of course more inclined to Artifct that, perhaps starting with Artifcting our Life Firsts checklist (download free here) and “best of” photos for favorites moments and memories, the details of which always fade too soon. 

Critical details.

We’re talking life, death and everything in between. To protect you and your family and all you have built together, take your first steps toward recording life data in a digital vault of your choice, like that offered by Trustworthy. Enter basics first: drivers licenses, passports, and car titles and/or loans. You’ll FEEL the progress. Let it motivate you to keep going: insurance policies, mortgages, 401ks, and more. 

Your photos.

No, photos are not all worth 1,000 words, but you’ll be devastated if they all disappear. We love the advice we’ve heard often from Cathi Nelson, CEO of The Photo Managers, to back them up to three separate locations, e.g., phone, flash drive, the cloud. You should do this often, and software like Mylio can help, but at the VERY least, back up all those pics this month.

Man running in urban setting while holding a leather weekender bag

 
 
CLICK THE IMAGE to read our story: “Emergency Go Bag: Don’t Forget the Memories” for more tips. 

Give a Story, Get a story. 

GIVE A STORY: YOURS! Skip the memoir for now. You’re getting overwhelmed even thinking about it. Write down one story of your own that you love to tell. Now share it with someone, in person and out loud, if possible. Storysharing is more powerful than storytelling because you engage the person in a way that is so much more memorable. Be sure to Artifct yourself telling it too. No one can do it justice the way you do, your voice, your words.

Definition of story sharing

GET A STORY: A FAMILY MEMBER'S. Maybe you remember hearing it once, and you have forgotten the details. Maybe you’ve never heard how grandma came to be a physicist and the projects she worked on. Ask. Record it. Artifct it. Share it. And get more tips from, “Storytellers: Beware!

Let This Be the Beginning! 

Whether you’re just getting started and want to go deeper or are already in the thick of family history and are looking for more ideas, even new fodder for family reunions and holidays, enjoy this shortlist of Arti Community favorites from ARTIcles by Artifcts: 

Happy Artifcting!

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What Should You Do with Old Cards and Letters?

At Artifcts, we've seen this question come up again and again—and we understand why. 

Today, there are more than 150 publicly Artifcted cards and letters on Artifcts.com, each preserving a story, a relationship, or a moment in time. Our Co-Founder, Heather, has also privately Artifcted more than three dozen cards and letters from her own life (and still has a couple dozen more to go!). 

We hear you, and you are not alone. Cards and letters are sneaky. They don't take up much space individually, but together they can fill boxes, bins, closets, and entire storage shelves. Unlike many other possessions, they're full of sentiment, emotion, and something increasingly rare, handwriting. We want to keep them because they connect us to people and moments that mattered. 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 

But then life happens. The bins overflow. The storage area fills up. Years pass, sometimes decades. And despite keeping every birthday card, holiday greeting, love note, sympathy card, or handwritten letter, we rarely pull them out to read them again.  

So...what should you do with them? 

Start with a Different Question 

Instead of asking, "Should I keep this card?" ask yourself: 

"What am I really trying to preserve?" 

Most of the time, it's not the paper itself. It's your grandmother's unmistakable cursive. It's the note your child scribbled before they learned to spell. It's the anniversary card that reminds you exactly how you felt in that moment in time. It's the laugh-out-loud birthday card from a friend who always knew how to make you smile. 

 
 
 
 
Laugh-out-loud and always makes me smile. Mother's Day 2024. Sorry, this Artifct is private!

Often, the physical card is simply the vessel that carries the memory forward, lest we forget. 

You Don't Have to Keep Every Piece of Paper 

Many people feel guilty even considering letting go of cards and letters. It can feel like discarding the relationship itself. But preserving memories doesn't have to mean storing every card, letter, note, or envelope forever. 

As you sort through your collection, consider categories like: 

  • Cards that mark major life milestones.
  • Letters from people who have shaped your life.
  • Notes that tell a meaningful story.
  • Cards with especially memorable handwriting or artwork.
  • Messages that still make you smile, laugh, or cry. 

These are often the pieces worth preserving—not because they're old, but because they continue to have meaning and someday someone else in your family may be curious enough to want to see them or even keep them as part of their family history too. 

Preserve the Memory, Reduce the Clutter 

Whether you're downsizing, helping parents organize decades of keepsakes, or simply reclaiming space at home, preserving the stories first makes it much easier to decide what to do with the physical items afterward. By photographing or scanning meaningful cards and letters and pairing them with your own memories, you create an archive that's easier to revisit than a stack of bins tucked away in the attic. 

Here's an easy way to get started: 

  1. Choose the cards and letters that matter most. Start with a small group—perhaps birthday cards from your parents, letters from a grandparent, love notes, or cards that commemorate major milestones.
  2. Photograph or scan each piece. Capture the front, inside message, back, and envelope if it adds context. Don't worry about perfection; your goal is to preserve the memory.
  3. Add the images to an Artifct and tell the story behind them. Who wrote it? What was happening in your life? Why has this particular note stayed with you all these years? Those details transform a simple card into part of your personal history. 

Once you've preserved both the images and the story, you'll find it much easier to decide whether the physical card belongs in a keepsake box, should be passed on to family, or can finally be recycled.  

Less Clutter. More Memories. 

Cards and letters were never meant to spend decades hidden in storage bins. They were written to be read, remembered, and cherished. That's exactly what Artifcts helps you do. 

Artifct your cards and letters to create a fully accessible, shareable archive of the notes, sweet sentiments, heartfelt messages, and laugh-out-loud moments that matter most. Add the stories behind them, preserve the handwriting, and revisit them anytime, from anywhere. 

Because the goal isn't to keep every piece of paper. It's to keep the memories. Happy Artifcting!

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Looking for additional tips on how to Artifct cards, letters, and other ephemera? Check out our How to Artifcts Cards & Letters article to help you get started. 

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The Stories We Didn't Capture | Why Preserving Family Memories Matters

When people ask me why I believe so deeply in what we're building at Artifcts, I could talk about technology. I could talk about digital preservation, AI, or the challenge of organizing a lifetime of memories. But the real answer is much simpler. 

It's my mom. 

Like so many families, as she got older, my brothers and I wanted to preserve her stories. We wanted our kids and grandkids to know not just who she was, but how she lived, what she loved, and why certain objects mattered. 

Through Artifcts, my mom documented more than 200 items, photos, and memories. She photographed treasured keepsakes, family heirlooms, travel souvenirs, and pieces of history that had found their way into our family over the decades. She told stories that otherwise would have disappeared. When she passed away, those Artifcts became one of the greatest gifts she left behind. 

 

As my brothers and I worked through her belongings, we didn't have to wonder what mattered most to her. We knew. We knew which objects carried special meaning, which family stories deserved to be passed along, and why she had a rather well-preserved eight-foot snakeskin on her bookcase.  

Without Artifcts, so much of that would have been guesswork. And yet...even with more than 200 Artifcts, we discovered something that surprised us. There were still chapters of her life we knew very little about. 

The Stories We Never Thought to Ask About 

Looking back through everything she created, patterns emerged. She documented many wonderful historic family items. She preserved memories from decades of travel and living overseas in such far-flung places as Kathmandu, Rio de Janeiro, and Liberia. She captured objects connected to raising a family overseas and building a life with our dad. 

However, there was remarkably little from her teenage years. Who was she before she became our mother? What were her dreams? What music did she love? What friendships shaped her? What challenges did she overcome before she ever met our father? 

Then we noticed another gap. The last twenty years of her life were barely represented. 

Without a doubt, those years mattered too. They included new friendships, changing priorities, becoming a grandmother to an ever-growing brood of grandchildren, adapting to life's inevitable changes, and countless everyday moments (hello Rummikub champion!) that become precious only after someone is gone.  

Those stories are largely lost to us now. Not because she didn't live them, but because none of us realized they still needed to be captured. We had patted ourselves on the back saying “yep, Gradnmom’s got 200 Artifcts, we’re good,” and, “we’ve heard that story a thousand times, there’s no way we’ll forget it.” Except, somehow, we have. We’ve forgotten the little details and I’m sure mixed-up others. 

Even Hundreds of Stories Leave Room for More 

One of the biggest misconceptions about preserving family history is that it's about finishing an enormous project. It's not. No one ever reaches the point where they've told every meaningful story. 

Life keeps happening. Your story changes every year. The person you are today is different from the person you were ten years ago. The memories that feel ordinary now may become the stories your grandchildren treasure most someday. 

I see this differently now than I did before losing my mom. When someone is still with us, it's easy to assume there will always be another holiday, another phone call, another chance to ask, "Tell me about when..." 

Sometimes there isn't. 

The Objects Matter—Because the Stories Matter 

People often ask whether Artifcts is really about the objects. The objects are important; they're the prompts. A cookbook becomes the story of Sunday dinners. A passport becomes decades of adventure. A baseball glove becomes a childhood friendship. A wedding ring becomes sixty years of marriage. 

 
 
 
 

Although the objects may anchor our memories, the real treasure isn't always the object itself. It's knowing why it mattered. If I could go back, I'd ask more questions. 

  • I'd ask about the years before I existed. 
  • I'd ask about the years I thought I already understood. 
  • I'd ask about the ordinary days that didn't seem remarkable at the time. 

I can't do that now, but I can encourage others to start today. Take time to document your own story. Take time to capture the stories of the people you love. 

Photograph the objects that matter. Record why they matter. Ask the questions you've been meaning to ask. Preserve the memories that seem obvious today, because one day they won't be. My one closing thought? Leave your loved ones a legacy, not a mystery.  

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Looking for more inspiration to help you capture your stories? Check out our newest partner, MemoirGhostwriting.com, who has generously discounted their most popular memoir packages for our Artifcts members. 

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You've probably heard the expression, "time waits for no one," and here at Artifcts we know that is true. Whether it's capturing a funny story Grandmom is sharing about her beloved candy jar, or the ten thousandth friendship bracelet woven at summer camp by your pre-teen. The stories and the objects that spark them jump in and out of our lives faster than a summer rain shower.

Sometimes we can capture them on the fly, but other times, why spoil the moment? Here at Artifcts we're excited to announce our new Drafts feature. Drafts allows you to quickly capture what matters—an audio snippet of Grandmom, or a photo of your camper and her collection of bracelets—and fill in the details whenever you're ready.

Drafts allows you to quickly capture what matters...and fill in the details whenever you're ready.

You can share a photo or video straight from your phone's gallery to your Artifcts account to start a new Artifct, or open the Artifcts App and take a photo, record a video, or capture an audio clip on the spot. We've made it easier than ever to Artifct where you're at while not losing sight of what matters most—the small moments, stories, and memories that make us smile. 

How It Works

  • Share a photo or video straight from your phone's gallery to Artifcts to start a new Artifct, or open the Artifcts App and take a photo, record a video, or capture an audio clip on the spot.
  • Add your media, tap Save, then choose Save as Draft. No title, no description, no details required.
  • Your draft appears at the top of your Artifcts list as a Local Draft, stored right on your mobile device.
  • When you're ready, open it back up, fill in the “Name Your Artifct” field and add the “Description or Story” behind it, and do a full Save to push it to the cloud and keep it safe in Artifcts. Once fully saved, you can see and edit it on the Artifcts website.

Our new Drafts feature allows you to capture the moment in seconds and tell the stories on your own time. At Artifcts, your stories matter, and we know your time is precious. Sometimes simply getting THAT photo, video, or audio snippet captured is enough motivation to go back and fill in the details later. 

Feel free to reach out to us at Hello@Artifcts.com if you have any questions or any suggestions for future features. We'd love to hear from you and we value your feedback. 

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