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Take Another Look at Cemeteries and the Stories Untold They Hold

Ellen Goodwin, Artifcts
October 31, 2023

Reading time: 5 minutes 

What’s with all the interest in cemeteries? Is cemetery tourism really a thing? Isn’t it bad mojo to tromp around where you don’t belong? And why are cemeteries so interesting as to inspire memes about hanging out with dead people and bumper stickers like, “I brake for graveyards?” Genealogists must have seriously healthy senses of humor about their research sources and habits. 

Not being a genealogist or historian, I’ve never quite understood the passion some people have for taking road trips to cemeteries where family are buried, never mind stopping at random ones you may come across.

I can think of three excuses, aka reasons, most of us visit cemeteries: a funeral ceremony, a history lesson, and morbid curiosity. 

A Place of Ceremony and Reflection 

My grandmother died when I was four. My memory of the day is hazy. I remember better the feeling of watching her casket exit the church and thinking how sad it was I wouldn’t see her again. Many people visit cemeteries to remember their loved ones and to take the space they need for conversation, prayer, and thought, honoring those whom they’ve lost.

The power of reflection can make folks do funny things, too. My mother once told me about visiting her parents’ gravesite with one of her siblings. Her normally rather stoic sibling proceeded to lie on the ground next to their parents and ask, “How do I look?” How can you not laugh, even if in a cemetery, about that?

What's the difference between cemetery and graveyard

A Place of History and Community 

I remember much better the solemn awe of walking on a guided tour through Arlington National Cemetery when I visited Washington D.C. on a school field trip. The sheer scale of it and all that it implied registered even with my 14-year-old self. I took a few pictures, now scratchy because the negatives sat for decades in bins. Take my advice: Digitize sooner than later, but first read about my experience!

On that visit, there was something unique that I captured – the tiny green temporary placard that marked the grave of Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis. She had passed away only weeks before our trip, and her resting place beside President John F. Kennedy was a stop along our tour.

Final resting place of JFK and temporary grave marker and resting place of Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis

 
 
Clearly should have gotten a closer shot. But the shadows tell you many people were crowding in for a pic.

Simple Curiosity 

I visited a local graveyard once in high school: St. Patrick’s Church cemetery in Askeaton, Wisconsin. We were curious which were the oldest of the crumbling tombstones. Obviously, there was no choice but for the oldest to date to the 1850s when the church was founded by Irish immigrants, but we knew nothing of that history. We were teenagers!

Nowadays, a variety of genealogical, historical, and lineage societies, among others, help preserve and document cemeteries. Websites even exist specifically for collective recording of grave markers for others to use to unlock family mysteries and reconstruct community histories. (More on that below!)

Curious, even a little, about visiting a cemetery or graveyard? Wondering what use a graveyard visit may be to you? Read on!

Unlocking Family Mysteries and Continuing Family Storylines at Cemeteries 

For the curious, grave markers provide an abundance of opportunity to play detective. Whether measured in days or decades, that dash between birth year and death year represents a life lived.

The grave markers themselves convey a lot about a person:

      • Where is the marker – What city? A public cemetery? A churchyard? What faith and denomination? Where within the space, relegated to a dark corner or a prime position? 
      • What type of marker is it – The material, style, and size can provide clues about wealth and status and also culture. 
      • What is on the marker – name, date of birth, professional titles, next of kin, cause of death … so much potential. And don't forget to look on the back if it's double sided! Sometimes you’ll find adornments, such as pictures and symbols to puzzle out, too. Our friends over at Legacy Tree Genealogists recently published an article about tombstone symbols. Check it out >
      • Who is nearby – It may be that you discover relatives nearby that you had not yet discovered or are shocked are directly next to the person whose marker you’re interested in.  

One Arti Community member shared a fabulous historical tale with us about the hero who she found buried next to her grandfather. Click the image to listen in! 

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Planning a Visit to a Cemetery

Cemetery tourism like my trip to Arlington National Cemetery aside, if you’re planning a personal visit, we’ve collected tips to make your visit more productive and pleasant.

“Google” first. 

All we mean is do your online research first so you can validate as much information as possible about the site and avoid wasting time on your journey or the day you visit. Popular starting points are BillionGraves (find in AppStore and Google Play), Find a Grave, which also offers a cemetery search (find in AppStore), and Cemetary Census, covering a handful of states.

Reach out to local genealogy and historical societies as well as public libraries, too. You’ll meet hobbyists and professionals alike who delight in helping break through family mysteries and brick walls. 

Call ahead. 

Please, call! You need to confirm the public access hours, details about any temporary or permanent off-limits areas, whether they permit rubbings, and if they have historical records on site you can browse, too. (Bring gloves for safe handling!) While you are at it, ask if they offer maps and guided tours. Some even have mobile apps. 

Bring a small kit. 

A soft paintbrush to gently brush dirt off a marker, a grass clipper to reveal hidden areas, and a blanket or pad to crouch down onto for more comfortable access should suffice. Plus rubbing supplies, if permitted.

Think about the time of day. 

Be mindful of lighting during the season and time of day you plan to visit. Age and material can make it challenging to read, never mind photograph, a marker even if you plan to use photo editing software later. An umbrella can help with glares, and of course protect you and your work from the elements. 

Be careful what you ask for. 

We all know history can be ugly. And if it’s family history you’re tracking down, deeply personal, too. Do you really want the answers? Are you prepared to learn Great Grandma did not get buried next to Great Grandpa, but someone else lies between them? What about discovering a child no one ever mentioned? A false or conflicting date of birth or death? And do others in your family want to know what you find? Tread carefully.

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Rescue Mission: That's More Than a Photo! Artifct That.

Over the years, we've come to appreciate how even seemingly random photos can provide the spark connecting us to each other, to histories, to pasts unknown, if given the opportunity. The ice hiker shown above? Where was he? What was he doing? Where was he going? What became of him after his great adventure?

I bet we all have a photo like this. One that is black and white, maybe a little tattered around the edges. Maybe you found yours in a bin of old photos tucked away in a great Aunt's attic, or maybe yours was carefully, loving framed and had sat on top of Nana's piano for decades. Decades! 

We've all heard the cliche that a photo is worth a thousand words, but we've yet to have a photo start telling us the who, what, when, where and why it was taken. The simple truth is photos can't talk. A researcher could find an explorers club to assist, trace the clothing, authenticate the age of the paper, maybe. But absent a family member or friend knowing his story, his details, he and his story could very well remain a mystery for future generations. 

Our co-founder Heather was reminded of this not too long ago when trying to rather unsuccessfully piece together the (presumed) relatives from generations past in a series of family photos. It was a frustrating and in the end rather helpless task since no living members of her family could recall the details. The closest she got to an answer was "that might have been Great Nana B's sister...or cousin...or maybe just a friend." Yep, that was helpful!

In fact, if you've read Our Story, you've seen a black and white photo of woman who in some ways is the silent third founder of Artifcts.

 

Artifcts co-founder Heather Nickerson's mother

 
 
 

The photo grabs you. Who is she? What (or who) is she looking at that is making her smile? Who took the picture? When was this picture taken and where? Truth is, her end-of-life was the inspiration for Artifcts and our efforts to remove so much of the potential burden from our loved ones who are left to parse through our belongings, photos included, after we're gone. We built Artifcts to ensure that families everywhere can pass along memories, heritage, and legacy, and not just items. Her photo is no longer a mere photograph, but a history. You can read about that very photo's history here.

When you can, you should just ASK!

Here are two more photos that capture our interest in the same way, sparking the same questions. And, we wonder: If someone sold framed photos like this through an estate sale, consignment shop, or flea market, would they captivate a curious, anonymous buyer? They could just as easily fit into the decor of a modern home as one with a farmhouse chic decor or even a cozier older style. 

 

 
 
 

Our CTO, Matt, found these framed portraits buried in a collection of old photographs his mother had kept in her house. Thankfully she had already Artifcted them and Matt was able to know not only who the photos were of (his great grandmother!), but also when they were taken. Absent his mother taking the time to Artifct the photos and the details, that part of their family history would have been easily forgotten, and quite possibly discarded or donated. 

Look around your house. Would the next generation know who is in the framed photos you have on display? Would they know WHY they are on display? Why they matter to you and your family? Chances are, probably not.

Take a moment today to capture that history before it slips away. Not sure where to start or what questions to ask? Download a copy of our free Rescue Those Photos! checklist to help you get started.

Artifct a few choice photosyour favorites, the most outrageous, or maybe the ones that make you go, "Hmmm." You can easily share your Artifcts with friends and family to meaningfully connect and reconnect over (nearly!) lost pasts and new stories shared for more "I never knew that about you!" moments now and into the future.

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If you are interested in photo and/or video digitization services, our Partners at The Photo Managers can help! Our Artifcts Team is proud to be a sponsor of The Photo Managers Conference this year in Boston. 

Attending the Conference? Stop by our Artifcts booth and say hello to the team! We're happy to show you how Artifcts can help bring your photos, stories, and memories to life. 

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Gone in a Woof: The Tragic Tale of Mr. Moose

Dear Reader, 

Allow me to introduce myself. My name is Sasso Piatto, destroyer of stuffies and Chief Happiness Officer here at Artifcts. I haven’t got much time as my Mum has stepped away from her laptop, and I know she’ll be back soon.  

Today’s topic? The importance of Artifcting ALL your life’s keepsakes because you never know what will happen next. Case in point, my cherished Mr. Moose.  

Mr. Moose was the love of my life (second only to bacon). We had been through thick and thin together. Mr. Moose was always up for adventures—mud puddle hopping, snow pile digging, and zoomies in the front yard. He was my constant companion, my snuggle buddy, and my best friend.  

And then, just yesterday, an unthinkable thing happened. My Mum got rid of Mr. Moose. One moment I was admiring my handy-work (who knew Mr. Moose had so much stuffing?) and then, gone! Into the trash. How could she?! 

Sure, he was well-loved (who doesn’t love a plush moose with squeaky antlers), but that doesn’t mean that it was time for him to go. My Mum claimed the stuffing was falling out of him (I think she needs new glasses) and that the squeaker was a choking hazard. As if! I swallow Milk Bones whole! Choking hazard, it was not.  

And the worst part is that she didn’t even pause long enough to let me ARTIFCT him. Not one photo. Not one solemn moment to stop and reflect on all the love and joy Mr. Moose has brought me over the years. Of all the people, of all the deeds. How could my Mum, the founder of Artifcts, TOSS MR. MOOSE OUT before I got to Artifct him? 

I beg you Dear Reader to take a moment today and Artifct That! It could be a favorite photo, a cherished piece of kid's art, or for the love of all, a favorite toy.  If you’re planning to declutter this spring (hello spring cleaning!) take a moment to Artifct those treasures before you (OR YOUR MUM) toss them out.  

Speaking of spring cleaning, I heard my Mum mumble something about re-homing the Everest sized pile of sticks I’ve accumulated outside the front door. For those of you not in the know, I’ve learned that “re-homing” really means removing. I’ve got to go! Time to Artifct my favorite sticks before they too disappear.  

Yours Truly, 

Sasso Piatto

PS. Happy April Fool’s Day! We hope today’s ARTIcles story from Sasso made you smile. You can  click here to view all of Sasso’s Artifcts  (written in his voice of course!).  

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The 1996 Nostalgia Trend: How to Save Your Memories for Future Generations

Where were you in 1996? Take a moment and really think about it. 

Where were you living? What filled your days? What music was on repeat, and what did your favorite outfit look like? Maybe you were heading off to school in flannel and Doc Martens, building a career in your first real job, or chasing toddlers around the house. Maybe 1996 was loud and exciting—or quiet and uncertain. Either way, it was yours. 

Lately, there’s been a surge of nostalgia inviting us to revisit that specific year. But the truth is, it’s not really about 1996. It’s about something much bigger. 

It’s Not Just 1996—It’s Any Year 

Pick a year. Any year. 1996. 2006. 2016. Last summer. 

Every single one holds a version of you that no longer exists—someone shaped by the people, places, and moments of that time. And tucked inside those years are vivid snapshots: the song that instantly transports you back in time, the hat you wore until it fell apart, the photo you’ve kept in a drawer for decades. 

We all have these anchors, the objects and memories that pull us back to “way back when.” A concert t-shirt isn’t just a shirt. It’s the night you sang every word with your friends, the feeling of freedom, the version of yourself that felt invincible. 

A certificate, a ticket stub, a handwritten note—these aren’t just things. They’re evidence of a life fully lived, in moments both big and small. 

The Small Moments Matter More Than You Think 

It’s easy to assume that only major milestones deserve to be remembered—graduations, weddings, promotions. But what about everything in between? 

Our co-founder Heather recently came across a stash of photos from her high school days and her daughter was in awe. The clothes! The hair! The concerts! Heather had forgotten how she had spent the summer of '96 working two jobs and attending every Phish concert within driving distance of her childhood home. Funny, because that's just what her daughter wants to do this summer. 

 

The everyday moments are often the ones that define us most: 

  • The summer you spent making friendship bracelets at camp
  • The first apartment that barely had furniture but felt like independence
  • The hobby you picked up on a whim that turned into a lifelong passion
  • The concert t-shirt you wore so often it became part of your identity 

These moments may feel small at the time, but they’re rich with meaning. And over time, they become the stories we wish we had captured more fully. Because memory fades. Details blur. And eventually, even the most vivid experiences can become harder to recall. 

Why Capturing Your Story Matters 

The people who come after us—our kids, grandkids, and beyond—don’t automatically know who we were. They might know the broad strokes. Where we lived. What we did for work. Maybe a few stories that get told again and again. But they don’t know what it felt like to be you in 1996. Or 1976. Or 2016. 

They don’t know what made you laugh, what you worried about, or what you dreamed of, unless you tell them. 

How to Turn Memories Into Artifcts 

That’s where Artifcting comes in. Artifcting is the act of preserving not just your objects, but the stories behind them—so they can live on far beyond your memory. Looking for an easy way to get started?  

  1. Start with What You Already Have

Look around your home. Open a drawer, a closet, or an old box in the attic.  Find something that instantly takes you back: 

  • A photo from the ‘90s
  • A concert t-shirt (Fun fact! Our Advisory Board Member Matt Paxton recently spent an afternoon with his teenage son Artifcting his vintage concert t-shirts from the 90s.)
  • A piece of jewelry
  • A letter or postcard 

If it sparks a memory, it’s worth preserving. 

  1. Capture the Story, Not Just the Object

Ask yourself: 

  • Where did this come from?
  • Why did it matter to me?
  • What was happening in my life at the time?
  • Who was I then? 

The object is just the entry point—the story is what gives it meaning. 

The object is just the entry point—the story is what gives it meaning
  1. Add Context That Only You Can Provide

This is the part no one else can recreate, especially the most well-intentioned AI-apps that promise to tell you your story. (Naturally, we have our doubts about that.)

Describe the details: 

  • What you were wearing?
  • Who you were with?
  • What the world felt like at that moment?

These personal insights transform a simple item into a living memory. 

  1. Preserve It Digitally

Open the Artifcts App and upload your photo or a photo of your item and pair it with your story. Now it’s not just stored—it’s documented, searchable, and shareable with the people who matter most. Bonus! Add audio or video too for greater context and details that only you can provide. 

  1. Share It Across Generations

Invite your family into the experience by privately sharing the Artifct with them. Your stories become a bridge—connecting generations through shared history, personal insight, and emotional truth. 

Your Story Is Still Unfolding 

Thinking back to 1996 might feel like a fun exercise in nostalgia. But it’s also a reminder: the life you’re living right now will one day be “way back then,” too. 

What from today will you wish you had captured? 

  • The coffee mug you use every morning
  • The playlist that defines this season of your life
  • The photo sitting unnoticed on your phone 

These are tomorrow’s Artifcts just waiting to be captured today. You don’t need a milestone. You don’t need a perfect story. You just need a moment—and the willingness to preserve it. 

So ask yourself again: Where were you in 1996? Then take the next step. Capture it. Tell it. Artifct it. Because your story deserves to be remembered—not just by you, but by everyone who comes after. 

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You might also enjoy reading these related ARTIcles:

Photos + Timelines Go Better Together

How to Artifct That Photo

How to Artifct That Heirloom

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