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Five Lessons From Artifcting With My Mother

Ellen Goodwin, Artifcts
April 12, 2022

I recently spent a few days back home in rural Wisconsin Artifcting with my mother. And guess what, we're still on speaking terms! I’m not a minimalist, but I do like to keep control of how much stuff is in my small home. Otherwise, I feel like it just zaps my mental energy. My mom is more sentimental and tends to hold onto things “just in case” so our styles can … clash. (Or at least seem to. Read a-ll the way to the end.)

Living in a 100+ year old farmhouse for the last 40+ years means that my parents have had a lot of time to accumulate and collect a delightful array of 'stuff.' As I'd hold up another object, open another drawer, or pull out still more boxes, the common refrain from my mother was, "I just set that aside to deal with another time." Sound familiar?

As a business owner and an adult child (and now parent myself), you can imagine I took a lot of mental notes along the way as we Artifcted together. I asked my mom for her notes, too, and am sharing our combined insights here to help you as you organize, declutter, downsize, or simply take a pause to reminisce and Artifct along the way. 

Two quick points before we dive in. For context, my mom did not have items pulled out ready to Artifct, because my visit was a surprise. I had a list I wanted to ask about – and we did work through it! – but we started working in my parents’ old bedroom, which they now use for storage. We had plenty of boxes, bags, closets, cedar chests and more to work with. Also, we Artifcted on mobile, iPad, and laptop to find the format that my mom liked best. Verdict: iPad.  

handwritten list of objects on notepad

Lesson #1. Know your goal.

My parents are not moving anytime soon. And the two of them occupy very little square footage in their home. There is no immediate need to get rid of anything. So, what then was our goal? Honestly, I wanted to start to become a bit more aware of which objects in my parents’ home had hidden meaning to them. My dad was more interested in a bit of clean out. My mom just wanted to spend time together, Artifcting. She said, “It’s fun to enjoy the process and remember along the way. You have to think, 'Hmm, why did I keep this thing?'” What this meant then was that as long as we created a few Artifcts together and had some recycling, trash, and donations to show for our time, we would please everyone. 

What and how much you want to Artifct is a key question, too, for us when the Artifcts team works in person with people through our concierge services. That way, everyone is pleased to have met mutually agreed goals. 

Lesson #2. Is anything off limits? 

I think by virtue of having moved so many times as an adult and living in a small house with an open floor plan with very little storage, there’s really nothing off limits in my home. My mom was more anxious about me digging into cedar chests, boxes, and paperwork without her first going through it. She wasn’t even sure what she had or what I would trip over, and she wanted to make the discovery first. Totally fine! We found a system so she could see or speak to an item first and then I’d help organize items for Artifcting, giving to another family member (usually one of my siblings), disposing, donating, or otherwise rehoming. 

Lesson #3. Take breaks to take photos. 

We wanted to get through large amounts of ‘stuff,’ but we also wanted to put things where they belonged to keep our working space clear. So, we’d take breaks to photograph items we wanted to Artifct later. These photo breaks were nice stress relievers, too, because sorting through so much can be a bit tiring and emotionally straining as you are washed by wave after wave of nostalgia. We’d also grab coffee and a snack during this break. 

Lesson #4. If you’re together, get the full story. 

Time is the devil. We all know this, but we like to ignore it. My brother was out of town, but I had my parents, my sister, and extended family (just an email or text message away) to help fill in the blanks about the history or backstory of photos and items we came across. We used these family resources then and there, sometimes even recording video or audio of the funnier or sappier stories on the fly (Check out tips for audio & video in our FAQs!), to capture what we could.

Sometimes we were unsuccessful in that the long history – “Who gave this to you, and when?” – was lost already but the current history – “I’ve just always loved this pin,” or “My sister gave it to me for a gift at some point,” – was a compelling reason in and of itself to Artifct an item and revealed my mom's why (as in, why did she still have this item anyway). 

Vintage flower pin with gold trim  vintage red floral apron with wooden handled wire pastry blender

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Lesson #5. Glad I asked! 

Some 'stuff' really is just stuff. No great story or history attached. At least you won’t have to wonder and stress about it one day if your friend or family member is no longer here and you are helping to disperse the estate. That chest of drawers you think is interesting? Those old matching sweatshirts? They look cool and served a purpose, but they have no remarkable stories. Totally fine. Keep and use or move along to someone else who will. No guilt! (Side note: My mom wasn't interested in the sweatshirts anymore, but I was and even had my own story to layer on top of them!)

Chicago paper company two-drawer cabinet     Vintage matching sweatshirts for Jimmy and Ding Dong

When I returned to Austin and took a look around my home, I had an ah-ha moment that would surely make my mother feel vindicated because as it turns out our styles do not clash as much as it may seem.

When she insisted on keeping multiple bags of old blankets because, "They're wool and could someday make good quilt lining," I took a breath and moved on but was frustrated. I was thinking that surely at 70+ years old my mom has a good idea whether quilting will actually be a part of her future, even if she lives to 100.

And, yet, I admit, I have bins in my attic with undergrad and grad school papers and books. Why? I always think, "What if I decide to teach?" you know, become a "professor of practice." Thing is, even if I did, would I really go back to these papers? And if that were remotely useful, why not just scan them and file neatly with a backup in the cloud. Okay, okay, Mom, keep your ratty old wool blankets. 

Now, everyone, if you get nothing else from this tale, remember, these Artifcts are for you. So, enjoy. Find the pace and process that works for you!

Happy Artifcting (with Mom)!

P.S. Be sure to check out the bonus epilogue! We think it will make you smile.

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When people ask me why I believe so deeply in what we're building at Artifcts, I could talk about technology. I could talk about digital preservation, AI, or the challenge of organizing a lifetime of memories. But the real answer is much simpler. 

It's my mom. 

Like so many families, as she got older, my brothers and I wanted to preserve her stories. We wanted our kids and grandkids to know not just who she was, but how she lived, what she loved, and why certain objects mattered. 

Through Artifcts, my mom documented more than 200 items, photos, and memories. She photographed treasured keepsakes, family heirlooms, travel souvenirs, and pieces of history that had found their way into our family over the decades. She told stories that otherwise would have disappeared. When she passed away, those Artifcts became one of the greatest gifts she left behind. 

 

As my brothers and I worked through her belongings, we didn't have to wonder what mattered most to her. We knew. We knew which objects carried special meaning, which family stories deserved to be passed along, and why she had a rather well-preserved eight-foot snakeskin on her bookcase.  

Without Artifcts, so much of that would have been guesswork. And yet...even with more than 200 Artifcts, we discovered something that surprised us. There were still chapters of her life we knew very little about. 

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Looking back through everything she created, patterns emerged. She documented many wonderful historic family items. She preserved memories from decades of travel and living overseas in such far-flung places as Kathmandu, Rio de Janeiro, and Liberia. She captured objects connected to raising a family overseas and building a life with our dad. 

However, there was remarkably little from her teenage years. Who was she before she became our mother? What were her dreams? What music did she love? What friendships shaped her? What challenges did she overcome before she ever met our father? 

Then we noticed another gap. The last twenty years of her life were barely represented. 

Without a doubt, those years mattered too. They included new friendships, changing priorities, becoming a grandmother to an ever-growing brood of grandchildren, adapting to life's inevitable changes, and countless everyday moments (hello Rummikub champion!) that become precious only after someone is gone.  

Those stories are largely lost to us now. Not because she didn't live them, but because none of us realized they still needed to be captured. We had patted ourselves on the back saying “yep, Gradnmom’s got 200 Artifcts, we’re good,” and, “we’ve heard that story a thousand times, there’s no way we’ll forget it.” Except, somehow, we have. We’ve forgotten the little details and I’m sure mixed-up others. 

Even Hundreds of Stories Leave Room for More 

One of the biggest misconceptions about preserving family history is that it's about finishing an enormous project. It's not. No one ever reaches the point where they've told every meaningful story. 

Life keeps happening. Your story changes every year. The person you are today is different from the person you were ten years ago. The memories that feel ordinary now may become the stories your grandchildren treasure most someday. 

I see this differently now than I did before losing my mom. When someone is still with us, it's easy to assume there will always be another holiday, another phone call, another chance to ask, "Tell me about when..." 

Sometimes there isn't. 

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People often ask whether Artifcts is really about the objects. The objects are important; they're the prompts. A cookbook becomes the story of Sunday dinners. A passport becomes decades of adventure. A baseball glove becomes a childhood friendship. A wedding ring becomes sixty years of marriage. 

 
 
 
 

Although the objects may anchor our memories, the real treasure isn't always the object itself. It's knowing why it mattered. If I could go back, I'd ask more questions. 

  • I'd ask about the years before I existed. 
  • I'd ask about the years I thought I already understood. 
  • I'd ask about the ordinary days that didn't seem remarkable at the time. 

I can't do that now, but I can encourage others to start today. Take time to document your own story. Take time to capture the stories of the people you love. 

Photograph the objects that matter. Record why they matter. Ask the questions you've been meaning to ask. Preserve the memories that seem obvious today, because one day they won't be. My one closing thought? Leave your loved ones a legacy, not a mystery.  

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If Only Our Passports Could Talk

Once upon a time, crossing an international border came with a satisfying thunk. 

An immigration officer would flip through your passport, stamp a page with ink, and send you on your way. That little mark became proof that, on a particular day, you stood in Paris, Tokyo, Buenos Aires, Cape Town, or Reykjavik. Your passport slowly transformed into a scrapbook of adventures, filled with colorful stamps, visas, and memories. 

 
 
 
 

Today, that ritual is quietly disappearing. 

As more countries adopt biometric entry systems, e-gates, and digital border processing, many travelers no longer receive passport stamps at all. Instead, passports are scanned, facial recognition verifies identity, and your arrival and departure are recorded electronically. Countries including Australia, Singapore, the United Arab Emirates, and much of Europe have increasingly embraced automated border controls. The United States also records many entries and exits digitally, and while stamps are still available in some circumstances, they're no longer the default for many travelers. 

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Why Artifct your passport? Because every stamp—even the faded ones—marks a chapter of your life. Because the best stories aren't always the smooth ones. Because one day someone you love may flip through your passport and wonder what those little ink marks meant. And because memories deserve more than a fading passport page or a forgotten folder on your computer. 

Artifcting your passport makes it easy to relive your adventures, revisit trip details when planning a return visit, and share recommendations with friends heading to the same destinations. No more hunting through old emails, scattered Google Docs, or paper files to remember the name of that unforgettable hotel, hidden café, or favorite museum. 

If only our passports could talk. Thankfully, with Artifcts, they finally can. 

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