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Artifcts & Painful Life Events Like Cancer

April 01, 2024

Reading time: 5 minutes

Life is life: A mixed bag of good and bad, amazing and terrible. We all know this and that each of these types of events shapes us. But what about these life events and your learnings from them do you want to remember and maybe even share?

In the context of cancer, we’ve walked through challenging times with some of our Arti Community members. Their life experiences have given us a window into how Artifcting can support those directly affected by cancer including the patients and the family and friends.  

Today we are sharing four examples of how Arti community members* have used Artifcting along their cancer journeys to inspire you or a loved one as you lean on Artifcts to help you through and beyond.

* Names and personal details are changed to protect the privacy of those who have shared with us.  

Margie: Decades Ago

Flower bouquets and messages of support.

When Margie joined Artifcts, she started Artifcting by going category by category through her home. One day she’d Artifct jewelry, another travel mementos, next family photographs and bibles, and so on. Artifcting quickly became a life habit. She Artifcts gifts, new to her antiques she purchases on outings with her friends, and so on.

One day back in January, while browsing through her old photos and sorting out those she wanted to Artifct the stories behind, she came across several of flower bouquets from more than a decade ago. She remembered. Each bouquet was an expression of support and sympathy as she went through treatment for breast cancer.

“I wanted to remember. It’s a wonder who shows up in these difficult moments,” said Margie.  

Bright mixed flower bouquet 

 
 
Message inside: "Thinking of you makes me think of sunny blooms."

Steve: There’s Only Today

Every pivotal life moment and framed reminder. Go!

Learning you have an inoperable tumor is a sobering moment. Everything you have dreamt for yourself for your days and years ahead is immediately vulnerable. Steve spent the first weeks of his partial diagnosis taking up Artifcting. He’d always thought Artifcts was a brilliant idea, but as years passed, he had yet to take the step to begin.

“When you realize tomorrow really might not come, priorities change.”

He Artifcted every day for weeks. He started with the present and worked backwards through time – his professional career, the lives and births of his children, his first home, university and high school days, and his own youngest years. He created all his Artifcts using photos he had easily at hand on his phone and in cloud storage. His Artifcts were brutally honest and often humorous, full of color and personality. Almost nothing he Artifcted was an item of value. 

The day came when the inoperable tumor became operable, there was simply no other choice. After a successful surgery, Steve turned to Artifcting his most financially valuable items and designating his future plans for each using the “In the Future” field in each Artifct. He’d come full circle from wanting his loved ones to know HIM to wanting to take the burden off of them, letting them know what to do with all his “stuff” someday, hopefully many years from now.

Corinne: The End is Near

Personal insights and family experiences captured in photos and mementos.

It’s human nature to want to be seen and heard, known for who you are, and remembered. Corinne had lived a full life, one that included a husband, children, multiple careers, and years of travel around the world, practically no corner unexplored. Twice she had been diagnosed with cancer. Twice she had survived.

This time was different.  

Her life-long best friend, who was retired, moved in with Corinne and her husband to help provide full-time care and to spend her final weeks together. Corinne, a professional writer, had one last goal to accomplish: a memoir. But how best to rapidly sum up a life and all the insights, lessons, and more she wanted to share with her children, grandchildren, and others? 

“I had already started to Artifct. My collection started with a few trips I took and blossomed from there. Now I knew it was time to start filling in the gaps. I set up tags I wanted to use to organize chapters and themes, and I got to it. Many Artifcts didn’t have any photos of items to start. I just recorded an audio or video to set the scene for the Artifct. [My friend] helped me to take and add photos and to search my files for originals I wanted to include. I want this memoir to be more than a book. I want it to be as full of life as my life truly was and be my thanks to them all for making it so special.”  

An Artifct with photo from Kenya

 
 
When writing memoirs, more often than not, travel will make an appearance. Click the image to view an example from our co-founder Ellen.

Ellen: Lest I Forget

The ins and outs of my cancer journey.

Okay, the name on this one is not changed, this is me, co-founder of Artifcts. I didn’t create any Artifcts about my cancer in the first months after my diagnosis. I had no compulsion to immediately because I had already Artifcted everything I valued most in my home, attic to desk drawer. I didn’t know what I wanted to Artifct about my cancer itself. It was all too raw and uncertain, to be honest.

Eventually I did create Artifcts about my cancer, but only after my surgery. The first was an Artifct with flowers, gifts, and cards. It was about the objects, mostly impermanent, as much as remembering how remarkable and humbling the outpouring of support was in those hard days. And the support came from tried-and-true friends of 35+ years and brand-new friends of no more than a week or two.

My second Artifct was in essence a journal. I don’t keep a journal or a diary. But in the months when I was not Artifcting, I was keeping a Word document by date full of the details of my appointments, thoughts, and experiences. I wrote it because I knew how easily I’d forget the details and emotions as time passed. And I wanted to be able to look back and remember so that if I ever met others going through a similar experience, I’d have my own personal experience to look back on.

Three Artifcts in a row, each about cancer

 
 
These Artifcts are private, but shared with Ellen's husband and daughter.

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No matter the painful life twists you’re facing, from disease to divorce to loss, we hope Artifcts can help bring you peace of mind and help you to relive and capture the moments you value most, one object, one photo, one "thing" at a time.

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What Will Your Family Remember? A Modern Family Archive for the Modern Family

In her recent New York Magazine article titled "What Are We Doing About Our Family Archives?" Kathryn Jezer-Morton raises a question many of us quietly avoid: what are we doing with our family stories, memories, keepsakes, and more?  

It’s the kind of question that quietly follows you into the attic, into the basement, into the moments when you open an old box and find yourself holding something that once meant everything to someone you love. A photograph with no names on the back. A recipe written in a familiar hand. A watch, a letter, a ticket stub—objects that feel heavy not because of what they are, but because of what they carry. 

Most of us don’t think of ourselves as archivists. And yet, in some ways, we all are. 

A body of research shows that family archives—photos, letters, heirlooms, even everyday objects—play a powerful role in how families understand themselves and pass meaning across generations. 

But here’s the challenge: most family archives are fragmented, overwhelming, and at risk of being lost. That’s where Artifcts offers a refreshingly modern approach. 

Your Family Archive, Reimagined 

Family archives are rarely neat or complete. They’re scattered across shelves and drawers, split between relatives, tucked into albums or forgotten in envelopes. And even when we hold onto the objects, the stories behind them begin to soften, blur, and eventually disappear. 

You might know what something is—but not why it mattered. That’s the quiet loss that happens over time. 

Artifcts offers a different way forward. Not by asking you to hold onto more things, but by helping you hold onto what matters most: the stories, the context, the meaning. 

Turning Moments Into Memories That Last 

Using Artifcts feels less like archiving and more like remembering—intentionally. 

When you create an Artifct, you’re not just cataloging an item. You’re pausing long enough to ask: Why is this part of my story? And then you answer it, in your own words, in your own voice. 

It might be an old photograph—one you’ve seen a hundred times but never really documented. You upload it, and suddenly you’re recalling the beach, the summer heat, the way your brother always stood just out of frame until someone insisted he joined. Maybe you don’t know everyone in the picture, but you know enough. And that’s enough to begin. 

Or maybe it’s a recipe. Not just ingredients and steps, but a ritual. The way the kitchen smelled. The way no one was allowed to sit down until everything was “just right.” You write it down, and then you add something more—a short video, perhaps, of someone in your family making it. Or an audio recording of you explaining why it matters. And don’t forget those “unwritten rules,” Grandma never did. Extra cinnamon, yes please! 

 

And just like that, something ordinary becomes something lasting. 

Hearing the Past, Seeing the People 

There is something powerful about hearing a voice again; seeing someone’s gestures, their expressions, the way they tell a story only they could tell. Artifcts allows you to add audio and video to your memories, and this changes everything. 

A written story is meaningful—but a spoken one feels alive. 

A written story is meaningful—but a spoken one feels alive. 

Imagine a future grandchild not only reading about a family tradition, but hearing it described in your voice. Seeing the way you smiled when you talked about it. That’s not just preservation. That’s a connection across time. 

Watching Your Story Unfold 

As you begin to add Artifcts, something unexpected happens. The moments start to connect. 

With our Artifcts Timeline feature, your memories are automatically arranged across years, decades, even generations. What once felt like isolated pieces becomes something more like a story unfolding. 

You begin to see patterns. Traditions that repeat. Moves, milestones, turning points. You see how one moment led to another, how a family becomes over time. Your kids and grandkids can see what made you “you.” And the entire family can better understand what matters most to you by the very fact of what you chose to Artifct.  

With Artifcts Timelines, your family archive is no longer just a collection. It’s a narrative pieced together by you over time. 

Letting Go Without Losing Anything 

If you’ve read this far and you’re dreading ending up with a basement full of everyone else’s stuff, fear not. One of the hardest parts of being the keeper of family history is the weight of it all—the responsibility, the volume, the feeling that letting go of something might mean losing it forever.  

Artifcts makes it possible to preserve the meaning of an item even if you decide not to keep the item itself. You can document it fully—its story, its significance, its place in your family—and then choose to pass it on, donate it, or simply let it go. 

What remains is what mattered all along. Not the object, but the memory it carried. 

A Living Archive, Not A Finished One 

Your family archive isn’t something you complete. It’s something you will continue. It grows as you remember more, as you ask questions, as you take the time to capture what might otherwise slip away. It becomes a shared space where stories live—not just for you, but for everyone who comes after you. 

And maybe that’s the real answer to the question Kathryn Jezer-Morton asked. 

We don’t need perfect archives. We don’t need everything organized and complete. We just need to begin. One photo. One recipe. One piece of jewelry. One story. 

Because in the end, it’s not the things we pass down that define us. It’s the meaning we choose to remember—and the care we take to make sure it isn’t forgotten. 

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© 2026 Artifcts, Inc. All Rights Reserved.

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Eco-Decluttering Made Easy: How to Clear Your Space Without Creating Waste

Today is Earth Day—a perfect moment to take a fresh look at the way we live with our stuff. In honor of Earth Day, we’re tackling eco-decluttering, a thoughtful approach to clearing your space that’s as kind to the planet as it is to your peace of mind. Because decluttering shouldn’t just make your home feel lighter—it should reduce waste, extend the life of everyday items, and help build a more sustainable future.

Decluttering used to come with a nagging question: Where does all this stuff actually go? If your answer has ever been “uh… the trash,” you’re not alone. A 2024 Talker Research report found that although 77% of respondants claim to make efforts to be as sustainable as possible, respondants average throwing away 12 items a day! That's a LOT of stuff. 

Welcome to eco-decluttering, where clearing your space and caring for the planet go hand in hand. At Artifcts, we like to think of it as a three-step process: remember, release, and rehome. Because the goal isn’t just less stuff—it’s less waste, more meaning, and a lighter environmental footprint.


🌱 Step 1: Declutter with intention (not impulse)

Before you start tossing things into bags, pause. Not forever, just long enough to decide what truly matters.

Artifcts reminds us that many of the hardest items to part with aren’t junk at all—they’re memory-filled objects: travel mementos, old books, heirlooms, or even that outfit from a milestone moment.

Instead of letting guilt or nostalgia stall your progress, try this:

  • Capture the story first (photos, audio, or a quick written memory)
  • Keep a few meaningful items
  • Let the rest move on

This approach helps you avoid the all-or-nothing trap and makes decluttering feel less like loss and more like curation.


♻️ Step 2: Sort smarter—think beyond the trash bag

A classic decluttering tip still holds up: sort items into clear categories like donate, recycle, repair, or sell. Even professional organizers recommend prepping these pathways before you begin so nothing lingers in limbo.

But eco-decluttering adds an extra layer: default to reuse whenever possible.

Ask yourself:

  • Could someone else use this as-is?
  • Can it be repurposed creatively?
  • Is there a responsible recycling option?

If the answer to all three is no, then it’s time to let it go.


🌍 Step 3: Give your items a second life (the Artifcts way)

Here’s where our Artifcts Going Green Guides really shine. Once you’ve decided to part with something, you have more options than you might think:

1. Donate with purpose
Many everyday items are in high demand:

Even hospitals, universities, and disaster relief groups often accept specific items like blankets, gowns, or toys.

2. Share locally
Your “declutter” pile might be someone else’s jackpot:

  • Offer items to neighbors or community groups
  • Use local “buy nothing” networks
  • Pass things directly to friends or family

3. Repurpose and upcycle
Before you donate, consider whether an item could live a new life:

  • Turn old china into wall art
  • Reuse glassware creatively
  • Transform sentimental fabrics into keepsakes, such as quilts or pillow coverings

Sometimes, breaking up a set or reimagining a use makes all the difference. Sarah Reeder, founder of Artifactual History, offers some creative tips for repurposing old silver sets on one of our previous Evenings with Artifcts episodes. 

4. Recycle responsibly
For items like electronics or worn-out goods, skip the trash:

  • Check municipal recycling programs
  • Use retailer take-back programs
  • Look for specialty recyclers

The key here being that your local landfill is the last resort, not the default.


💡 Bonus: The “Artifct Before You Let Go” Rule

On the fence about whether to rehome, recycle, or otherwise part with an item? Maybe it's got a great story, or evokes fond memories. One of the most powerful ideas from Artifcts’ Going Green philosophy is simple: Capture the story before the item leaves.

When you do this, you can preserve the meaning without keeping the clutter, feel more confident letting go, and create a digital legacy that’s easier to share with loved ones and friends. 

Suddenly, decluttering isn’t about getting rid of things—it’s about keeping what matters in a better way.


🌿 The Bigger Picture

The average home holds far more than it needs, and much of it eventually ends up in landfills. Eco-decluttering flips that script. It’s not just about organizing your space—it’s about participating in a more thoughtful cycle of ownership.

So the next time you pick up an object and wonder, “Should I keep this?” try a better question:

“What’s the best next life for this?”

Because when your clutter becomes someone else’s treasure—or gets a second life entirely—you’re not just tidying up. You’re doing a little good for the world, one drawer at a time.

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© 2026 Artifcts, Inc. All Rights Reserved.

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Spring Cleaning: The Clothing Edition

Spring has sprung and our closets are ready to spring forth as well. Clothing has a sneaky way of taking up space in our hearts AND in our closets, which is why this year we’re offering up some tips and tricks for spring cleaning dedicated to clothing and accessories.

Our expert tip on all things clothing? Artifct it, of course, and include a photo of you wearing it back in the day, if possible, to help you keep the memories, while you let go of the items you haven’t worn in years, if not decades.

But Artifcting is not the be all, end all. Are you ready to free up closet space? Let’s get started!

Seasonal Items

As you get ready to put your winter clothing into storage and take out your spring essentials consider what you actually wore this past winter and what you kept, thinking you WOULD wear.

In our household we make two piles—the “yes, I wore it” pile, and the “nope, never touched it pile.” We then take a hard look at that second pile to determine the reason WHY we never wore it. Was it not cold enough this winter? Does the item no longer fit? If the answer is yes to the latter, we consider who else might need or want it (nieces, nephews, etc.) or we pick our favorite charity to donate the item.

We also take a hard look at winter gear that has stood the test of time for years but may be on its way out. I broke down in tears this year over my husband’s beloved Patagonia down jacket. The memories, the adventures! However, it was hard to ignore the feathers seeping out of every seam. I found myself having to vacuum after every wear. We took it back to Patagonia hoping they’d be able to repair it as part of their Worn Wear Program, but alas, it was beyond repair. We agreed to let Patagonia recycle the jacket although not before Artifcting it!

 

Professional Clothing (aka Life Before COVID)

Remember when we used to get dressed up EVERY day and go into the office? The actual office. Not just our home office. Although memories fade, the clothing lingering in our closet(s) serves as a constant reminder of, “Oh yeah, I used to actually wear that stuff.”

This year I took a hard look at our professional clothes to determine what has a realistic chance of being worn again, and what can be relegated to the “life before COVID” bin (aka donation bin). We donate most professional clothing items to Dress for Success and sell a handful of items with TheRealReal. It’s amazing the closet space and hangers we regained this year when we were realistic about what we would wear post-COVID.

I admit there were some items I was reluctant to let go of because of the memories. My first pair of heels and my favorite ballet flats fell into this category. Both had been worn past any useful lifespan and yet, I didn’t want to let go. So, what’s a girl to do? You guessed it, I Artifcted them. And then I felt a little less guilty getting rid of them. Artifcts enabled me to keep the memories and let go of the actual ‘stuff.’

 

Kid Clothing

They grow so fast! My daughter’s closet is a ready target when it comes to spring cleaning. She’s now old enough to help with the process, and she knows once the items are donated she gets to pick out replacement items that fit. Extra motivation! And even together time since she’s now at the age when she loves to shop.

We usually donate the clothing she has outgrown to our local Goodwill store, although there are some items she’ll ask to keep and repurpose. She stunned us one year when she repurposed her old ballet tutu into a modern work of art!

T-Shirts

Yes, they deserve their own category. My dear husband has a way of coming home from every trip, conference, and work event with another t-shirt. We’ve relegated his t-shirt collection to one drawer and one under-the-bed bin. And yet. There are so many!

Although this go-around with spring cleaning most of his t-shirts were spared. Why? Because he wears them, all of them.

I, however, discovered that I had been holding on to a t-shirt in MY t-shirt bin that I hadn’t even worn. Not once. I was getting ready to Artifct it (and include photos and video of the event) when our youngest swooped in to claim it for herself. Being two sizes too big, it was declared “tres, tres chic.” Success! T-shirt re-homed. We often joke here at Artifcts that the best vintage shop in the world is probably Grandma’s closet! (Or in this case, my closet!)

 

Accessories

Since when did we own two dozen hats?

Like t-shirts, accessories tend to multiply like bunnies at least in our household. Hats, socks, and re-usable bags tend to be the worst offenders. Companies love to gift accessories as promotional materials, and most members of my household LOVE to accept those gifts. You see where this is going.

We have a bin dedicated solely to reusable bags, and another to hats. I took a hard look at both this past month and lovingly put out for free a dozen reusable bags and a half dozen hats. Much to my delight they were picked up within minutes of setting them out.

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On a roll? If you need some donation ideas outside the usual, check out the clothing section of Going Green. With Artifcts.

If instead you're ready for tips on decluttering and organizing beyond clothing, you may love our 15 Decluttering Targets for Artifcters or one of our Evenings with Artifcts episodes with Matt Paxton!

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