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The Three Things I Wish My Mother Had Artifcted

Heather Nickerson, Artifcts
May 10, 2023

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Losing a parent is never easy. For me, the loss of my mother also equated to the loss of our family keeper. The recipe remember-er, the re-teller of funny and sometimes true stories, the arbitrator of family history (not to mention all those dates, locations, and relations).

There are moments even now when I stop and think, “If only I could ask Mom.” Instead, for better or worse, I am now our family keeper, or, more aptly, our family can-you-remember-er with what details I do recall.

There are three things that I wish my mother had Artifcted. Of course, she would have to do it old school, with scrapbooks or maybe journals with photos inserted since nothing like Artifcts existed yet.

1.  Her recipes.  

My mother was an amazing cook, baker, and overall entertainer. Her cookies, cakes, and pies were famous, as was her award-winning blueberry buckle. I was fortunate to grow up watching her cook and learning the recipes by sight. Still. There are some substitutions I am left to guess. Some ingredients I am left to wonder, “Did she really put this in the recipe?” And some recipes that I simply can’t find and have yet to replicate. I KNOW she cooked them; I remember the dishes, and most of the ingredients. Where is the recipe?

2.  Her jewelry. 

My mother had some beautiful pieces of jewelry, but she was the only one that knew the stories behind them. I am left to guess at the details and try to piece together the who, what, when, where, and WHY. These are the details I would love to pass down to my daughter along with the actual jewelry, but I’m stuck relying on my six-year-old memory of what she might have told me the umpteenth time she caught me going through her jewelry box.

3.  Her books.  

Or rather, her favorite book(s). My mother was an avid reader, with 1000s of books in her collection. Some were old and well-loved; others were brand new and never opened. I wish I knew which books left an impact on her as a young adult and as an aging adult. Which ones did she go back to again and again? I’ll never know these little pieces of my mother that have somehow taken on even greater weight now that she is gone.

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I cannot change the past, so instead of being sad about what I do not have, I have turned it around to be glad and proactive about what I do have. I have my stories, my memories, and my history that I am busy creating every day. I have an inquisitive and smarter than smart daughter that is my everything.

So, what do I do? I Artifct for her, and whoever comes after her. I tell her my story, one Artifct at a time. I share with her all the details—big and small—that make me, well, me. And although she may not be ready to hear everything I have to say (I am after all “way vintage” if you ask her), I take comfort knowing that one day she will appreciate those details, and she will know me. The real me. I will not be a mystery to my daughter. She’ll have my Artifcts.

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What Should I Do with My Challenge Coins?

A promotion. A deployment. A mission accomplished. A moment of recognition from a commanding officer. A handshake with someone whose leadership left a lasting impression. 

For many members of the military and intelligence communities, these moments are commemorated with something small enough to fit in the palm of your hand, a challenge coin. 

But what exactly are challenge coins, and why do they mean so much? 

According to a 2017 US Department of Defense News article, the tradition of military challenge coins is commonly traced back to World War I, although its precise origins are debated. One popular story tells of an American pilot who carried a bronze medallion bearing his squadron's insignia. After being captured and escaping behind enemy lines, the medallion helped him prove his identity to French soldiers who might otherwise have mistaken him for the enemy. Whether or not that story is entirely true, the tradition of carrying coins as symbols of belonging, pride, and camaraderie took hold. 

Over time, challenge coins became an important part of military culture. They are often presented by commanders and senior leaders to recognize outstanding service, commemorate special events, celebrate achievements, or welcome someone into a unit or organization. Some represent an entire military branch or unit, while others commemorate a particular deployment, mission, promotion, or milestone. 

And here's what makes them so special—no two collections necessarily tell the same story. 

As we recognize Veterans Day, it's worth remembering that our military members serve our country day in and day out. Their sacrifices, accomplishments, friendships, and experiences are woven into the fabric of our nation's history. Yet so many of their stories go unnoticed or untold. 

Challenge coins offer a wonderful starting point for changing that. They're more than collectible pieces of metal. They're tangible reminders of the people, places, experiences, and moments that shaped someone's military journey. 

So, if you have a collection of challenge coins tucked away in a drawer, displayed on a shelf, or sitting in a box waiting to be rediscovered, let's talk about what to do with them—and, more importantly, how to preserve the stories behind them. 

Why Challenge Coins Are So Much More Than Coins 

At first glance, a challenge coin might look like a small, decorative token. But ask the person who received it, and you'll quickly discover there's often a lot more to the story. 

Unlike traditional medals or military decorations, challenge coins are frequently given as personal gestures of appreciation and recognition. They may commemorate a successful mission, acknowledge exceptional performance, mark a promotion, or simply recognize someone who went above and beyond. 

 
 
 
 
 
Challenge coins our co-founder Heather received for her service in Afghanistan. Sorry, this Artifct is private!

Some are given by commanding officers. Others are exchanged between service members, presented during ceremonies, or collected during visits to different bases and installations. 

And sometimes, the most meaningful coin isn't the one from the highest-ranking official or the most prestigious assignment. It's the one that reminds someone of a friend, a particularly challenging experience, or a moment when they realized just how much their service mattered. 

But here's the catch, over time, the coin stays...while the story can fade. 

Your children or grandchildren might discover a beautiful coin bearing an unfamiliar insignia. They might recognize the branch of service but have no idea what the coin represents, who presented it, or what was happening in your life when you received it. 

Without context, a meaningful piece of military history can become just another unidentified object in a drawer. 

At Artifcts, we believe it's not about the object. It's about the meaning. And challenge coins? They're packed with meaning. 

Step 1: Curate Your Collection—You Don't Need to Keep Every Coin 

If you've served for several years, or even decades, chances are you have accumulated quite a collection. And if you're helping a parent, spouse, or other veteran organize their belongings, you might be surprised by just how many coins they've collected along the way! 

The good news? You don't have to preserve every single one to preserve your story. 

Start by spreading out your collection and taking some time to revisit each coin. Look for the ones that represent particularly meaningful moments in your life. 

Consider prioritizing: 

  • A first: Your first unit coin, first deployment coin, or first coin received from a commanding officer.
  • A major milestone: A promotion, graduation, retirement, or completion of a significant assignment.
  • A special recognition: A coin presented by someone whose leadership, mentorship, or friendship made a difference in your life.
  • A defining experience: A coin commemorating a deployment, mission, humanitarian effort, or particularly challenging chapter of your service.
  • A meaningful relationship: A coin exchanged with a fellow service member, friend, or colleague who became an important part of your life. 

Step 2: Capture the Story Before It's Lost 

Here's where the magic happens. A challenge coin without its story is just an object. But a challenge coin with its story becomes a lasting piece of personal and family history. 

Think about it, what would your grandchildren learn if they could hear the story behind every coin in your collection? Before those details fade, take a few minutes to document them. 

Here are some questions to get you started: 

  • Who gave you the coin? Was it a commanding officer, fellow service member, or someone else?
  • When and where did you receive it?
  • What was happening in your military career or personal life at the time?
  • What does the insignia, emblem, or design represent?
  • Was the coin connected to a particular mission, deployment, promotion, or accomplishment?
  • What did receiving it mean to you? 

And don't stop at the official story. 

Maybe you received a coin after a particularly difficult deployment. Maybe it reminds you of the people who had your back when things got tough. Perhaps it came from a leader who recognized something in you that you hadn't yet recognized in yourself. 

Those are the details your family will want to know. 

Pro Tip! Don't worry about writing a perfect military history. A few sentences, a voice recording, or even a short video telling the story in your own words can make all the difference. Your voice, your perspective, and your memories are what make the story uniquely yours. 

Step 3: Photograph Your Coins and Preserve the Details 

Challenge coins are often beautifully designed, with intricate artwork, lettering, insignias, and symbols. Some are colorful, some are engraved, and others feature elaborate designs that commemorate a particular unit or event. 

When documenting your coins, be sure to capture: 

  • The front and back: Both sides may contain important details, including unit insignias, mottos, dates, names, and commemorative artwork.
  • The edges: Some coins have unique engravings or markings along the edges.
  • Any accompanying materials: If you have a presentation box, certificate, letter, or photograph associated with the coin, photograph those, too.
  • The collection as a whole: Take a photograph of your entire collection. The arrangement itself might tell a story about the progression of your military career. 

Pay attention to the small details. A date or insignia that seems obvious today may be difficult for someone else to interpret decades from now. 

One more thing—if your coins relate to sensitive assignments or operations, be thoughtful about what you share publicly. You can preserve the story privately without disclosing information that shouldn't be shared. 

Step 4: Decide What Stays (and What Goes) 

Once you've documented your coins and captured their stories, deciding what to do with the physical collection becomes much easier. 

Here are a few options to consider: 

  1. Display Your Favorites

Challenge coins deserve better than a forgotten drawer! Consider displaying your most meaningful coins in a shadow box, coin rack, display case, or framed arrangement. 

 
 
 
 
 

You might organize them chronologically, by military branch, by unit, or around significant milestones in your career. 

A display can become a wonderful conversation starter and an opportunity to share your experiences with family and friends. 

  1. Artifct Your Coins and Let Go of Some Physical Items

Not every coin needs to occupy physical space to remain part of your legacy. 

Photograph the coins you're ready to part with and pair those images with the stories behind them. With Artifcts, you can create a digital record of each coin, add photos, videos, and audio recordings, and preserve the details that might otherwise be lost. 

This is particularly helpful if you have dozens (or hundreds!) of coins but don't necessarily want to keep every single one. 

You can preserve the memories without keeping every physical object. 

3. Share Your Stories—They're Part of Our History 

Here's something we don't talk about enough: military service is full of stories that never make it into history books. 

There are the big moments, of course. The deployments, the promotions, the ceremonies, the accomplishments, and the milestones that families proudly celebrate. 

But there are also the smaller moments. 

The friendships forged during long days and nights. The person who stepped up when things got difficult. The commanding officer who took the time to recognize someone's hard work. The unexpected moments of humor and camaraderie that made even the toughest days a little easier. 

These stories matter, too. 

And challenge coins offer a wonderful way to bring them to life. 

Consider sharing your collection with your children, grandchildren, or other loved ones. Rather than simply showing them a display of coins, walk them through your military journey. Explain what each coin represents and how the experiences behind them shaped the person you are today. 

You might even be surprised by the questions they ask! 

With Artifcts, you can easily and privately share your coin collections and the stories behind them with loved ones. That way, your family doesn't have to wonder what a particular coin represents or try to piece together your military history after you're gone. 

The stories are already there, ready to be discovered. 

A Final Thought: The Coin Is Just the Beginning 

As we celebrate Veterans Day, we want to take a moment to recognize the men and women who have served our country, and those who continue to serve today. Their stories deserve to be heard today and every day. 

The challenge coins they collect along the way are more than symbols of achievement or membership. They're reminders of: the people who served beside them; the leaders who recognized their contributions; the challenges they overcame; the milestones they reached; and the experiences that changed them (and maybe even our own history). 

A challenge coin might be small enough to fit in your pocket, but the story behind it can be a lifetime in the making. So, whether you have five coins or five hundred, take a little time to document them. Capture the details. Record the stories. Share them with the people you love. 

The goal isn't necessarily to keep every coin forever. It's to make sure the memories, experiences, and personal history behind them aren't lost. The coin is the keepsake. The story is the legacy. 

This Veterans Day, give those stories the attention they deserve. Artifct your challenge coins and help ensure that the next generation knows not just what you received, but why it mattered. 

Happy Veterans Day and thank you to all who have served. 

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Looking for more inspiration? Explore more ways to preserve the stories behind the things that matter most: 

What Should You Do with Old Trophies? 

What Should You Do with Old Cards and Letters? 

What Should You Do with Old Photo Albums? 

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Preserving Family Traditions, One Recipe at a Time

For parts of the United States, sweater weather is officially here, and with it comes an increasingly frenetic pace of to-do's as we approach the holiday season. Old St. Nick is not the only one making a list and checking it twice—our co-founder Heather has already started a list of recipes (and ingredients!) needed to pull off a family Thanksgiving feast, and we know she is not alone.  

Here at Artifcts, we want to help you reclaim the joy (and meaning!) that goes along with the holidays all season long. Our starting point? Our kitchens, and more specifically with our cookbooks and recipes, because chances are the recipes that we make and love are not solely about the ingredients, but about the memories, traditions, and family stories that make the holidays so special.  

Why it matters: cookbooks, recipes, and memories 

It might surprise you that in researching this story we discovered that the average American family owns at least 15 cookbooks, and that three in ten women have a cookbook collection, according to Morris Cookbooks, the largest cookbook publisher in the US. Informal online discussions meanwhile suggest many households own dozens—or even hundreds—of cookbooks, far surpassing the “average.”  

Why does that matter now, especially as we head into the holiday season? Because recipes aren’t just instructions. Researcher Eleonora Sava highlights this point in her 2021 article titled, Family Cookbooks—Objects of Family Memories. Sava describes recipes and cookbooks as objects of memory as they record more than ingredients and steps. According to Sava, cookbooks capture handwriting and family tastes, and link generations through the act of cooking.  

...recipes and cookbooks [are] objects of memory as they record more than ingredients and steps.

And as the holidays approach—when families gather, when traditional dishes make their annual appearance, when memories of past celebrations resurface—the meaning of a recipe goes far beyond the kitchen. A dish becomes a link to a grandparent, a holiday table, a childhood kitchen smell, or a moment of togetherness.  

So how can you best preserve those family traditions in an organized, shareable way—especially heading into the holidays? Hello Artifcts! 

Artifcts allows you to capture not only the recipe itself, but its origin, stories about the person who made it, the holiday or event it was tied to, notes (handwritten or digital), and even things like family anecdotes, ingredient variations, or why it matters to you. With Artifcts, a recipe becomes far more than a page in a cookbook—it becomes a shareable, searchable, multimedia keepsake. 

 

Click the image to view Matt Paxton's family cookbook that he Artifcted. 

How to Artifct your recipes to preserve traditions, stories, and memories 

Intrigued? Want to give it a try? We’ve compiled the below step-by-step guide to help you begin Artifcting your family recipes and preserving your culinary heritage ahead of the holidays: 

1. Gather your recipes and the accompanying keepsakes 

  • Pull together all the physical and digital items. 
  • Don’t forget handwritten index cards, printed family cookbooks, scraps of parchment with notes, old magazine cut-outs, even photos of the dish or the family moment. 

2. Photograph the key items you want to include in the Artifct 

  • Don’t worry, you can always go back and edit it if you forget something! 

3. Add the story behind each recipe 

  • Who cooked it originally?  
  • When/where was it typically served? (Holiday dinner each December, Sunday brunch, etc.)
  • What makes it special? The ingredient twist? The aroma? The family joke tied to it?
  • Write (or record video or audio) short anecdotes: “I remember the year the turkey caught fire and we still served this cranberry relish…”
  • Photograph: The dish itself, the handwritten card, the cook in action, the table-setting from past years. 

4. Organize, organize, organize 

  • Use Categories (Home → Recipes and Occasions → Holidays)
  • Create custom tags to easily sort and search, e.g., #MomsRecipes, #FamilyFavorite, #Handwritten, #Thanksgiving2026, etc. 

5. Share and invite contributions 

  • Privately share recipes with relatives (near or far) via link or invite.  
  • Give loved ones “Editor” access so they can collaborate and even add variations or their own memories, if you want them to. 

You might discover after Artifcting your family recipes you may be willing (or able) to downsize and declutter your cookbook collection. Consider retaining the cookbooks you actively use, the sentimental ones, and let others go (donate, recycle, give away) knowing your family’s tradition lives on in your Artifcts collection. This is especially helpful ahead of holidays, when you may want to free up space, reduce clutter, simplify your kitchen area and keep the heart of your culinary heritage intact.

Why Artifcting wins vs. pure cookbooks 

  • Shareability: Traditional cookbooks are fine for the in-house chef, but sharing them across generations, branches of the family, or geographically separated relatives is harder. With Artifcts, you can privately share with cousins, grandchildren, or nieces and nephews, invite contributions, and access from anywhere. 
  • Context & story: A cookbook often gives you a title, ingredients, steps—but rarely the story: “why Grandma always added nutmeg,” or “how this dish saved the day when the oven broke on Christmas Eve.” Artifcts preserve the memory, not just the mechanics. 
  • Searchable & customizable: You can tag by holiday, ingredient, dietary restriction, chef-in-the-family, etc. Over time you build an archive that you can browse by event or person—far more flexible than a static bookshelf. 
  • Space & organization: If your cookbook collection is growing unwieldy (shelves overflowing, dusting stress), Artifcting gives you a chance to digitize key recipes + stories, reduce physical clutter, and still keep the heritage alive. It’s a win-win: fewer books, more meaning. 
  • Legacy and future-proofing: Physical cookbooks may fade and get lost; handwritten cards may deteriorate. A thoughtfully maintained digital archive ensures these traditions aren’t lost, even if a physical book is damaged or thrown out. This matters especially for holiday-linked dishes that may only appear once a year. 

 

Final thoughts 

Family recipes are more than just good food. They are the threads that weave together generations, holidays, kitchens, stories, aromas, and memories. As Sava noted in her article on family cookbooks: “The family cookbook becomes an album of memories… the handwriting may summon the image of the person who wrote that recipe.”  

“The family cookbook becomes an album of memories…"

By taking the time now—before the holiday rush—to Artifct your cherished recipes, you’ll be gifting your family a legacy of meaning as well as a well-curated digital archive rich with stories, photos, and flavors. It’s he kind of heirloom that can travel across generations far easier than a shelf-full of cookbooks. 

So, pull out your recipe box, gather those favorite dishes, invite your family to tell you the “why” behind them—and get started preserving your traditions, one recipe at a time. 

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Looking for more tips on HOW to Artifct your recipes? Check out our guide, How to Artifct Recipes to help you get started. 

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Forget the Ghosts. Fear the Mystery Photo Box.

It was a dark and stormy night…The guests set out for a rooftop party under the cloud-covered sky. The year? Somewhere in the 1960s. The costumes? Delightfully questionable and all homemade. The photos? Priceless. 

Cue the spooky music.  

There were disguises, perhaps a little mischief, and the kind of party stories that get better with every retelling. But decades later, one very important detail could have been lost to the mists of time: Who were those people in the pictures? 

 
 
 
 
 
Sorry, this Artifct is private! What happend in Monrovia, will stay in Monrovia. 

Thankfully, one of our Artifcts members had the foresight to Artifct the memory of that costume party. She captured the story behind the photo, preserving the details her family might otherwise never have known. Now, her sons can look at the picture and pick out their parents among the costumed revelers. 

Without that story? Well, it might as well have been a gathering of ghosts. And THAT, my friends, is the truly spooky part. 

The Haunted House of Unidentified Photos, Heirlooms, and More 

Picture this: Years from now, your family gathers to sort through the boxes of belongings you've left behind. Someone opens a dusty carton labeled Photos — Miscellaneous. 

Inside are faded snapshots, mysterious trinkets, holiday decorations, and a recipe card stained with something that might be pumpkin puree. (Or is it ectoplasm? Hard to say.) 

Someone holds up a photograph. “Who are these people?” Silence. 

“Is that Grandma?” 

“Maybe? I think this was a Halloween party?” 

“Which Halloween party?” 

And just like that, a precious piece of family history becomes an unsolved mystery. No amount of detective work, séance scheduling, or frantic group-texting can guarantee the answers will ever be found. 

Okay, maybe that's a little dramatic. But isn't that what makes Halloween the perfect time to talk about preserving family memories? 

The scariest thing isn't a ghost in the attic or a skeleton in the closet. (Well, maybe that depends on your closet!) It's the possibility that the stories behind the things we treasure will disappear right along with the people who remember them. 

Don't Let Your Family Memories Disappear into Thin Air 

Halloween is full of traditions worth remembering. And we're not just talking about the year your neighbor's inflatable skeleton took flight during a windstorm. Think about the things your family does year after year: 

The pumpkin chronicles. Who insists on carving the most elaborate jack-o'-lantern? Who creates a masterpiece, only to have it collapse before trick-or-treaters arrive? And who saves every last pumpkin seed for roasting with just the right amount of salt? 

The costume hall of fame. From homemade superhero capes to questionable wigs and elaborate family group costumes, those pictures deserve more than a date scribbled on the back. Who made the costumes? What inspired them? And which one took home the neighborhood's unofficial prize for best disguise? 

 
 
 
 
 

The recipes that haunt your kitchen—in a good way. Mom's pumpkin spice coffee cake. Dad's famous chili before trick-or-treating. The caramel apples everyone pretends aren't sticky enough to require a full cleanup crew. Write down the recipe, sure, but don't forget the story. Who first made it? What makes it special? Who always asks for seconds? 

These aren't just seasonal activities. They're the moments that become family lore—the stories your children will someday tell their children, if only they know where those stories began. 

Artifct the Memories Before They Become Mysteries 

Here's the good news, you don't need a crystal ball, a detective's notebook, or an encyclopedic memory to preserve your family's history. You just need to Artifct it. 

With Artifcts, you can capture a photo, record the story behind it, and preserve the details that give an object or memory meaning. That way, the next generation doesn't have to guess who was hiding beneath the witch's hat or why Dad's 1970s vampire costume involved so much questionable fake blood, i.e. ketchup. 

Start with one Halloween memory. Upload that old costume-party photo. Add the names, the year, the location, and the story everyone still laughs about. Include the funny details, the family legends, and even the parts you're not entirely sure about. 

Then keep going. 

Artifct the costumes you've saved in the attic. The pumpkin-carving photos. The handwritten recipe for roasted pumpkin seeds. The decorations that come out of storage every October, along with the memories that come rushing back. 

And if you have a box of old photographs waiting to be identified? Consider this your friendly, slightly spooky nudge to get started. The goal isn't simply to preserve stuff; it's to preserve the why behind it—the people, the traditions, the laughter, and the stories that make ordinary things extraordinary. 

This Halloween, Give Your Family a Treat That Lasts 

Long after the candy wrappers have vanished, the pumpkins have rotted, and the costumes have been packed away, your family memories can live on. 

So go ahead. Dust off those old photos. Rescue that recipe card. Tell the story behind the costume that made everyone laugh. And please, for the sake of future generations, identify the people in the pictures! 

After all, the only thing scarier than a haunted house is inheriting a box of family treasures and having absolutely no idea what you're looking at. This Halloween, don't leave your family's stories to the ghosts of memories past. Artifct today, remember always.

Happy Artifcting, and Happy Halloween! 

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